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I've always considered myself to be straight..I have a girlfriend, never done anything with a guy or anything like that. But lately I've been leaning a little bi curious. And I've been noticing this guy I have a class with. I've only talked to him a couple of times, and wasn't even sure if he was gay or bi until a mutual friend/classmate we have told me that he had asked about me and expressed interest. The friend told him I have a gf and didn't get the gay/bi vibe from me. now that hes probably lost interest and moved on, how can I start to get to know him without saying hey im bi and my friend told me u liked me? Lol its a lot different I imagine than trying to strike up a conversation with a girl...either that or I'm just too nervous. Advice?
 
You have a class with this guy, surely you can come up with something to talk to him about. Tell him you didn't understand what was talked about in class. Could he explain it. Or if you have assignments, ask about his and then explain yours. Can always ask him to get a soft drink or coffee and talk class.
 
be direct it saves time. as you would say to a woman say to a man. be like "your dick in my ass right here right now" or " my dick in your ass right now." better than wasting time
 
stevexxx said:
be direct it saves time. as you would say to a woman say to a man. be like "your dick in my ass right here right now" or " my dick in your ass right now." better than wasting time
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Goddamn steve...no playing games for you?;)

Do like the other guy said, ask about an assignment or try to recommend a study session together. Goodluck:sex:
 
Well, I've been in similar situations many times. There's usually at least one guy in class that I find sexy and attractive. If at all possible, I'll find a seat next to or near him. It's not difficult to start a conversation and usually a friendship going. Sometimes, talking to this classmate can be the only thing that keeps me attending a class (if its THAT boring!). Just start a conversation something about the class, the subject or the teacher is pretty easy and it IS something you both have in common. I've never, for the most part, pursued such a friendship outside the class room but have made some good friends that way. Of course, sometimes being near the guy can be a MaJoR turn on!

I even do it now. I'm in my 50's but I still take classes (have done so for years) at a local community college. Hey, at my age, just about any male or female college student is sexy and attractive...there has to be something Seriously wrong with them for me not to find them attractive. Anyway, just today, we were having a mid-term for one of my classes. I got there a few minutes after I usually do and a HOT guy was sitting in my usual seat....I came in and jokingly said he was sitting in my seat...Of course he said he was sorry. I told him I was just joking, we can hardly claim a seat in a crowded classroom....We started a conversation about the class and the upcoming assignments...
 
sweetcar said:
Well, I've been in similar situations many times. There's usually at least one guy in class that I find sexy and attractive. If at all possible, I'll find a seat next to or near him. It's not difficult to start a conversation and usually a friendship going. Sometimes, talking to this classmate can be the only thing that keeps me attending a class (if its THAT boring!). Just start a conversation something about the class, the subject or the teacher is pretty easy and it IS something you both have in common. I've never, for the most part, pursued such a friendship outside the class room but have made some good friends that way. Of course, sometimes being near the guy can be a MaJoR turn on!

I even do it now. I'm in my 50's but I still take classes (have done so for years) at a local community college. Hey, at my age, just about any male or female college student is sexy and attractive...there has to be something Seriously wrong with them for me not to find them attractive. Anyway, just today, we were having a mid-term for one of my classes. I got there a few minutes after I usually do and a HOT guy was sitting in my usual seat....I came in and jokingly said he was sitting in my seat...Of course he said he was sorry. I told him I was just joking, we can hardly claim a seat in a crowded classroom....We started a conversation about the class and the upcoming assignments...
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wow your old, no offense. be like; " lets have a study session, lets turn it in to a fuck session, and i'll treat you like you never did, you wouldn't wanna leave my bed." lol im joking he would run if you say something like that. being my age, i dont find old people hanging around with old people. from my perspective, i wouldnt hang around with some old dude in a class or out. if the guy is straight he'll be like, " creep or weirdo". again no offense
 
Steve, I've never gotten that reaction (except on some internet boards like this one). I'm NOT preying on these guys I just seek out the ones I like and strike up a conversation and see where it goes. Last year, in one of my art classes, the teacher would set up easels and everything before the class and you just picked the position you liked (for the best view of the subject on the model stand). I usually don't put TOO much emphasis on my in-class work (sometimes it turns out pretty good though). Anyway, I took up a position next to a 20 something year old black guy and we stayed at the same stations the entire semester.

It was great fun, we'd share drawing materials and ideas. He was quite a talented and serious art student. He'd call me Picasso and we'd encourage each other's work. We became good friends. Never had any real contact except for acknowledging each other if we me outside of class. Most interesting thing that happened during class is that he'd pull things off my lap or look at stuff I had in files on my lap during lecture sessions.
 
Wow thanks for all the responses. I had my chance today but didn't take it! I've never had a real conversation with the guy before. Its kinda intimidating to do and I'm not quite sure why. He's the only guy I've ever looked at and thought to myself "dammmmn" haha, and when I heard he had asked my friend about me I didn't know what to think. I think the friend may have ruined it by telling him I didn't swing that way.
 
nlnf6d said:
Wow thanks for all the responses. I had my chance today but didn't take it! I've never had a real conversation with the guy before. Its kinda intimidating to do and I'm not quite sure why. He's the only guy I've ever looked at and thought to myself "dammmmn" haha, and when I heard he had asked my friend about me I didn't know what to think. I think the friend may have ruined it by telling him I didn't swing that way.
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lol i thought this thread was about the old guy not you. lesson learned dont be afraid because we lose opportunity if we are too scared to act upon it
 
nlnf6d said:
I think the friend may have ruined it by telling him I didn't swing that way.
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Perfect opportunity to engage him saying "I heard you asked my friend about me......", or something along those lines, and straighten him out....... ;)
 
You: Hey, alright I'm gonna skip the bullshit. You're gay, I'm bi. We both like each other. Let's fuck.
Him: Good deal. My room after class?
You: Sounds good.

Then as he walks away, smack his ass.

Bada bing, bada boom.

Works for me *|*
 
Try making eye contact with him, let him catch you looking at him, hold your gaze a little to long. Since he asked someone about you, I'm guessing he has a take charge kind of attitude... even if your friend told him that you were not into him, if he gets his own vibe from you, he will likely make some effort to talk to you. Leave yourself available to him, ie leaving a seat open next to you, linger a little bit after class, or maybe get there a little earlier.

I understand about it being difficult to make small talk with guys. My suggestion is to just smile a lot and be confident with yourself. He clearly already stated hes into you. Enjoy the cat and mouse of the situation :)
 
Get more info from your mutual friend. Find out what the guy's interests are, if he goes to certain sports games, coffee shops etc. Find a common ground outside of college if you can't find one in class.

You'll find you'll be more relaxed about talking to him if you're more releaxed about what you're talking about.

Of course, easiest thing to do is to get your mutual friend to tell him that you were asking about him! I bet he'll soon make the first move!!!
 
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. No need to complicate it.
 
Well here is where it gets complicated..the mutual friend, nor anyone else, knows I like guys too...but oh well. I think tomorrow I'm going to try to talk to him. Then maybe friend him on facebook and see if that gets us anywhere.
 
i say let it go dude. it's like walking 5 miles out of your way to go to whitecastle; not worth it. you could find yourself some due or chick man. however you role.
 
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