How to make it last?

[winterknight]

Even if I take it slowly and try to hold it off, I've hardly ever been able to make a wank last more than five minutes. And then I usually lose interest for several hours.

Any suggestions on how to make it last longer? If I ever actually manage to get a BF, I don't want to disappoint in this regard...

 

[3nipples]

WHEN you actually manage to get a BF, you'll find that it's not the same as wanking. I can last practically forever with a guy, whereas with wanking I'm not sure I can even claim 5 minutes.

 

[BenF]

WHEN you actually manage to get a BF, you'll find that it's not the same as wanking. I can last practically forever with a guy, whereas with wanking I'm not sure I can even claim 5 minutes.

Before you get a boyfriend, you spend all of your time thinking "Great, I can't wait to have a boyfriend, I won't have to wank again"

When you get a boyfriend, you spend most of your time thinking "Great, he's going out, I can have a wank now".

It's a funny old world.

 

[Invidious]

WHEN you actually manage to get a BF, you'll find that it's not the same as wanking. I can last practically forever with a guy, whereas with wanking I'm not sure I can even claim 5 minutes.

Ain't that the truth..it I'm just wanking..I can do the deed in 5 min or less sometimes. Takes longer with a guy...sometimes too long.

 

[jockboy01]

LOL.... I was going to say the opposite. I can last forever wanking, but guys are so rare that it's hard for me to last at all. Luckily, I'm young and go for round two pretty easy.

As to the problem, it's all about knowing your body and limits. And then being able to hold to those. If that doesn't work, a lidocaine jelly would probably do the trick as it'll make you less sensitive.

 

[3nipples]

Less sensitive means you feel less sensation and I don't see the point of doing something that feels good if you're not going to feel it.

Those of you who can't last with another guy, try prolonging your hard on with foreplay for an hour or so before you get serious and I bet you'll last longer... possibly even too long.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Edging should be able to help build up the resistance.

 

[ailes]

Edging doesn't build up any resistance for me. I can edge on my own or with another guy for hours and hours, but if I'm with a guy who's not into edging I can be done before he's even really hard.

 

[winterknight]

I've never been able to manage it.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Edging doesn't build up any resistance for me. I can edge on my own or with another guy for hours and hours, but if I'm with a guy who's not into edging I can be done before he's even really hard.

It's like going to gym with progressive overload training to build up your muscles. Same with edging where you endure holding back as long as you can.

 

[winterknight]

Like I said, I can't edge at all.

 

[alley]

guess I am a expert---amateur of course but still....so sad bragging about my skill at jerking off---but I have taken full afternoons and just stroked and stroked until...sometimes just because my dick was getting a bit raw--finally cum. You just have to back off when you feel your balls start to tighten up---or a few seconds before that first spurt. If you squeeze the head of your cock as you feel a orgasm building that should help slow you down--or try pulling down on your balls (gently)---

 

[budgieboy]

Before you get a boyfriend, you spend all of your time thinking "Great, I can't wait to have a boyfriend, I won't have to wank again"

When you get a boyfriend, you spend most of your time thinking "Great, he's going out, I can have a wank now".

It's a funny old world.

That is SO funny, and SO true.

He says, mid-wank....!

 

[wetboy69]

How fast are you chugga chugging dude?

You need to chill out, take some time and enjoy your cock. It will also allow you to get in touch with yourself so that when you meet Mr right, you'll know what feels good on you and you can try it on him.

What is it they say? To love someone else you need to love yourself!

Try easing off on the shaft, and explore the head. Focus on the actual wank, not the cumshot, as so many guys wank to cum not wank to wank and enjoy the many sensations that can be experienced.

It's a multi tiered activity with many stages reached, the ultimate of course being the "zone" which is attainable when you edge for a good few hours or more.

I reckon you're doing it too fast.

 

[sixthson]

Hook up with AndrewD, I think you'll find 5 minutes will be about 4 minutes too long.