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How to score a hottie

soulseeker

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Hi,

In my school, there is a very hot guy who I am total like :luv::luv:. He usually says hi to me a lot. I don't know if this guy is straight or gay. He plays footballs for the school though. Major hottie. I took the courage to be friend with him on facebook. :D. I notice that his profile is single and reference is blank. What do you guys think?


Thanks
 
I think that you'll never get anywhere by analyzing his facebook page.

I also think that you'll never get anywhere unless you get up the courage to let him know you're interested.

If he was out and gay and interested, if he doesn't know you're gay and interested you're just going to torture yourself, and he's never going to ask you out.
 
True, I need a game plan. Maybe I should start chatting with him more. I don't think he's out at all given that he's gay. A lot of people here said that if reference is blank, that means he's gay. I don't know if that's true or not. Plus with the fact that he's single for almost three years in college. A super hottie guy like him. He looks like a young Michael Owen :luv: What are the chances?

P.S. What seduction strategy should I use? :D
 
well before you plan out your seduction strategy, make a self assessment first. Are you on his level of hotness?
 
Close :D I think I am more twinkish while he's more muscular macho type. Couple with my confidence level, it will be one kick ass awesome seduction. I need to test the water first though. I think he's still in the closet, confused but not knowing he's confused yet. I need just to press the right button with the right pressure. I think first I need to single him out of the super macho, masculine football buddies whom I usually checked out their packages :D that he hangs out with. Target the weakest member of the herd.

On the side note, on his face book page, it said psalm 50. What does it mean? Does it mean internal faith struggle with his homoness?
 
Well, before you make a plan, perhaps you should identify a goal.

What do you want out of him? Friendship? Sex? Relationship? Just the thrill of thinking it's possible? What?
 
soulseeker said:
Close :D I think I am more twinkish while he's more muscular macho type. Couple with my confidence level, it will be one kick ass awesome seduction. I need to test the water first though. I think he's still in the closet, confused but not knowing he's confused yet. I need just to press the right button with the right pressure. I think first I need to single him out of the super macho, masculine football buddies whom I usually checked out their packages :D that he hangs out with. Target the weakest member of the herd.

On the side note, on his face book page, it said psalm 50. What does it mean? Does it mean internal faith struggle with his homoness?
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It means you should stop speculating about it and say something. You'll find out immediately. but of course you aren't going to do that, you want to find out all about him before you risk anything.

If you don't know he's gay already, he's either straight, most probable, or in the closet, less probable - and either way he's not going to be making any first moves.

So you either make a gamble, or you sit around never knowing.
 
Myself, if I think a guy is hot, and I suspect he's gay, I'll say something. No long torturous, angsty dramas that way.

If he freaks - well, I'm not really interested in closet cases who run away, and I'm certainly not going to pursue a straight guy.
 
That's true, but I need to find some way to test his water without having to worry about damage control. My ultimate fantasy would be converting him into a full-blown homo. :D. Just imagine, a dark nite, in my car alone with this insecure, confused stud. Looking into in hazel piercing eyes, I can feel the tenseness in his muscle, the confusion in his look. I gentle touch his hand. He says, "Maybe we shouldn't do it." I put my finger across his lips saying that it's okay. Love knows no boundary while caressing his soft, wavering hair, slowly kiss him... I think I see heaven at that point. :luv:

*squeal with delight*
 
soulseeker said:
That's true, but I need to find some way to test his water without having to worry about damage control. My ultimate fantasy would be converting him into a full-blown homo. :D. Just imagine, a dark nite, in my car alone with this insecure, confused stud. Looking into in hazel piercing eyes, I can feel the tenseness in his muscle, the confusion in his look. I gentle touch his hand. He says, "Maybe we shouldn't do it." I put my finger across his lips saying that it's okay. Love knows no boundary while caressing his soft, wavering hair, slowly kiss him... I think I see heaven at that point. :luv:

*squeal with delight*
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(Fair warning, immanent deployment of a "sugar.")

Sugar, there's always the worry of damage control. Even if he knew you were gay, and you knew he was, that's no guarantee he's not going to think you're some kind of freak, or that he isn't.

No fucking guts, no fucking glory - definitely no fucking in the car.

If all you want us to do, is to help with your fantasy - you know, I can do that, but you have to tell us that's what you want.
 
He's totally gay. And he totally wants you. He's just waiting for you to start the conversion process. So get going already.

Lex
 
AverageJoe said:
The stalker vibes are strong with this one...
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Quoted for truth. The op seems to enjoy talking and fantasizing about it more than actually doing anything. Thrill of the chase. Then story over.
 
My ultimate fantasy would be converting him into a full-blown homo. . Just imagine, a dark nite, in my car alone with this insecure, confused stud. Looking into in hazel piercing eyes, I can feel the tenseness in his muscle, the confusion in his look. I gentle touch his hand. He says, "Maybe we shouldn't do it." I put my finger across his lips saying that it's okay. Love knows no boundary while caressing his soft, wavering hair, slowly kiss him... I think I see heaven at that point.

*squeal with delight*
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And this is where you lost me.

Your fantasy can stay just that. A fantasy.

I see you doing no good for this guy. Only harm.

You even describe him as prey. And you want advice?

My advice? Get real.

Instead of stalking the football hero at school, get out there and invest the time in actually talking to guys that you would want to have as friends and lovers instead of meat.
 
soulseeker, you and your imaginations!

Anyway, Face book profile doesn't really tell you much of a person's sexual orientation. a guy leaving it blank doesn't mean he is gay. I speak from personal experience, go read the thread 'Would a str8 male ignore flirts from a young attractive female'.
The guy in my discussion is hot, late 20s and is single for years, half of the guys on here said he is gay or bi, and it turns out the guy is tr8.

Like Lex and some other guys said in my thread, the only way to find out is to massage him and ask.

If you really want to seduce him or test the water first, here is my advice: ON a hot day, go topless and wear a tight sexy pant that show off your butt and walk in front of him, then pretend you drop something and slowly bending over to pick it up (try to hold that squatting position for a few seconds longer). Then quickly turn around to see if he is checking your butt out, if he doesn't then he is str8 and is not interested in you.

I have tried the above strategies many times before and it works for me. Strangely everytime i go topless trying to seduce someone, the guy i think is gay turns out to be str8, they won't bat me an eyelash, and the guy that i assume is str8 was gay, their eyes were onto me.
 
ebluue said:
Like Lex and some other guys said in my thread, the only way to find out is to massage him and ask.
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Yeah because closeted guys never lie about their sexuality. :rollseyes:
 
Thanks guys, great advice. The topless strategy may not work in this case since I usually meet him in the library.!oops! That may attract some unnecessary attention for young twink like me !oops!. Today, I meet him again in the library. I secretly sit on the table next to him admire his unearthly gorgeousness for one and half hour. In my mind, I fantasize all sort of naughty stuff I'd do to him. (!)I will try different strategy. I need to slowly and closely observe him without scaring him off.
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Yeah, that would be stalking, and it's kind of creepy. Make sure you bring your trench-coat.
 
In my dictionary, that would be admiring. ..| Lots of guys wish for secret admirers :kiss:
 
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