Huge age difference

[18Year]

Progress today: We (me, my parents and a neutral person) talked a lot this afternoon I was really serious about leaving my home and live there with my friend, my bags was already filled with my cloths.
Then my father called a neutral person and we talked about the situation.

My father saw that I was really serious about this and that I was able to leave everything here and make a new start (because they didn't accept me) so they open their eyes and was really quiet and thinking all the time. Ofcourse I understand my parents, it's a shock but now we are in the progress that they will try to accept the situation. I can still go to him if I have the time (very soon again).

I'm really happy with this situation and it can only be better and better. Ofcourse I don't wanna leave my parents by running away, but if i need to choose I will choose for my lover. Happy for me I don't need to choose anymore and that makes me really happy.

I'm thinking about finding a room somewhere so everything will be a bit easier and I make myself ready to leave once I'm done with my study.

 

[Shepherd 2]

You're only 22, and you've ONLY been with him for half a year? Half a year isn't a long relationship, maybe you should wait and see how things unfold. Things can get sour very quick. Also, think about when you turn 30, he'll almost be 70, which means he'll probably start developing health problems, regular hospital visits, etc... Are you ready to commit yourself and end up alone because he dies of old age?

^You are certainly welcome to your opinion. I am seventy-two soon and have been in a relationship with another man, (we do live together) for twenty-eight years. Love, not age is the issue. My partner is seven years younger than me.
Age has never been a big issue. I do not understand the issue you state. It is not like two men are going to start a family. They are going to start an intimate relationship.

I say choose option two, and do not look back. It is your life and his. Good luck.
Shep+

 

[WestCoastWilson]

Progress today: We (me, my parents and a neutral person) talked a lot this afternoon I was really serious about leaving my home and live there with my friend, my bags was already filled with my cloths.
Then my father called a neutral person and we talked about the situation.

My father saw that I was really serious about this and that I was able to leave everything here and make a new start (because they didn't accept me) so they open their eyes and was really quiet and thinking all the time. Ofcourse I understand my parents, it's a shock but now we are in the progress that they will try to accept the situation. I can still go to him if I have the time (very soon again).

I'm really happy with this situation and it can only be better and better. Ofcourse I don't wanna leave my parents by running away, but if i need to choose I will choose for my lover. Happy for me I don't need to choose anymore and that makes me really happy.

I'm thinking about finding a room somewhere so everything will be a bit easier and I make myself ready to leave once I'm done with my study.

HOORAY 18year!!! I am so very happy for you and your boyfriend. I hope that everything works out just like the way you two want it, and I hope that you will start to live happily ever after. Now if you 2 decide to get married, I want an invitation! Because I'm always looking for a good excuse to buy a hat. LOL!!!

Much Love & Happiness to you both!

Wilson

 

[4older]

Great news 18year! You handled the situation really well and looks like it paid off!

 

[Someguy5]

Several years ago I was in an 8 month long on again/off again relationship with a guy who was 28 years older than I am. The problem that I had was that even though I am financially independent (I have my own place, car, and job) his family keep interfering in the relationship thinking that I was gold digging. Yes, he gave me minor gifts, but I also gave him minor gifts. He eventually caved in to his family and broke the relationship off. I learned a lot from him.

I guess I am jaded to the huge age difference issue because I have a couple of them within my own family. My parents have a 12 year age difference, and my grandparents have a 22 year age difference.

I learned from him and life in general to not really care what others think. If you are both happy, that is all that matters, and I wish you the best.

 

[18Year]

Update

2 months ago I was really upset and disappointed and now I'm happy like a god.
After the day I posted my last message we got an another talk and we came the conclusion that they choice was up to myself and ofcourse I choose for my boyfriend. After 2 months we are still happy and I really love it and proud and happy at the same time that I made this decision.

My parents and family know about it and they just 'act' normal to me and I'm so happy about that. Even my relationship with my sister is better then before. Tomorrow I stay with my family for 1 week and I'm a bit curious how they will react (the first time I see them again since I moved to my hot lover ). But it will be fine.

Keep the faith people and everything will be fine in the future. Never give up, be strong!

Peace.

