I am kinda getting the response I want but am But am i taking it too far? (long read about potential friendship)

[eastofeden]

oh wow didnt think of it that way but he doesnt show any signs of being attracted to so i felt there was really no chance of nothing coming about it so have some fun my goal was just to be friends with and close friends at that i mean i didnt mention that he has a strong religious foundation so i think thats playing a factor in as well

and i am and exhibitionist i love it
lol im 28 hes 21

but in alot of ways hes more mature than i am lol

but im skilled at a good mindphuq

Well if he didn't show any signs before...he does now. Maybe the exhibitionist in you sensed a match in him...if not consciously then on an instinct level. He is obviously a voyeur as he got hard...so...there you have it. I dunno...it is pretty obvious to me that you guys have some kind of sexual compatibility.

 

[Notseingme]

lol i dont think its that cut and dry i actually set out to get a sexual response from str8 guys ive made guys out with their pregnant gfs hard in public before but it doesnt mean hes atttracted to me he is just responding to a sexual stimulus which he probably doesnt understand it either which is the whole fun of it
but u may be on to something

 

[KaraBulut]

Coworker.
Friend.
Fuckbuddy.

These are different things.

If this were a girl that you worked with that you were hugging at work, it might be a little clearer that it's inappropriate.

If this were a girl that you worked with that you were parading around naked in front of and who you made efforts to jack off in front of, it might be a little clearer that it's inappropriate.

In this new world of equality, sexual harassment between male coworkers is as much of an issue as it is between a male-female coworker. It's not acceptable to try to "get a response" from a coworker or a friend... and you have crossed the line.

 

[Notseingme]

it is not the same

and its not crossing the line
good luck proving sexual harrasment at work while citing something that happened at the gym muahahahaha

 

[Seasoned]

You're too old for behavior that could get you thrown out of the gym or worse, or, possibly, you're sexually addicted and are not going to abide by standard behavioral norms until you hit bottom. In any case you seem to enjoy manipulating people and taking revenge on people who don't behave the way you'd like them too. There are healthier hobbies.

 

[KaraBulut]

it is not the same
and its not crossing the line
good luck proving sexual harrasment at work while citing something that happened at the gym muahahahaha

Muahahahaha indeed.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...r-need-follow-up-advice?p=9308910#post9308910

 

[Notseingme]

oh yeah he got fired


this new guy is his friend tho

 

[TX-Beau]

1) because its being fake first of all if ur acting cold to me but a material item i now have changes ur attitude then it mean its not real and its opportunistic

2) i did want to spend time with him so i did not flat out say no to him due to the change in attitude but decided to make him uncomfortable and inadequate a bit the haha i have a big dick and u dont and watch me flaunt it kinda of thing

3) it had the opposite effect he now seems genuine and truly intrested in being friends which is weird cuz i thought the last eppisode would push gim further away


sooooo kinda debunks ur initial theory

it does make sense its a passive- aggressive way to deal with it

I'm not buying. I think you're making this up. Whether you're looking for some attention, or looking for some sympathy over a real guy who isn't interested - and people use the net for both, it would help you more to ask for advice about yourself.

 

[medic1]

^Concur totally.....and using idiotic gifs in a safe harbour to "provoke" responses from members, is a sure way to garner the attention of the Mods....

 

[Notseingme]

lol why would i make all this up?

i wanted opinioms on his actions

and all u wanted to zone in on is coworker and jerking off

and now ur saying my story is fake

u were wrong deal with it

thats what ibthink ur upset about but whatever

 

[Notseingme]

are u serious

lol

i make and use gifs to better express the sentiment im feeling its a hobby of mine

but how am i provoking members with them?

nehoo

this sounds silly

i needed advice

 

[blanefan]

I just want to buy the OP a box of periods for him to use thoughtfully through out his posts.

 

[KaraBulut]

I just want to buy the OP a box of periods for him to use thoughtfully through out his posts.

And here I thought he was emulating e.e. cummings. Or is it SloppySeconds?

 

[medic1]

are u serious

lol

i make and use gifs to better express the sentiment im feeling its a hobby of mine

but how am i provoking members with them?

nehoo

this sounds silly

i needed advice

OK. Here is some advice. You have posted that you get a kick out of trying to sexually tease straight guys.

Have you ever thought of the danger you may be putting yourself in?

I would imagine that at some point you will do this to a guy, and he will not take kindly to the "tease", and you may find yourself being smacked down, or losing your employment for said behaviour.

You may not think so, but we are trying to offer you advice about which lines one does not cross.

 

[JohnnyAnger]

Muahahahaha indeed.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...r-need-follow-up-advice?p=9308910#post9308910

Oh I get it, the poster creates stories in which he harasses straight co-workers and the posting them on here for some amount of gratification.

it is not the same

and its not crossing the line
good luck proving sexual harrasment at work while citing something that happened at the gym muahahahaha

Yeah it is crossing a line - you jacked off in a public place and timed it so you would force a co-worker to see it - more than once. Sexual harassment does not not have to take place at work to count, it would only take a slight action in the work place to tie it all together and get you sacked. This whole event happened because you wanted to violate his dignity because he somehow wronged you. His reaction seems to have been shock and an attempt to ignore it.

If this is all real, you have a history of this and I would seek help in learning how to draw boundaries between the sexual and the social.

 

[kallipolis]

If this is all real

This is the real question...

....sockpuppets are appearing on this site, in significant numbers with a wish to have us believe their entertainment..

 

[blackbeltninja]

are u serious

lol

i make and use gifs to better express the sentiment im feeling its a hobby of mine

but how am i provoking members with them?

nehoo

this sounds silly

i needed advice

Well done - you're that creepy guy who wanks in the gym locker room. If this is real.

What happens when you get arrested? Amazed that nobody else is ever in there with you except P. If this is real.

-d-

 

[rareboy]

Oh god.

I only got halfway through the OP before I was ready to call bullshit.

Oh and I wanted to scream because the story is so poorly written. The author must be using a hand held.

 

[Notseingme]

Oh I get it, the poster creates stories in which he harasses straight co-workers and the posting them on here for some amount of gratification.



Yeah it is crossing a line - you jacked off in a public place and timed it so you would force a co-worker to see it - more than once. Sexual harassment does not not have to take place at work to count, it would only take a slight action in the work place to tie it all together and get you sacked. This whole event happened because you wanted to violate his dignity because he somehow wronged you. His reaction seems to have been shock and an attempt to ignore it.

If this is all real, you have a history of this and I would seek help in learning how to draw boundaries between the sexual and the social.

i know the sexual boundaries and whatnot and i like to push those boundaries because talking about sexuality with guys is less satisfying than seeing how they react to sexual stimuli truth is stranger than fiction
im not making anything up i post about my experiences that i like insight on
the sexual harrasment angle is moot
we have cameras all over the place
so if anything the police and gym staff needs to be alerted not my work lol not much happens there

 

[MJEH89]

y did i ever click on this thread...??????

sooooooo the moral of this story is.......?????