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How to know when someone wants to bottom?

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How does the discussion of bottoming come up for you guys? Ive only messed with a couple of guys before and when I bottom I will usually just ask if my partner wants to fuck me. But, when I want to fuck I have always felt weird about asking. Ill have a guy grinding on my dick with his ass which is good, but i dont BB and I do not want him just to slide it in. So when that happens I just ask if he wants me to fuck him. Sometimes they do, sometimes they dont. I fine with either - I dont need to fuck. I feel like I should let my partner initiate it but again, I dont want him to just slide it all in.

So in your opinion who should take the lead on fucking. The fucker or the fuckee?
 
It's more of a turn-on for me when the fucker takes control of the situation. But I guess it depends on your partner!
 
If we are all honest and dont play too many games its not hard to communicate and get what we want .
I dont think about who should speak first , when you have a thought spit it out !
If i know a bloke is gay/bi i'll start a conversation with " would you like to shove your cock down my throat? "
When i've finnished choking myself i'll ask if he wants to pound my ass ( iff he hasn't stuck it up me already ) if he's not into that i'll just keep sucking untill he dumps a load in my thoat :D
 
My guess is that most fuckees want the fucker to be in control. The discussion about condom usage is best before hardons are involved. This is just my humble opinion.
 
I am secretly bi but I prefer bottom to top. I just suck his dick first which puts any guy in control. Then my body is his.

You can always roleplay, once I pretended to be a girl, was brilliantly hot.
 
Rocky2500 said:
I am secretly bi but I prefer bottom to top. I just suck his dick first which puts any guy in control. Then my body is his.

You can always roleplay, once I pretended to be a girl, was brilliantly hot.
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You are one Freaky Bisexual Man-Slut...I think I Love you...:lol:....
 
I tell the guy up front that I am a total bottom. That will take the guess work out of the hook up real quick.
 
Exactly. I would imagine if you're a bottom and he's a top then it all works itself out, right? At least, that's how I've always played.

mbamike said:
I tell the guy up front that I am a total bottom. That will take the guess work out of the hook up real quick.
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Even when it's a online hookup and I know a guy's coming over specifically to get fucked, I always like to ask. It usually turns us both on. I love it when a guy says: "I want you to fuck me."

It's harder if it's someone from a bar and I don't know if he's a top or a bottom. Then I usually say: "What do you like?"
 
In my own experience this did not pose a great problem. My partner and I had bonded in deep friendship; the sex was fantastic and included lots of cocksucking. 69ing was our favorite mode, but we were often explosring each other's bodies with our tongues. One afternoon we were both bare-assed-naked on the white sheet of his bed and he was laving the area between my balls and my manhole with his tongue; sensing what was in his mind I gave him the go-ahead to try to fit his cock into my waiting hole. [/SIZE][/CENTER]

He was a most careful and caring partner and the entry was made a minimun of discomfort and without pain. We paused to take in that moment when our two bodies were joined. My own state of excitement kept my erection firm throughout and when he discharged his load into my ass and then moved to tease my cock with his becummed cock I delivered my load. My "review" of my experience was so glowing that my partner was eager for me to "do" him. something I was always happy to do frequently during our last two years of high school.

I should add that we had the luxury of a handy bathroom and a wonderful zone of privacy which allowed for good foreplay, and unhurried sexual communion.

My teen partner and I never stopped thinking of ourselves as regular guys; we assumed that what we were doing was simply "doing what came naturally.
 
I am a "versatile bottom", so I will top and can really get into it, so to speak. Sometimes it's hard to tell what a guy is really into if you just let things develop. A dude can be hot, hung and masculine and really need to get fucked, and pretty fem dude can bounce ya in the sack, too. Usually, if a guy is grabbin my ass or not, that is a big clue. If he's feelin my crotch and suckin my dick and not doin anything with my hole, then I do go fo the hole, and am rarely surprised, if that makes sense. I think the BOTTOM/TOP ratio in the world generally is about 80/20 for some fucked up reason.
 
If you take control of the situation then you can take the position of the top....Well, that's how it always works out for me. Just, i don't know ive never had to ask just do it.
 
Rick000123 said:
How does the discussion of bottoming come up for you guys? Ive only messed with a couple of guys before and when I bottom I will usually just ask if my partner wants to fuck me. But, when I want to fuck I have always felt weird about asking. Ill have a guy grinding on my dick with his ass which is good, but i dont BB and I do not want him just to slide it in. So when that happens I just ask if he wants me to fuck him. Sometimes they do, sometimes they dont. I fine with either - I dont need to fuck. I feel like I should let my partner initiate it but again, I dont want him to just slide it all in.

So in your opinion who should take the lead on fucking. The fucker or the fuckee?
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If your in the position where he is grinding your cock with his ass then it shouldn't to hard to whisper in his ear "you want a bit of that don't you boy?" From there you just have to decide how much you are going to make him beg for it.
 
When you go to a bathhouse or a sauna, if a guys lays on his stomach that means he wants to get funk in the ass

If he lays on his back that means he wants a blow job

If YOU want to GIVE a blow job, walk around until you see the guy on his back….
 
Rick000123 said:
How does the discussion of bottoming come up for you guys? Ive only messed with a couple of guys before and when I bottom I will usually just ask if my partner wants to fuck me. But, when I want to fuck I have always felt weird about asking. Ill have a guy grinding on my dick with his ass which is good, but i dont BB and I do not want him just to slide it in. So when that happens I just ask if he wants me to fuck him. Sometimes they do, sometimes they dont. I fine with either - I dont need to fuck. I feel like I should let my partner initiate it but again, I dont want him to just slide it all in.

So in your opinion who should take the lead on fucking. The fucker or the fuckee?
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I think good old-fashioned communication is a great way to get what you want and stay within your limits.

As a 100% bottom, I'll make it known at the outset that I want to be fucked, and in a casual / hookup situation, it's only happening with protection. At that point, maybe he's not looking to fuck, or he wants to fuck bareback, or for any one of a myriad of reasons I'm not getting his cock. That's fine, we can politely decline and move on like adults. If roles and limits are agreed to, I'm happy for the fucker to take the lead from there if he wants, or if he seems unsure or inexperienced I'll lead him - I can gauge the dynamics and go with the flow.

If you want to fuck, say so. If you want to be fucked, say so. If you don't want to do it bareback, make it clear from the outset; don't just hope that he won't shove it in. Your body is your temple and you're entitled to admit worshippers under your rules.
 
I just drop my pants get on my hands and knees and present my ass and wait for to slide in 🥰
 

How to know when someone wants to bottom?​



I always meet my hook ups on an adult website. I make it very clear in my profile that I am a bottom only and I only have anal if the chemistry is right. If a man shows interest in my profile and contacts me there will be an exchange of e-mails followed by a phone call where we talk about what we like sexually, what we don't like,, how experienced we are, do we swallow etc. I make it clear that I only really know if there is chemistry for anal when we actually meet up in person. The man has to be fit and have the kind of attitude, body, cock and style that appeals to me. If I feel that we have chemistry and he asks me if he can fuck me I will say yes and if he doesn't do that then I will ask him if he wants to fuck me.
 
Usually guys tell me, and/or i'll tell them i am a top.

The last guy i hooked up with was sucking my dick and stopped to bend over and asked me to fuck him.
 
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