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I am a chubby gay teen

justinconner said:
I am a chubby gay teen, and I am aware that I am not all muscley. But im not ugly either. Are there decent cute guys out there that would go out with a chubby guy? It seems like all the guys are looking for a ripped skinny guy.
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Personally, I happen to like chubby guys and I am someone who stays in shape. A lot of us gays place a lot on looks, which is really sad. There is so much more to a person than how they look in a fitted tee! Superficiality is such a turn off to me. I would much rather date a chubby guy with a terrific personality than a one dimensional guy with sick pack abs. There is someone out there for everyone, you are still young and the moment you stop looking he'll find you. :kiss:
 
He was noticing that as a chubby, his choices are limited, at his age losing weight is easier, and that is one of his choices, and without question, the best choice to make. Many of you telling him not to worry about it are yourself not chubby, so it is easy to think being so is not a problem.
 
It's perfectly logical to tell him to lose weight. Not only will it broaden his dating pool, it'll strengthen his health (if done correctly and sensibly). The advice was not given in a mean-spirited way, just as an alternative or option.

While there is the bear community and chubby chasers, the majority of the population goes after slimmer, average-sized people. Depending on what he considers chubby, this may be what he needs.

OP, what is your definition of chubby? Is it extra fat on your body, are you overweight, or are you simply a husky guy?
 
chubby guys are cute in my opinion. I'm attracted to them and i'm a slim guy. Dont worry you will find someone, plus keep in mind that what really matters is the inside.
 
There are a few points I'd like to make but they are all really a re-iteration of fellow JUBbers.

1. If you base yourself on more than just your looks, then people will love you for more than just your looks :)

2. Chubby does not mean unattractive, everyone has preferences and people can look sexy in a wide range of body types.

3. If you do lose weight, focus on weights (especially things like deadlifts and squats as a base for strength). While it gives you a great method of boosting testosterone and losing kilos, it also promotes things like bubble butts and thick thighs ;)

edit: regarding #3, I will attest to this, when I lost some kilos I ended up with no arse. After lifting for a while and eating the right diet I fill out my pants now, feels good.
 
I'm something of a chubby teen myself, with a few extra pounds, and I was introduced to my boyfriend (who lives a fair bit away) and he liked me before he knew I wasn't slim and toned. Funny thing is, he's in love with bellies, so he was happy to find out. ;) The point I'm trying to make is that there are so many people that will judge you by your personality and not by how you look, and the people that do aren't worth your time anyways. It's fine and all to exercise but do it because it's healthy for you first and foremost; the body change should be a supplement. (I myself could probably do with a few more hours of workout a week. Naturally small with a big bone structure and a little bit of extra fat, but I can manipulate my weight SO EASILY if I really wanted. I couldn't figure out why I lost 10lbs over Christmas break...) Remember that the sexiest thing in a man to most men is confidence! Don't look at glamorous hollywood husbands, look around. Count out twenty guys on the street. One of them is probably gay. Count out another twenty, and you'll find a possible match for him, and if their spectrum of attraction is wide (like it is for many) then they have a chance of being together. Chances are, they aren't models, but realize that they make up our population. They are the ones that get happily married and live long and happy love filled lives. Everyone deserves that. If you're like me, in the next year or so you will come awash with confidence from places you never thought possible. You will become happier with yourself and give yourself the respectability you deserve, and this will mean being selective in your relationships! You won't look for a guy just because he's cute. Sure, we do all need sexual attraction, but personality should come to mean so much more to you. It is then that the amazing guys will find you and then that you'll finally be happy in your own skin. :) I'm sorry for the long post, but I was pretty sad a year ago. Feeling unloved is never fun, but it's never true. Build your confidence! There are exercises to do so! In the end it will be your most valuable tool both on and beyond the dating scene.
 
Especially when you type a lot, you need to make sure you use paragraphing. The idea behind papragraphing is that each thought, as it develops, is in its own space.

That spatial separation is what helps the reader digest a long message and follow the writer's train of thought as it leaves the station.
 
Believe me, I understand paragraphing. If I wasn't on my ipod I probably would have used it.
 
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