 

[WestCoastWilson]

Update

2 months ago I was really upset and disappointed and now I'm happy like a god.
After the day I posted my last message we got an another talk and we came the conclusion that they choice was up to myself and ofcourse I choose for my boyfriend. After 2 months we are still happy and I really love it and proud and happy at the same time that I made this decision.

My parents and family know about it and they just 'act' normal to me and I'm so happy about that. Even my relationship with my sister is better then before. Tomorrow I stay with my family for 1 week and I'm a bit curious how they will react (the first time I see them again since I moved to my hot lover ). But it will be fine.

Keep the faith people and everything will be fine in the future. Never give up, be strong!

Peace.

Congratulations, 18Year!!! I'm so very happy for you and your boyfriend. Based on what you shared in your current post, it sounds like everything is going well for you, your boyfriend, and your family. So I'm sure that you will have a great time visiting with you family. Please keep us posted.

Wilson

 

[shiningstar]

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Hello, me (22) and my partner (60) are in a serious relationship since a half year.
I'm doing my study while he's running his company.
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wow, something very erotic about that, being in bed together, with such
an age difference, but really, age does nt matter .

 

[18Year]

Heya Wilson, we like to send you a personal message. How can we do that?

x

 

[todo26]

Hi There 18Years,
how are you ?
Can you update us with your relationship status ?
I'm really interested in.

Thanks.

Bye !

 

[JonnyTheFox]

Sexual attraction is still a largely unknown facet of human nature and you can't do anything to change it, whether the age gap is 3 years or 30 years.

There's an underlying reason why some of us prefer men much older than ourselves. The fact that there is such a popular forum sub-section devoted to that ideology is a testament to it's existence. It's real. It's apparently quite normal, so don't let anyone try to make you feel abnormal for a sexual attraction that you have no control over.

Personally, it has nothing to do with the idea that the 'daddy' can offer financial or emotional stability. It's purely a sexual thing. An 'attraction' thing. Obviously with age comes experience, but I'm sure that any mature gentleman will tell you that they still feel like a teenager inside, so the attraction to their mental maturity is, in my opinion, irrelevant.

The fact that they've got more experience is merely a bonus (or hindrance).

I have zero attraction to men my age or younger, in the same way that I don't find the female form attractive. They need to be at least 15-20 years my senior....'looks wise'.

Why this is I still don't know.

Is it because I feel the need to have a strong, reassuring hand there to comfort me? Is it because I want to become submissive to a dominant father figure?

I don't know. But I know that it's been with me for as long as I can remember, and it won't change.

It's me, my persona, my ID.

Forget the consequences, judgemental onlookers and the negativity. Don't fight it. Embrace it.

 

[whitedavo]

In all honesty, I wouldn't go through with this. I made a lot of mistakes in my youth. It made me stronger and wiser but there were a lot of dark days when things didn't pan out.

 

[mt2286]

You have me beeten by 1 year. My partner and I have a 37 year age difference and we have been together 7 years. I am 27 and he is 64

 

[WestCoastWilson]

Hi There 18Years,
how are you ?
Can you update us with your relationship status ?
I'm really interested in.

Thanks.

Bye !

OMG! It has been almost a year since 18Year has posted to his thread. WOW, how time flew by! Todo, I hope that he gives us an update soon. Most of all, I hope that all is well with him and his partner.

Wilson

 

[Illmatic]

Sexual attraction is still a largely unknown facet of human nature and you can't do anything to change it, whether the age gap is 3 years or 30 years.

There's an underlying reason why some of us prefer men much older than ourselves. The fact that there is such a popular forum sub-section devoted to that ideology is a testament to it's existence. It's real. It's apparently quite normal, so don't let anyone try to make you feel abnormal for a sexual attraction that you have no control over.

Personally, it has nothing to do with the idea that the 'daddy' can offer financial or emotional stability. It's purely a sexual thing. An 'attraction' thing. Obviously with age comes experience, but I'm sure that any mature gentleman will tell you that they still feel like a teenager inside, so the attraction to their mental maturity is, in my opinion, irrelevant.

The fact that they've got more experience is merely a bonus (or hindrance).

