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How to Stop Masturbation

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Ok,

My masturbation [habit] is getting a little old now - doing it even once a day takes a significant part of my energy and robs me of concentration.

At the rate I'm going, I probably won't have sex again for the rest of my life, and I'd really like to forget about everything sexual and focus my attention on other matters.

How do I stop it? I'm 22 and I think it's time to grow up.
 
I hate to tell you this, but stopping
would probubly just cause you more
problems.
 
I should think that you are way too young to think about stopping. If masturbation is taking up so much of your time, this might mean that there are other things bothering you.
 
What exactly is a "significant part of my energy"?
Maybe you are doing it wrong.

Seriously, you want to stop masturbating all together? I don't see that being any healthier than masturbating too much. Find a balance.

Maybe you don't need to do it everyday.
Or as many times a day.
Or as long each time.
 
Stopping masturbating is not part of growing up. You will masturbate the rest of your life. Why? Because you can.
 
Dude,

Carry on with your good work. You want to release some of that pressure and jerking it off is a very safe and easy way of doing it. It is there for a reason.

Try to concentrate on other things in life, too. And yeah, even mediocre sex beats wanking by far. So, get going and get your life back in line...

SC
 
I agree with Homoerectus. Maturity has nothing to do with masterbation. The only reason people masterbate less as they age is b/c their sex drive tends to drop as time goes on.

Contrary to the old myths, masterbation is actually healthy for you to do. It gives you more control over your orgasms, which ultimately makes you better in bed when you do have sex. It also clears out some of the crap in your system. I've seen studies that show masterbating once a day decreases your chance of getting testicular cancer.

Also, I don't think it makes you tired so much as it relaxes you, and releases tension. If anything it would help you to concentrate because your not thinking of jumping into bed with every attractive guy who walks past. There are very few downsides I know of to masterbating, and rather than trying to refrain from it to show maturity, I think you should learn to enjoy it, and accept it as normal. www.jackinworld.com can help. I've gone there for years, it's a great site.
 
getstoseven said:
Stop Masturbating? :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: What the phuck?
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Seriously, why would anyone want to stop masturbating?
I just don't understand the problem, I mean it's just part of an everyday routine like washing, brushing your teeth, breathing :badgrin:

Just enjoy it, cause as Homoerectus wrote, you are going to do it all your life.
 
If you think that you can do it.GOOD LUCK!!!
I personally will be 98 years old and still be grateful each day that God gave me something that I could reach that gives me such pleasure.


P.S. If you don't jerk off,your going to be one stressed out mess.I'm just saying..............*|**|**|**|**|**|**|**|*Think about it.
 
Men are made to masturbate. Never try to do anything against it. Besides you are not obsessed with masturbation, but with sex like all of us and the only outlet is masturbation or making love. Never try to stop masturbation. It will only be worse. You will still less be able to concentrate. Men are made for sex. "Dura sex, sed sex." It is an habit you have to fully indulge in.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm
 
Just get your priorities right and you'll be fine. I want to reduce the frequency of my *|* sessions because I'm getting to old to be doing it twice a day. I also feel that wanking sometimes gives me a mental block the next day.

Here are a few things that I do to reduce my wanking sessions:
  • don't look at porn
  • think about something that turns me off like work, study or girls (the not so good looking ones at least)
  • not thinking about guys who I want to do it with (such as my mates)
  • designate one particular time of the week when I would wank myself and aim to abstain until then, if at the target "designated time" I don't feel like wanking, skip the session and start the next cycle
  • avoid rubbing my dick especially in bed
 
TomahawkEagle said:
Just get your priorities right and you'll be fine. I want to reduce the frequency of my *|* sessions because I'm getting to old to be doing it twice a day. I also feel that wanking sometimes gives me a mental block the next day.

Here are a few things that I do to reduce my wanking sessions:
  • don't look at porn
  • think about something that turns me off like work, study or girls (the not so good looking ones at least)
  • not thinking about guys who I want to do it with (such as my mates)
  • designate one particular time of the week when I would wank myself and aim to abstain until then, if at the target "designated time" I don't feel like wanking, skip the session and start the next cycle
  • avoid rubbing my dick especially in bed
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Jezz, if I did all that I woild go stark raving mad. :help:
 
If you make it past two weeks.... it gets WAY easier. But getting past those two weeks is pure hell.
 
I met this really great guy a little over a week ago and I'm really falling for him. I didn't realize until today that I have masturbated since Monday, Nov 19th.

I know this sounds corny and is really soon and all but I don't feel like I need to look at porn and masturbate. Just having him in my life is enough...

Now, next week may be a different story but so far this is how I feel.
 
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