The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    To register, turn off your VPN; you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • Hi Guest - Did you know?
    Hot Topics is a Safe for Work (SFW) forum.

How you met your boyfriend, partner, f*$k Buddy?

glasvegas said:
Met my boyfriend through gay social app. It's a funny story actually. I was just leaving Sydney and while I was in the bus, his messages came through. Even he knew I was leaving, he kept chatting to me regardless. So we kept in contact and a few days later, he decided to hop on a bus and come to see me in Canberra. Long story short, he likes what he saw and we been dating since.
Click to expand...

Thanks for the reply :) What app was it? Grindr?
 
At the beach. Saw his perfect, square cut pecks and incised abs from afar and knew I had to have him.
 
OutPersonals as well. We were living 3 hours apart and probably never would have met otherwise. That's us, in my personal pic, in our 9th year together.
 
LatimerRd said:
At the beach. Saw his perfect, square cut pecks and incised abs from afar and knew I had to have him.
Click to expand...

jasoncrew03 said:
I attended a lecture he was giving. Talked to him afterwards, we hit it off.
Click to expand...

How did you know they were gay? This is something I always wonder about, you have someone that ur interested in but there are still many hurdles like; need to figure out if they are gay, then once that is figured out you need to somehow figure out if they are interested in you and even want to go out with you. IDK maybe I just over think these kinds of things lol.

I guess I am saying; did you just go up and just start a casual conversation and try to 'fish' to figure out if he was gay?
 
I met him my first night at university when we were 17. It lasted 34 yrs. It would still be going if he wouldn't have up and died on me. I believe it is time to find someone new. I'm at my best in a relationship and I miss it. I enjoy putting in the effort and time into making another guy feel loved and to make him as happy as I can. As long as he feels the same way, which I assume is going to be the hardest part of my quest.
 
gretty said:
Tell us how you met your boyfriend, partner, f*$k Buddy? :P
Click to expand...
Fuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuck.

Nope, no swear word filter here on JUB.
 
Met several partners, including one of 15 years, at structured events -- support/social groups, fundraisers, meetings, workshops. Most recently at a fundraiser for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. I met my first girlfriend in 1979 at a workshop on how to meet women. I went from lesbian to bisexual as a result of one group, so let this be a warning.:D
 
gretty said:
How did you know they were gay? This is something I always wonder about, you have someone that ur interested in but there are still many hurdles like; need to figure out if they are gay, then once that is figured out you need to somehow figure out if they are interested in you and even want to go out with you. IDK maybe I just over think these kinds of things lol.

I guess I am saying; did you just go up and just start a casual conversation and try to 'fish' to figure out if he was gay?
Click to expand...

The beach was adjacent to a gay beach. It was late afternoon on a still warm January day. There were few others around; my future partner and I were just about the only persons on the beach. I was sitting reading some distance from the water when I saw him walking inland from the shore, and I moved toward him so that I would be in his path. My intentions were obvious, and he was interested enough to stop.

Somewhere deep in the JUB digital archives is a more detailed description of our first encounter, a response, I believe, to a query of Jasun's on first meetings.
 
LatimerRd said:
The beach was adjacent to a gay beach. It was late afternoon on a still warm January day. There were few others around; my future partner and I were just about the only persons on the beach. I was sitting reading some distance from the water when I saw him walking inland from the shore, and I moved toward him so that I would be in his path. My intentions were obvious, and he was interested enough to stop.

Somewhere deep in the JUB digital archives is a more detailed description of our first encounter, a response, I believe, to a query of Jasun's on first meetings.
Click to expand...

Thanks for your reply :) Always good to know how others pick up
 
I've usually always met fwb though other friends.
There have been a small handful I met online through various chat and forum sites.
 
gretty said:
How did you know they were gay? This is something I always wonder about, you have someone that ur interested in but there are still many hurdles like; need to figure out if they are gay, then once that is figured out you need to somehow figure out if they are interested in you and even want to go out with you. IDK maybe I just over think these kinds of things lol.

I guess I am saying; did you just go up and just start a casual conversation and try to 'fish' to figure out if he was gay?
Click to expand...
It had much more to do with my personality than me knowing he was gay (because I didn't know he was gay, nor did he ping my gaydar). I'm a naturally flirtatious person so a lot of the time people just assume I'm interested in them even though my flirting is largely unintentional. It worked out for me in this case though because he asked me out.

Waiting for someone to ask you out is not my general outlook on things though nor is it what I think you should do. If the guy you're talking to seems interested in you, because that matters far more than whether or not he seems gay to you, and you're interested in him, ask him out. It doesn't have to be a date, you can just go with something small like coffee or his phone number even. If you're too unsure to do that, there are more subtle ways of finding out (asking if he has a girlfriend, etc).
 
i met my ex bf at the beach. i was there with a friend and he was there with his friends sitting close to me. i knew him from high school but was never interested in him. at the beach i realised how cute he had become sto i tried searching him on fb. unfortunately he had deactivated his account. i lost hope. 2 weeks later i got a friend request from him and we started talking i was schocked by how lucky i was! he was cute and a nice guy, he asked me out one day we did go for dinner at the car he kissed me. i fell so hard in love with him, in 2 weeks he had to leave for studies in a month he dumped me for someone else he met at uni.
 
IN college at the library.
 
Well in the past most of the time I've been introduced to guys through friends, or at parties. A couple of times I met guys at work and that was fun too :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top