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how u found out u were bi or gay

I knew for a long time. It took alot of cocaine to admit to myself that i was bi.
 
I guess it was in HighSchool.
Before high school i had no reason to believe i was gay, no interest in guys... although i really had no interest in sex either. But when i start high school i was subjected to bullying, well wasn't so much bullying as name calling - in particular being called 'gay'. Now i knew what it meant, yet i had no idea why i was called it. This followed me throughout high school, now most poeple i knew in high school who were bullied through name calling always used to get so emotional, some even depressed - i couldn't understand why i could just shrugg it off. I decided one day to find out if i was gay so i did a little research so to speak, little did i know researching would become one of my favourite hobbies in later years. I guess i was because since that day i have been looking at pictures of naked men.
Now this is where it gets wierd, most of you talk about high school crushes and people you found yourself attracted to during your time in school... i however, looking back wasn't sexually interested in anyone in my class or even school - the reason i find this wierd is now whenever i see a guy in the street in my mind i go through the question, would i or wouldn't i? - in most cases its 'i would'.

I have a slight feeling in my mind that maybe i chose to become gay as a result of dealing with my life at that point, but i guess i'll never know.
 
I was just a kid and got a hard on when I saw a topless guy on the TV. I was attracted to guys at school, but got confused at uni, and ended up married, my gay side was there but sublimated. I now know I am gay, not bi.
 
I liked boys really long. At 11, I watch schoolmates in changing room of swimming pool and twice I got caught (i was hard to watch cuz i wear strong glasses :( ). While jerking off, I was thinking about the boys, but I "tried" to thing about girls too, cos all other boys was doing it. But I admit i like only boys at 14 when I saw Chez Starbuck in The Thirteenth Year.
 
i found out i was bi when i was 13 years old. i saw one of my best mates and he just lokked different in a good way and i found out i was gay when i wanked oer him in the shower. i still fancy girls so im bi
 
like centex i was 27 and a guy finally had the balls to take a chance and make a pass at me sexually. i was all positive and reinforced by the experience and never looked back. all those years of trying to look past the real me had been a waste.
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i was about 13-14 when i used to go to a swimming pool with a few friends of mine as we were in an small polo team that period. After some months i retired from the team as i was not physicaly adequate to participate in the team and didnt feel nice. I continued to go there but in the public hours and there were a lot of guys, much older than me (30+ or something) taking showers and being naked at the lockers room. Their view was enought for me to start jacking off in the WC. after some days i started looking for porn and there i understood i might being turned on my men
But it took me a lot of years to finally accept it
 
Seems like I always knew, but grew up in a small Arizona town with no role models. I think they were still tarring and feathering gays back then. Sadly for me I went through two bad marriages and had two great sons (one by each bitch), before I descided I'd go with what I'd always known was the true me.

I had a very brief period of trying everything once before I met my partner. We've been together going on 12 years now. Much happier being myself than trying to play society's game of straights.

When I hit bottom for the first time, I knew I'd found my place. :D
 
Ever since i was 10 or 11 i always liked to look at other boys, and though im not really fem (as in i love football and other sports, and act masculine in many ways)
i always liked playing with dolls and girls and acting feminine in some ways, but i still hung with boys and roughhoused. As i came into puberty i realized i liked men in a way that i didn't expect, and i got boners by looking at men much more easily than with women. At this point i still don't know what i am, even though i prefer men i can still get a boner from a girl, and i love big breast, lol. So i don't know whether i'm gay, bi, or whatever, but i guess i'll find out more as i get older, seeing as i am only 18.
 
I was about 10 or 11 when I knew I was gay. I was looking through a wrestling magazine and there was a centerfold of Shawn Michaels. All he had on was his championship belt around his crotch area. I didn't know I was gay until then, but for some reason I always went back to that page. So I just stared at his body for minutes and then my cock started to erect. I was like WTF this feels great! Since then I always looked at the guys...
 
I am probably one of the oldest members of this group - 65. I have always known that I was gay. The times that I grew up (50's and 60's) made it difficult for me not to be "normal". I had girlfriends in elementary, junior high and high school - even pretended while a big fraternity guy in college. Peer pressure dictated that I marry in the early 60's as I already knew that I preferred men to women. I married a wonderful woman who bore me three wonderful sons. It wasn't until after they were all grown, degreed and settled in life that I announced that I was gay. I have lived with a wonderful man (14 years younger) for the past 15 years. My children, ex-wife and friends have all excepted me and my partner. It took years of sacrifice and dedication to raising my boys before I actually entered the life that I knew was destined for me. I suppose that you could say that at one point in my life I was bisexual in order to produce three children. Today I am strictly an open gay person and very comfortable with the fact that I waited until the right time to make that decision. I may go into earlier years in another entry, but not now. I could not be more blessed than to be able finally to be gay and not an outcast by my family and friends.
 
Rushed verson of what happend

I know i will get bashed for this but i remember being attracted to girls. And hated gays or guys touching me ect. and then everything changed one summer when i got online and looked at gay porn. and started liking guys more and girls less. And then one school year my friend and i wrote letters to eachother and He asked me to touch his dick and it started from there and one night i was alone and I had a convo with my self and i decided to accept i was gay. I dont think i totally accepted being gay i still have days where i hate it. I wonder what would life be like with a boyfriend
 
wow, this is an OLD thread. Just wanted to say thanks to lanray for an inspirational story about how it is never too late to be yourself!! Good for you!

As to ok455, I have to say I don't buy it. Not sure how old you are, but my bet is that you never were attracted to girls in the same way. I don't anybody who "turned" gay for a reason. It was always there.

Please don't tell people you "chose" to be gay either b/c I want met a girl who was CONVINCED that homosexuality was a choice b/c ONE friend said he chose to be gay. She forgot about all of the others she knew that denied this and remembered only this one. I was furuious with her and basically told her she didn't know what the hell she was talking about. And then I was furious at the guy who had confirmed what so many ignorant str8s think and essentially offset all of the scientific proof that homosexuality is NOT a choice.

Okay, done with my rant.
 
I wish I had a story, I have no idea how or when I first realised.

Don't think there was one moment, maybe I always knew.
 
When I was 48, I realized I was hopelessly attracted to men. It was time to explore the ramification of that. I was scared and confused. A year and half later, I was at lunch when a six foot three hunk a hunk of burning love, came into the restaurant and I invited him to have lunch with the spider.

It was quite a while before I invited him into my boudoir. When I did it consummated my deepest feelings for him. Now seventeen to eighteen years later, we are still madly in love.
Shep+
 
Always known it. Since young, always have feelings for guys. Don't know its like something natural.
 
At about 10 I just grew a strong attraction to the men at my school, principal, my history/math teachers, etc and at men in general. I still liked women but, a man did more for me than a woman. Knew from then on. :p
 
I didn't have feelings for either sex in elementary school. I remember enjoying class and loved hanging out with my friends and recess was the best. In jr. high I felt different for sure. I felt depressed and confused and I thought I'd eventually start liking girls until I started high school in my Freshmen year when the case of the butterflies hit me hard... on a Freshmen jock on football team. I accepted it then and there that I loved guys because my infatuation went on for a year with him until I moved on to someone else lol. :)
 
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