i am a gay guy who loves pussy

[jimmysac]

I am a gay man, married to a gay man and together for 16 years.

I have gone from hating and being disgusted by pussy (because gay culture taught me) to loving to eat pussy.

Gay men often think straight men would suck dick if given a chance. But they refuse to allow the vision of gay men eating pussy if given a chance. Sexuality is a continuum, and we are limited only by rigid stereotypes. For me, the love of eating pussy developed when I was 40 years old. I am not attracted to women, I don't feel romantic with women, but I love eating their pussies. I have read from hundreds of straight guys that they also feel the same about cock. They love it, want to suck it, but they would never want their own sucked or to kiss a man.

I think we need to just grow outside our preconceived boundaries to realize the wide open horizon life offers us in our sexuality.. Try new things and take risks, learn about your hidden desires.

 

[novastar]

I really hate the "gay/bi/straight" labels. I "crush on," and "fall in love" with women and love pussy. I also love cock. So many wonderful humans out there...to be honest my favorite sexual act is to bottom.

 

[Shelby29]

I really hate the "gay/bi/straight" labels. I "crush on," and "fall in love" with women and love pussy. I also love cock. So many wonderful humans out there...

I agree!

 

[Shelby29]

I have gone from hating and being disgusted by pussy...to loving to eat pussy.

Sexuality is a continuum, and we are limited only by rigid stereotypes. For me, the love of eating pussy developed when I was 40 years old.

I think we need to just grow outside our preconceived boundaries to realize the wide open horizon life offers us in our sexuality.. Try new things and take risks, learn about your hidden desires.

Can't argue with any of that; I was 30+ before I ate my first pussy and still love it. But I want my first cock to suck sooo bad! That's been my hidden desire for a long time now.

 

[jimmysac]

So what is it that stops you from pursuing sucking cock? I'm interested in why so many predominantly straight men have a hard time busting through the barrier even though they crave sucking a cock. Lack of opportunity? Fear of people finding out? It just seems that there are millions of ways to navigate around the boundaries if we get rid of shame, guilt and fear. Wouldn't it be a great world if we could all show everyone else our true selves?

 

[jockofstrap]

As gay man tried pussy on couple of occasions found out it is not my cup of tea. Give a man his cock and ass.

 

[jimmysac]

As gay man tried pussy on couple of occasions found out it is not my cup of tea. Give a man his cock and ass.

To your credit for trying.

 

[SaulRabbit]

For me, a bisexual man, you are OK. As the noble Roman Marcus Licinius Crassus said in "Spartacus" film: "My taste include snails (penis) and oysters (vaginas).

 

[curiass]

Can't argue with any of that; I was 30+ before I ate my first pussy and still love it. But I want my first cock to suck sooo bad! That's been my hidden desire for a long time now.

I consider myself straight, but my sexuality allows me to be comfortable with the idea of having a sexual relationship with a guy, even though I would never be able to "fall" for a guy. I can't fall in love with guys, I can only do that with women. I have sucked a cock before though, and it was a very cool experience. If you get the chance, go for it. But fucking hell, I do love eating pussy more!

 

[novastar]

So what is it that stops you from pursuing sucking cock? I'm interested in why so many predominantly straight men have a hard time busting through the barrier even though they crave sucking a cock. Lack of opportunity? Fear of people finding out? It just seems that there are millions of ways to navigate around the boundaries if we get rid of shame, guilt and fear. Wouldn't it be a great world if we could all show everyone else our true selves?

The fear of being called a "faggot" by others...as if enjoying a sexual experience with a man somehow makes you some type of puny weakling.....women have been lucky as girl/girl sex has been encouraged since the 90's....Even TODAY...think of a "straight relationship" and what most women would do if you asked to be fucked with a strap-on dildo...they'd flip out thinking your were "gay" for simply enjoying pleasure in one area of the body.

I don't really believe in "gay/straight." We're all just humans with our preferences who are all capable of loving and hating any other.

 

[ElmosToe]

^ so you care so much about what others think of you that you have chosen to allow fear to control you, guide your path in life and dictate who have chosen to be as an adult?


Strap-ons don't exist because their fashionable...
It has been my experience, there are many women who are into using strap-ons with guys.


People aren't going to call you a "faggot" because you suck dick, especially if they don't know if you do or not. They are going to use that term because they don't like you and can pick up the slightest inkling that using that term on you would be degrading in some way. People who are angry with themselves, unhappy with themselves and who are insecure are going to resort to playground tactics if they think it will make themselves feel better by insulting you. The most basic form of insult to the average "straight" man is to demean his masculinity by equating him to being weak and submissive. This, unfortunately, still in this day and age, also includes seeing gay men and women as weak, inferior and submissive, thus the ensuing insults.

It is a sad, pathetic and archaic mindset that is not worthy of even registering in your orbit.

Some interesting reading and listening to ponder and somewhat speaks to where you may be or are at with your sexuality.

 

[GayGHOF]

My wife has been fucked by gay men and she loved it. She loves gay men; loves watching gay sex. She refuses to have sex with straight men.

 

[GayGHOF]

Strap-ons don't exist because their fashionable...
It has been my experience, there are many women who are into using strap-ons with guys.

My wife fucks me...