I am bad at sucking - pointers?

[sparkylb24]

So I have recently realized that I am just not good at sucking cock at all. I want to be better so I can have a better time when I am with a partner. I can't seem to deep throat because I have a bad gag reflex and I just don't seem to ever get much going.

You guys have any good tips, tricks to help me out?

Thanks

 

[Homoerectus]

Tell your partner you need some help. Tell him you would like to take all of him orally and will he be patient and tell you what he likes and what to do to please him. You can also use a peeled banana to practice on. Be sure it is a firm one. Read the Nifty gay story in the Adult Friends section titled Co-Worker's Man. It has some good tips you can try.

 

[Telstra]

not too many people can deep throat.

Not me !!!

 

[gmoney]

Did someone tell you you're bad? It's not all about deepthroating, although that is quite impressive to the recipient.

Try using a combination of your hand and mouth. Concentrate on what your partner says feels the best, like circling the head with your tongue and licking the shaft. Switch off to sucking his balls occasionally also, if that's something he likes.

The main thing is communication between you and your partner.



Oh, one more thing: NO TEETH!

 

[grady26]

Know how to use your tongue.

Treat his swollen knob like an ice cream cone. Swirl your tongue on it as though it were an ice cream cone. It will make his knob more sensative and give him a hotter orgasm.

And if his boner is uncut, skin that foreskin all the way back, then flick your tongue tip on his frenulum, that bit of flesh than hangs right under his piss slit. When stretched back, that piece of flesh is full of erotic nerve endings.

 

[gdude30]

I ain't really good at sucking either. I mean I can suck a little and I know how to use my tounge. But for guys who really like to force their whole cock in my mouth i usually choke or spit up.

But I'm learning though. I really does take practice and it helps for a guy to be lying on his back.

And then position yourself so that your ass is facing his face and then work on his cock.

The position of that sort of matches with your throat. Well it helps if the guy is curved too. But you don't really need to get face fucked or take the whole cock in his mouth.

If you can just get it to where his cock is sliding down your throat. Then that's good enough. From there just bob up and down and work on it with your tounge. I think that's where they get the real pleasure.

Also take deep breaths. I was told that and it works. You can breathe with your nose too you don't only need your mouth to breathe. But to get in that mindset ain't easy. Also if you have a strong gag reflex it complicates things too.

But definately do that position, take deep breathes, and practice. And don't do it with a guy...well learn it from a guy who has a cock as thick as a beer cane. Or a guy who has a cock the length of a banana. It would help to start off with a smaller size. But who knows. Deepthroating might not be all it's cracked up to be either..although

It does feel really hot having the cock slide down in your throat. At least for me it did.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Anyone have any specific pointers for keeping the teeth out of the way?

Hey, as long as they're not biting or hurting, why keep the teeth outta the way?

They feel great, touching lightly, scraping and glancing, on and off, along the skin.....

 

[jackry]

Please.... I need help to. I don't think I'm as good as I should be. I had a dude tell me hist gf was better. Their can be no worst insult for a gay guy. I need help to. PLEASE I need some dick sucking tips and tricks.

 

[luminum]

All the advice above is great.

One of the best things I found is to consider what would make YOU feel good if you were getting the blowjob. When you have that in mind, as you go along, do that to him. Being receptive and aware of yourself and how your partner responds to the things you do to him is key.

 

[Ikaros]

I say use your hand as well as the mouth, especially if the dude is long. This can cushion your mouth against the gag, and actually be better for him. I like to do this to my guy, sucking while jacking slowly turning my hand at his head. Blows his load every time. Play with his balls too while you suck, this can assist at times I find.