I am done.

[treanir]

Oops... looks like I need to apologize. I just now noticed the almost invisible white sentence at the bottom of the o/p. Sorry, treanir... I will look more carefully before I shoot off my big mouth in future.

Oh don't apologise. The sentence was invisible for a reason (I do that regularly, btw).

Thanks to you all for your response, even if you wanted to smack me for being a whiny little bitch. They're all much appreciated.

I know this is a whine thread, and I know many of you rolled your eyes at it, but for fuck's sake, sometimes I just have to get things off my chest. And JUB was the lucky recipient last night. Don't y'all feel special now?

Hand in my gay society card? Possibly not. But I AM done with the bastardry and fuckwittage that is so prevalent in gay society. The list in my first post was not even complete and quite a few things happened more than once (or more than ten times). Over the past years, months and weeks I have found so many rotten apples that it's becoming rather hard to believe that there are good guys out there. Theoretically I know they're there, but I have run into a wall so very often. It gets tiring. I'm sure I'll get back on that horse, but for now I'm just so very tired of it all.

 

[rareboy]

There, there.

You can sleep on our couch any time.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I know this is a whine thread, and I know many of you rolled your eyes at it, but for fuck's sake, sometimes I just have to get things off my chest. And JUB was the lucky recipient last night. Don't y'all feel special now?

I think you're not looking for the right thing in the right place.
Gay life gets a lot better once you find out what exactly it is you want from it.

 

[Bent-On]

I'm done. And I hereby return my Gay Society key card. I'm really better off without it.

Well if you're not using it ...

Babycakes, do not go pack yourself in mothballs and remove yourself from the game. I did that 9 years ago after a horrible experience with someone who claimed to love me for 2 years, then proceed to steal my identity and rack up many $ in debt for me to deal with! I was so-o done with it ALL. But, 9 years later, I am now dating again, feel confident I will find a good man eventually and have real hope for the future. Learn from it all, but stay with it...trust me, its better than the alternative.

He stole your identity? Was he eventually brought to justice?

 

[Shepherd 2]

I'm done. Done with the fuckwits, done with the liars, done with the bastards, done with the twats. Done with guys on dating sites who start a conversation with "wanna fuck". Done with 'friends' who tell you you can crash on their couch but then rescind the invitation when you're there, leaving you homeless for the night. Done with bi guys who say they only fuck men "when [they] want to mess with their heads". Done with 'friends' who conveniently 'forget' to let you know where to meet for a night out. Done with bitchy, queeny bears. Done with guys on dating sites who lie about having a partner. Done with guys at bars who grab your crotch while you're waiting for your beer. Done with 'friends' who saunter off in the middle of a conversation to snog a random guy. Done with guys who think having three STDs in one test is a badge of honour.

I'm done. And I hereby return my Gay Society key card. I'm really better off without it.


(another Treanir Patented Whine Thread (c))

Truly, I can only pray it is so Treanir. I could not have said it better! Maybe it is time to revisit Stralya and see old friends or something that gets you away from such things. Best of wishes to you.

Shep+

 

[GL]

This is one thing that has always puzzled me. Why does it seem so difficult for good guys to make a connection with other good guys on a deeper level? Are most guys going only for the pleasures of today rather than forming lasting relationships? It seems that too many guys believe you have to give up passion when you are in love. That's just not true.

Sorry, Treanir. I hope you find love soon.

i would really love to believe that but i can't.

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

 

[altlover85]

i would really love to believe that but i can't.

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

Where have you been meeting guys?

 

[Corny]

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

if you keep repeating that, it will become true.
for you.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I think you're not looking for the right thing in the right place.
Gay life gets a lot better once you find out what exactly it is you want from it.

I grant you, the options are somewhat limited. :s

i would really love to believe that but i can't.

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

The truth is rather more complicated.

This too shall pass. It will get better.

Never buy any rings from Jewish people.

 

[GL]

if you keep repeating that, it will become true.
for you.

whatever.

i didn't get into the wide world of gay dating with my cynicism in place.

it was well earned weeding through the morass that is "gay" san antonio.

 

[altlover85]

whatever.

i didn't get into the wide world of gay dating with my cynicism in place.

it was well earned weeding through the morass that is "gay" san antonio.

Having a negative attitude isn't very sexy though.

 

[ozguy]

..... Over the past years, months and weeks I have found so many rotten apples that it's becoming rather hard to believe that there are good guys out there.

Hey buddy, I know I'm WAAAAAAAAAAY out of reach (and not just because of the distance thing, either), but just thought I'd remind you ....

