I have zero attraction to men my age or younger, in the same way that I don't find the female form attractive. They need to be at least 15-20 years my senior....'looks wise'.

Why this is I still don't know.

Is it because I feel the need to have a strong, reassuring hand there to comfort me? Is it because I want to become submissive to a dominant father figure?

I don't know. But I know that it's been with me for as long as I can remember, and it won't change.

It's me, my persona, my ID.

Forget the consequences, judgemental onlookers and the negativity. Don't fight it. Embrace it.

Well said, same here!

 

[Storybook_Man]

Old post I see. Anyways, If I were you, I would keep it private from your parents until you can become more financially stable and able to finish school.. After that, move out and do your own thing. You run your own life, your parents just help you there until you are able to do so.

If you don't want to keep it hidden from your parents, then tell them that you feel this is right and that if they don't accept it then that is fine. Express that you are happy, express that if things go wrong, they go wrong, its all apart of life experiences. In the end, you need to be happy.

 

[relejandro12]

HOORAY 18year!!! I am so very happy for you and your boyfriend. I hope that everything works out just like the way you two want it, and I hope that you will start to live happily ever after. Now if you 2 decide to get married, I want an invitation! Because I'm always looking for a good excuse to buy a hat. LOL!!!

Much Love & Happiness to you both!

Wilson

I’m really glad you could work out everything between your family and keeping your boyfriend at the same time. I’m really glad that you didn’t give up and fight for what you believed was right, but remember, family is the only thing you have when everyone is gone, so despite they could get annoying about your relationship, cherish them, I’m sure they want the best for you.

By the way, I’m also having troubles because I really like older men and I’m needing a good advice beacause I really like this older men and I want to start something with him but I don't actually know him... I don’t know if it´s spam but I really want you guys to help me out, It would mean a lot if you could check out my thread and thanks in advance.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/415988-HELP-ME!!!-Should-I-declare-my-love-to-a-daddy

 

[Sylvain the Goat]

Hi everybody,

Haven't been back here for a long time but I see there has been a little activity, and a request for a status report. Happy to report that 18 and I are doing just fine together and we are happy. His family has accepted me and we just spent Christmas together. They actually like me, I think rather a lot.

Every now and then there are funny moments when we meet someone (we work together now and we have contact with the public ) who says, "oh, is this your son?" I just smile and say, "no, he is my partner. I know it is a bit strange, but you will get used to it." It is amazing what a smile will do, and if you are happy inside you make people happy near you.

Actually, if I had gotten cracking and made babies at a young age, and mine would have done the same (kind of like the people in the great cult film "Idiocracy") he could actually be my grandson. But that would be pushing it, in terms of jokes on the nonbelievers. I try to keep it under control.

I hope all of you are doing well and having fun. When we finally decide on our wedding date, I will let you know.

Best,

The Goat

 

[ilovebears]

Hi everybody,

Haven't been back here for a long time but I see there has been a little activity, and a request for a status report. Happy to report that 18 and I are doing just fine together and we are happy. His family has accepted me and we just spent Christmas together. They actually like me, I think rather a lot.

Every now and then there are funny moments when we meet someone (we work together now and we have contact with the public ) who says, "oh, is this your son?" I just smile and say, "no, he is my partner. I know it is a bit strange, but you will get used to it." It is amazing what a smile will do, and if you are happy inside you make people happy near you.

Actually, if I had gotten cracking and made babies at a young age, and mine would have done the same (kind of like the people in the great cult film "Idiocracy") he could actually be my grandson. But that would be pushing it, in terms of jokes on the nonbelievers. I try to keep it under control.

I hope all of you are doing well and having fun. When we finally decide on our wedding date, I will let you know.

Best,

The Goat

im so happy for u guys I'm glad everything worked out and is going so well for u two.

 

[LAPan75]

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The Wife and I are 24 years apart and been together for 13 years.
She is the love of my life and we get along better than I have with anyone I can think of, even childhood best friends.
There will always be people who don't understand something, so they fear it, but you should never let another run your life.

Talk to your man, see what he wants, but don't pressure him.
Let it run it's course and let your Parents have their say, but you have yours too.​

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