I always get ditched

[refujiunderground]

look on the bright side, your right (or your left or both hands if you use them) hand will never ditch you when it comes time to play with your dick. trust me, if there's one thing that's guaranteed out of life, it's that you'll always end up fucking with yourself.

but seriously though, don't let your friend bring you down.

 

[palbert]

Time to re-evaluate your friendships...I think.

^^^ Agree. I don't think there's any question but what you need a larger set of friends. Start branching out with interests, club, socialize with a new person. Get out of the defeatist rut. Tip (cliche) get the Rosalind Russell Auntie Mame and stop starving at the banquet.

 

[EuroSoccer]

Often, when I'm with a friend, and my friend sees another friend, she'll just ditch me for the other friend. I get ditched a lot. Maybe this is because no one likes me enough.

That's not uncommon, she just wants your company when she feels alone.
What is uncommon is for people to put up with this kind of behaviour.
I would tell her to fuck off, if you want my honest opinion.
Maybe she will realise what she is missing, or maybe not, in which case just move on.
Don't get obsessed with one person, it's not worth it.

 

[charles-smythe]

Often, when I'm with a friend, and my friend sees another friend, she'll just ditch me for the other friend. I get ditched a lot. Maybe this is because no one likes me enough.

...next time you and this friend are out together...excuse yourself to go to the restroom...instead go home...the next day when your friend demands an explination...say i met some people while i was gone and they invited me to party...i didn't think it would be your thing so i left with them...

 

[racer2438]

Then get new friends, our motto is "friends come and go in your life, buts the ones that stick around that are your true friends. The other ones really were not your friends if you really think about it..

 

[G-Lexington]

Then you're not a friend - you're a pasttime. I had a guy who used to call me on occasion. When I asked "What's up?", he'd say "Nothing. Just bored so I thought I'd call you.". After getting this answer three times in a row, I said, "Why don't you call back when you actually want to talk to me, not just when you're bored?" and hung up.

He hardly ever calls now. I don't miss him.

Lex

 

[DigitalFudge]

I know E-X-A-C-T-L-Y your situation.


It seems that everyone else has that "Best Friend" but you don't. Always second best.


I promise, soon, you will find a person who values you as the gem that you are.

First, before that happens, you have to start valuing yourself.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Whether or not your friend saw you as her friend, it's just common courtesy to ask if the person wants to join you or tell them that they'll catch up later. Next time this "friend" wants to hang out, say no and why. Her excuses shouldn't mean anything, since your feelings apparently didn't mean anything to her at the time.

 

[voyager1994]

Ditch her next time you plan to go out together, it's your turn

 

[oakpope]

All the above advices sound very good to me.

I'll just add : don't let this "friend" make you believe you're not worthy of being a real true friend. It's her loss that she can't appreciate you. You're worthy of diamonds, of the best scented roses that exist, you're worthy of friends that will take the moon from the sky to give it to you as gift for your birthday. Keep loving and you'll always be worthy of being loved.

 

[borednew]

Urgh, then those people are REALLY not worth your precious time at all. Maybe I am being petty, but I think you should ditch them at least once, just so they experience what it feels like.