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Devin008

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I’ve been trying to tell my parents that I’m bi, it’s been really hard though. Any advice?
 
do you have any ideas of there thinking on this subject?? If you do that would be a key as to how you "might" approach
it. Are you closer to mom or dad, there's another clue they would be one you might tell first and they "if" accecpted might be able to help you w/the other. Just becarefull, go slow and feel them out first. It may not be what you want to do just right now maybe a bit later.. trust your instink. ...................good luck
 
First; it all depends on just how "old" you are ....
IF you are over 18 and living on your own with no financial support from the rents ... then ... I'd suggest having a family meeting.
Tell them that there is a chance that you will be dating in the future and it could be a female ... OR .. a male .
With that said ; tell them that you just wanted them to be aware of your sexual identity as you love them very much and did not want any secrets ....
Good Luck !!
 
I’ve been trying to tell my parents that I’m bi, it’s been really hard though. Any advice?

Why do you want to tell them and what would it change?
 
seriously.. here is a short advice. Don't tell them.. I mean don't make a big deal out of it.

Let them discover it themselfs. I mean if they ever ask- don't deny it. if they ever see you with a guy and ask who is this guy, just tell them that you are dating him.

Don't make things any more complicated than they are.
 
I have told some close friends so far.

As for family and other friends, I might tell them in the future or let them find out naturally.

I think they would be OK. because, about 9yrs ago they asked me if I was gay, and if I was they would be OK with it, they just wanted to know.

At that time in my life, I felt I was straight.

To Devin(*8*):kiss:
 
Sex between two persons is properly personal and private. What need is there for anyone else to know? Let others draw their own conclusions. If they are decent people they will respect your privacy with regard to your sex life.
 
Devin008 said:
I’ve been trying to tell my parents that I’m bi, it’s been really hard though. Any advice?
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Why should one tell anything to anyone? It's your life, your dick and it's no one's business what your sexual orientation is. If you are over 18 and you parent kick you out of the house, then thye have that right, just like you have the right to be bisexual and they can't do anything about it.
 
I understand feeling the the need to come out. Just don't do it like I did, in the middle of a huge and otherwise unrelated argument!
 
Thanks you guys.

I've told my younger sister and she doesn't really care. She'd say she'd love me no matter what.
 
marcelloNYC said:
I have told some close friends so far.

As for family and other friends, I might tell them in the future or let them find out naturally.

I think they would be OK. because, about 9yrs ago they asked me if I was gay, and if I was they would be OK with it, they just wanted to know.

At that time in my life, I felt I was straight.

To Devin(*8*):kiss:
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Thanks. It's nice to know there are people out there like you. ^_^
 
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