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How you met your boyfriend, partner, f*$k Buddy?

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Tell us how you met your boyfriend, partner, f*$k Buddy? :P

Note I have an ulterior motive :P I want to hear how other guys met so it could help me meet someone. I am looking for all of the above but dont know where I begin to even try meeting someone.

Plus it will be interesting aswell :D
 
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Funny.

So, 2 weeks after I broke up with the ex, I made a profile on plenty of fish and found the current boyfriend. More like he found me. We went out on the first date. It was lust more than anything... and I wanted a fuck buddy. Then I asked to see him again. And again. Then a month in I officially asked him out. He said yes.

He and I talked about this last night. Here is how it went from his perspective.

We went out on first date. I spent half the time talking about my ex. He was waiting for me to take him home and have sex then never call him again. Nothing happened that night. I asked again and he said yes because he was bored and wanted a fuck buddy. So, once we slept with each other he was expecting never to hear from me again.

You see, he's a twink type, so he's used to people just use him for sex and that's it. People don't date twins, they fuck them and move on.

I then officially asked him out, and he said yes. And now our anniversary is coming up.

Weird how neither of is thought neither of us would stick around. And we both were looking for a fuck buddy.
 
I met my boyfriend, other half, spouse, husband, dude I pay some bills for and whatever else you wanna call him....lol

I met him online initially. I had a good friend who was initially a FWB. Seems like every friend I had back in the day i had fucked but that is another story. Anyways Jerry told me he thought i would really like James. So he gave me James' AOL name and I hit him up next time I was on....and we argued, and fought like dogs in heat. It was amazingly fun. I forget now the various subjects but we are still the same, not hateful shitty arguing but light-hearted, playful and intelligent conversation..... anyways.... after a week or so of that type of banter, I left for sea and came back ten days later. He saw me on and hit me up... one of our arguments was him saying he is gay but gay men cant satisfy him, me telling me he is dating amateurs and he should give me a shot....

Our first date ever involved a bit of light bondage and was really just a hookup but he stayed the night. I can still remember him sitting on my lap in my office in just his underwear and asking me a million questions about all the collected souvenirs and such that adorned my office from all over the world. Then I disappeared for a year. I came back and had completely forgotten about James. Yet he had been telling all his friends he was in love. So this time he found me and we started fucking again. I was always leaving so my house was like a motel with no food just a shower and a bed. So i lived a world of restaurants and dance clubs at the time and he started coming with me all the time. Pretty soon he was living with me and four months later when I moved to Memphis, TN he came with and so started our twelve year journey.

The point for you OP is you cannot seek it out and have great results in my humble opinion. Just live and have fun. DOnt have to be a whore but date and if the feeling is right go further.... after you get to know someone you may have then found your man.....
 
Met various FB's over the years online. Mostly used Silverdaddies and several bear sites. I tended to attract younger guys, chasers, rather than men my own age.

My partner/bf and I were casual, platonic friends for several decades living in different parts of the country. We reconnected last year on Facebook and started dating. Initial attraction was a mutual hobby we are both passionate about.

To the OP: I recommend looking for guys who share your hobbies and interests... e.g. book clubs, sporting events, cooking classes, theater. I've always had better luck basing relationships on a mutual interest, then discovering there was a physical attraction going on as well. I can't think of many/any of my hook-ups that led to dating and LTR.
 
Various answers for various ones:

* He was a hitchhiker I picked up.
* He was an old college roommate.
* We played the same online video game.
* We were both on the same online messageboard.

Short answer - the potential is always there. :)

Lex
 
We met on Out Personal and have been together for 9 years !!!
 
Thanks for the replies :) Keep em coming guys.

Its interesting many people have met through the internet, gives me hope. Its also cute that some didn't get along at first but now go out :P
 
Met my boyfriend through gay social app. It's a funny story actually. I was just leaving Sydney and while I was in the bus, his messages came through. Even he knew I was leaving, he kept chatting to me regardless. So we kept in contact and a few days later, he decided to hop on a bus and come to see me in Canberra. Long story short, he likes what he saw and we been dating since.
 
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