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how to meet ppl in clubs

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hey there horny guys.
before a week i started going out to gay bars/clubs.all i see all around is ppl kissing and making out.
im going there with my gay friends and i want to meet new guys but i dont really know how to.the thing is im 18 and most guys there are around 25 and over,so i dont really feel like making the first step,and even if i wanted,i dont know how to.
im kinda shy etc but i can do some stuff,i mean i always dancing really invitingly sexy,i cant see some guys starring me but thats all,nth ever happens.
i dont know whats wrong with me guys,i mean im not the hottest guy ever,but im definitely not unattractive.
what should i do? how can i go for it?
thnx in advance..:gogirl:
 
>>>i can see some guys starring me but thats all,nth ever happens. i dont know whats wrong with me.

People often ask, "How come nobody comes and talks to me?"

To which I ask, "How many people did you go and talk to?"

People find this strange. They seem to think it should be up to the OTHER single guys to come approach THEM. Why? Because they're shy, I guess. Or because they're afraid of rejection.

Yes, if you don't go talk to anyone, you won't ever get rejected. You probably won't ever get laid, either.

If someone appears to be alone, and appears to be looking at you, get up and go talk to him!
Lex
 
the problem is that everyone,(even the guys that starring me),arent alone..
 
well, the funny thing is...yer 18...you can talk to whoever you want to...lol. from my experience in clubs, which is minimal...the trick it to get really drunk, or pretend to be drunk and just start falling on people...you will be making out like a porn star in seconds!! lol im only half kidding. the thing is if the music is so loud you cant hear a damn thing, you arent really supposed to be talking. yer supposed to be making out or dry humping on the dance floor...and drinking alot!! I dont really feel comfy with any of this so i dont really go anymore. And i wouldnt worry too much about the guys not being alone either. they will either both take you home or the one not grabbing your ass will find someone else's ass to grab.
 
You'll never know if you don't try. Step out of that shy mask and don't be afraid to approach someone. Don't feel offended if you're ignored or offended, that jerk is missing out. Go on and get yours.
 
Just be willing to face rejection...it is going to happen! some guys think they are hot shit, some will know right away if you are their type or if you vibe with them, and others will be more down to earth and want to talk to new people.

If I see someone I think is hot/want to talk to, i'll dance near them, kinda bump them with my butt or something, then if they turn around say hi or dance with them.
 
hit on some hot guys, sooner or later you will score.
 
Please, don't get drunk, you won't have full control of yourself and then just look like a young boy. Drink, but get to that point where you are just feeling nice and enjoying the atmosphere, music and the people.

But I think if you actually move around like, for example. Within 15 minutes make a trip to the bathroom and take the longest route possible to and from your friends. The game is about seeing and being seen. Also eye contact, from there you can graduate to what I love the most, eye fucking. LOL Then flirting, convo, and whatever you have planned next.

Be yourself, if a man can't accept you for you, fine, there are many more. I have been to Athens, you have choices.;)
 
Maybe your too shy. You're too shy if a guy looks at you, and you turn away. If so, work on your "come hither" look. :D
Really though. Im shy myself and I never go up to guys to talk to them. They always come to me. Even if Im with a bunch of friends. Im usually the quiet one and when some guy/s come over, theres always someone thats coming on strong to me.
I love giving guys the look. The -cute shyboy look- or the -I would fuck your brains out look.
I take all my tips from what women say they do when they go to clubs.
 
I don't go to the gay clubs anymore, but I used to be really good at getting guys for 1-night-stands, so assuming that's what you are looking for (and to be honest that's probably the only thing you'll find there) here's my advice:

1. Go alone, yeah you might feel kind of weird going by yourself, but the leopard doesn't take his friend the lion when he goes hunting for gazelles. If you do go with someone else let them know you'll probably end up leaving with someone else and make sure they are ok with that.

2. Don’t drink too much. Keeping a clear head will stop you from doing anything you’ll regret the next morning.

3. Walk around the bar and pick your favourites. Don’t be afraid of rejection, yeah it suck, DEAL WITH IT!

4. MAKE EYE CONTACT. If you see someone you like it's ok to stare at him, wait for him to look back and SMILE! And make eye contact if he’s not alone, he’s just probably with friends. If he had a boyfriend he would probably be at home fucking him.

5. USE YOUR LEGS. Don't wait for him to come to you. You have legs use them to walk towards the guy not to kick yourself because you can’t meet any guys at the gay bar.

4. Once you start talking with him suggest to go somewhere less noisy, loud music doesn't help conversation and there are way too many guys in there make sure his focus stays on you and not the twink dancing on the bar.

5. Once you are talking with him make sure to SMILE and be FRIENDLY. Also don’t be afraid to touch him or just ask him if he would like to dance that way you can touch all you want.

6. If you do end up going to his place or taking him to yours remember to be SAFE, use a condom.

7. If you liked him in bed and his conversation didn’t bore you to death don’t be afraid to leave your phone number and/or email.

8. Remember the most important: SMILE and BE FRIENDLY. Also be safe, always bring condoms with you if you are going to the gay bar.

BTW The age difference is unimportant when I was 18 I fucked a 38 years-old guy, mid you he was freaking hot and British, as soon as I hear the accent I got super horny.
 
I know where ur coing from man, when I'm in the bar, I dont know what to do/say, gonna take some of theese tips next time tho
 
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