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How to remove sex completely from my life?

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My sexual desires are causing nothing but problems for me.

I woke up this morning super horny and masturbated. After I masturbated, there was a pain at the tip of my penis. I think this is a sign I should remove everything sexual from my life.

Plus I'm attracted to every guy I see - even family members and I find it sick. I have the urge to pull down my underage cousin's pants and do dirty things to him. But he's way younger than me, and he's not even a teenager yet.

And then I had a health scare months ago after I stuck something up my butt with no lube, causing me to bleed and have uncomfortable feelings months after.

I need to remove sexual thoughts from my life. How do I do it?
 
Maybe if you got a bf you would get your urges under control?
 
I wouldnt suggest a bf, but maybe an Fb :). It sounds like you have more issues than you are explaining here, and you are projecting them on your sexuality. You dont want to start a relationship with all of that going on in your head.

Also, use more lube, when jacking off and when sticking "something" up your butt.
And maybe watch porn with some hairy guys in them so you wont be attracted to your little cousin?
 
As you were told HERE and HERE, you need to stop obsessing over sex (when you have no idea of it in real life), stop blaming being gay for your issues, and look into therapy. You can either do that, or keep posting absurd topics with absurdly extreme statements like this one. And frankly, more and more I am feeling that you are probably just a troll.
 
Haven't we had this thread before?
 
Rolyo85 said:
As you were told HERE and HERE, you need to stop obsessing over sex (when you have no idea of it in real life), stop blaming being gay for your issues, and look into therapy. You can either do that, or keep posting absurd topics with absurdly extreme statements like this one. And frankly, more and more I am feeling that you are probably just a troll.
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TX-Beau said:
Haven't we had this thread before?
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Same book. Different page.
 
Call it laziness, I thought he was referencing previous posts.

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Anyway, shouldn't that be same page different book? (grin)
 
You talk to a therapist. Until you do, you'll never get to the bottom of your problems. We are not therapists. We cannot help you, and you don't seem to be listening anyway. You have to be willing to help you. Nothing changes until you learn that.
 
So, how much progress have you made on getting into therapy since the last time we recommended that you do so?
 
Sorry for the misunderstanding. I do have a therapist, but I never share anything sexual. I like to keep everything sexual to myself because it's honestly really embarrassing for me to share that info.
 
trustie said:
Sorry for the misunderstanding. I do have a therapist, but I never share anything sexual. I like to keep everything sexual to myself because it's honestly really embarrassing for me to share that info.
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Then you might as well not go, or do you think the police are better able to deal with your desires on your underage cousin?
 
trustie said:
Sorry for the misunderstanding. I do have a therapist, but I never share anything sexual. I like to keep everything sexual to myself because it's honestly really embarrassing for me to share that info.
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trustie said:
Sorry for the misunderstanding. I do have a therapist, but I never share anything sexual. I like to keep everything sexual to myself because it's honestly really embarrassing for me to share that info.
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Stop wasting money and time. There is no point in going to a therapist if you are going to sugar-coat your actual problems. Do you honestly think your sexual desires are the most "embarrassing" thing he has ever heard? He could be helping other people who want actually want help instead of wasting time with you.

Next time you go, spill EVERYTHING, that you have posted on this thread, or else you really don't want help, you just want attention.
 
From what you said, you don't really have much to share when it comes to sex. You fantasize about guys and your masturbate. Every gay/bi guy does that, so you are not weird. You do feel shame about sex, however. That is an issue you need to confront.

There are even some people in relationships who are uncomfortable talking about sex even though they are having it. You just have to get over it.
 
Most of what you post about are things that all guys go through, being horny and accommodating the need by masturbating.

This urge that you have for your cousin is just that, an urge. I don't know why you have it, but let it remain just what it is... an urge.
If you do this, you have no need to feel guilt, you have done no harm.

If men acted on all of their urges we would not have enough prisons to hold all of us, yes us. The guy who says that he never had a weird sexual thought is a liar, the problem that you have is that you dwell on these thoughts.

When I get the urge to strangle the guy who cut me off in traffic it does not make me a killer. I don't set around worried that I might be a murderer, I am a human, we are complex.

Finally, tell your therapist that you have these feelings, when I went to a therapist he was the first person that I came out to. There is nothing new that you can tell him/her, they have heard it all.
 
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