I'll never forget that day, a few years ago.

 

[Ram]

I'm done. Done with the fuckwits, done with the liars, done with the bastards, done with the twats. Done with guys on dating sites who start a conversation with "wanna fuck". Done with 'friends' who tell you you can crash on their couch but then rescind the invitation when you're there, leaving you homeless for the night. Done with bi guys who say they only fuck men "when [they] want to mess with their heads". Done with 'friends' who conveniently 'forget' to let you know where to meet for a night out. Done with bitchy, queeny bears. Done with guys on dating sites who lie about having a partner. Done with guys at bars who grab your crotch while you're waiting for your beer. Done with 'friends' who saunter off in the middle of a conversation to snog a random guy. Done with guys who think having three STDs in one test is a badge of honour.

(another Treanir Patented Whine Thread (c))

So... you're breaking up with me?


.

 

[rareboy]

i would really love to believe that but i can't.

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

Sorry hun.

Love is possible.

After 28+ years, I know these things.

But compromise is a huge part of a successful relationship.

And so is timing.

 

[GL]

Having a negative attitude isn't very sexy though.

yeah i'm sorry i keep forgetting i'm supposed to stay happy and upbeat each time i get my teeth kicked in.

thanks for the friendly reminder.

Sorry hun.

Love is possible.

After 28+ years, I know these things.

But compromise is a huge part of a successful relationship.

And so is timing.

i'm happy for you and everyone else who's managed to find what i cannot. but if i compromised my principles any more than i already have i'd be on my back.

as for timing? i don't put much stock in that. but that's just me.

i was telling my friend last night that i don't sit around and wait for someone to approach me or ask me out. if i see someone i like or find interesting i will approach him and ask him out. consequently i get a whole shit load of rejection. the few guys that have agreed to go out with me turned out to be not interested in me or only wanted sex. a couple of guys have told "i think we should just be friends" which really stings.

like i said before i didn't start out a cynic but i am now.

i'm gonna shut up now.

sorry treanir for co-opting your thread. its been a shitty couple of days.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

yeah i'm sorry i keep forgetting i'm supposed to stay happy and upbeat each time i get my teeth kicked in.

thanks for the friendly reminder.



i'm happy for you and everyone else who's managed to find what i cannot. but if i compromised my principles any more than i already have i'd be on my back.

as for timing? i don't put much stock in that. but that's just me.

i was telling my friend last night that i don't sit around and wait for someone to approach me or ask me out. if i see someone i like or find interesting i will approach him and ask him out. consequently i get a whole shit load of rejection. the few guys that have agreed to go out with me turned out to be not interested in me or only wanted sex. a couple of guys have told "i think we should just be friends" which really stings.

like i said before i didn't start out a cynic but i am now.

i'm gonna shut up now.

sorry treanir for co-opting your thread. its been a shitty couple of days.

Hey GL...

I made you something tongue in cheek to hopefully cheer you up! This is how Green Lantern relaxes and has a good time...

(note* I do NOT use the stuff, or condone it's use - this is for humor only).

 

[borg69unimatrix]

First Green Lantern, now the Flash...

Is the whole damn Justice League posting here today or what?!?!?

 

[altlover85]

yeah i'm sorry i keep forgetting i'm supposed to stay happy and upbeat each time i get my teeth kicked in.

thanks for the friendly reminder.

You don't have to be fake. You don't even have to be happy or upbeat, but you can't go into every meeting thinking it's going to fail.

Like I said before, maybe you need to start meeting guys in different ways than what you are currently doing. It's probably partly a population sampling issue.

 

[GL]

You don't have to be fake. You don't even have to be happy or upbeat, but you can't go into every meeting thinking it's going to fail.

Like I said before, maybe you need to start meeting guys in different ways than what you are currently doing. It's probably partly a population sampling issue.

who said i was going into this thing expecting to fail?

who does that?

 

[altlover85]

who said i was going into this thing expecting to fail?

who does that?

I just drew conclusions from your earlier posts.

This is one thing that has always puzzled me. Why does it seem so difficult for good guys to make a connection with other good guys on a deeper level? Are most guys going only for the pleasures of today rather than forming lasting relationships? It seems that too many guys believe you have to give up passion when you are in love. That's just not true.

i would really love to believe that but i can't.

the last year and 4 months tell me that gay men are incapable of forming a relationship any longer than it takes them to get off.

if you keep repeating that, it will become true.
for you.

whatever.

i didn't get into the wide world of gay dating with my cynicism in place.

it was well earned weeding through the morass that is "gay" san antonio.