I am straight, but I love gay porn

[Kyanimal]

I am glad that people understand my position here, when I first posted, I thought everyone would call me gay or bi in denial, but I swear its not like that, I can understand why someone might think that, but everyone is different, I have no desire to be with a guy even with my like of gay porn

As I've said before, don't be so concerned about the Labels! In the long run, as I've also heard it said, "Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter!" Especially around 'Here'!

Yes, some consideration should be given to what others' might think, since we're all Social animals, but the True Test is following you're own Heart! It will seldom lead you wrong!

And, Yes! ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(At least it'll keep Everyone wondering what you're Really up to! )

 

[Darted]

Actually I've heard thats pretty common.

In denial land?

 

[natsashikata]

well yea... it amh how should I say it, ... all comes to that we are all a different person by meaning different body brain heart etc etc etc. but we compare mutual stuff to a standard, like gay like guys that mean gay= mutual masterbation (before)= faggots me T-T (hurt) and then at some point straight are able to let gay suck their cocks= selfish straight -*- and mutual masterbation is ok for Open minded ppl. Really I dont get this world while some part didnt change yet. Guess it all comes to the word ( TIME ) huh?

 

[BillyT]

It is like regular films. Some people like horror, love stories, action etc. It is just entertainment.

I am glad that people understand my position here, when I first posted, I thought everyone would call me gay or bi in denial, but I swear its not like that, I can understand why someone might think that, but everyone is different, I have no desire to be with a guy even with my like of gay porn

 

[paatreides]

It's not unusual at all. It's pretty damn common - what is uncommon is to have someone actually admit it.

Q: Why is it, do you think, that Straight Porn focuses so much on the hard cock and why do you think they always have the guy pull out and (commonly) jack off to blast his cum as the camera focuses in on it?

A: Because, just as the OP stated, the guys watching relate so much to what the man on screen is feeling. It's in the realm of transferance - we empathize with what we relate to.

And so it goes for many a straight dude watching straight porn. Most would react to a lot of the gay stuff just as the OP does. The only difference is he's got the cajuengas to admit it.

Human sexuality is such a humongous unknown, uncharted galaxy... what turns your crank turns your crank, what gets you off gets you off. And as long as it does no harm to anyone else enjoy it without guilt.

 

[Kyanimal]

^ THAT'S what I've been Trying to say, butt YOU have done it so much Better!

 

[peeonme]

I worked with a dude at one time who bragged about watching porn, he by his own testimony was str8. One day at lunch he said "I wathched guys and girls fucking for 3 hrs. last night, then I said, that's enough cock for one night and turned it off"
He had no idea off what he had said, he by his own addmision had been watching cocks, not pussys.
Masturbation is penis oriented, I think it's pretty common to focus on dick pleasure, gay porn gives us dudes adouble dose of it.
please forgive the spelling and typing, just got out of the hospital and am not up to par.

 

[jmadaf]

Maybe you are curios why the guy is having so much pleasure from fucking another guy, because he is, guys give the best blowjobs too. I think everybody should try both sexes at least once, to end all the mystery. My opinion.

 

[Kyanimal]

I've found SEX, of all kinds, Fascinating, simply because it was SEX! I've had more than my "fair share" of SEX with both Guys, and Girls. And, though I LOVED playing with Girls, my personal urges led me to Enjoying GUYS even more. SO ... even though my Sexual History would be rightly described as Bi, I identify as Gay. And, during the latter half of my life, all of my "Playmates" have been Guys.

Butt, that's my own personal thing. Actually acting on your "interests" is not the same as Understanding some of your core urges, and still not being interested in physically engaging in them. In other words, I can completely appreciate being attracted to Gay Porn, while not wishing to actually Experience SEX with another Dude. And, this is in spite of my advice to explore ALL options available, simply for the acquisition of that Life Knowledge. Until you've done it, you won't Really KNOW for Sure.

Still ... Guys can, innately, understand Guys, because we're all made of the same "stuff". And, though we may not wish to actually Personally Experience what SEX with another Guy might be like, we still possess the Inner Knowledge of what that might feel like. On the other hand, Chicks just simply don't "Get" That, because they simply can not Know! It's not in their Nature! And, that's also why Guys are much better cock suckers. We KNOW what it feels like! And, we don't have to do it in order to KNOW that!

Str8 Guys, enjoying Gay Porn, is not a "Mystery" to me, nor, really, any other Guy! It all boils down to Knowing how Guys/WE are Wired!

Enjoy whatever it is YOU Enjoy! Don't worry about what you might Think others might think (because you'll probably be wrong!). And, be comfortable in simply following your own Heart!

All the more reason to ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[cinnamontea]

i'm gay and i watch str8 porn 99% of the time. why? for me it's cause i like the guys in str8 porn...and since there are crossovers guys in gay/str8 porn i watch vids of those guys too...

maybe the op watches gay porn cause it's a rush..a taboo in his eyes...people get off at many things lol

 

[shizkiz]

Hi coolj123, please do not think of my message as anything random and please acknowledge it because it is in detail (I only know how to write in detail) but it should answer all your questions.

In this patriarchal world, generations are socialized to develop insecurities and preferences (not talking about sexual orientation) about anything sexual to parallel that of what straight men's ideas, values, and fantasies are, which narrows the mindset of most of society to a very dominating straight male oriented thinking.
Due to this it is considered normal for men and some women to be turned on by lesbian porn (simply because that's what men like as most of them are in control of nearly all the institutions) and this is also why there is a predominantly negative attitude towards men liking gay porn or women liking gay porn and is why there is homophobia in general. This is also because since straight men are in power then anything (e.g homosexuality) that doesn't conform to the thinking of straight men (which society is structured by) will be out of the regular pattern of the patriarchal perspective therefore becoming a 'threat' because it is not preferred. This induces hostility and negativity and scrutinization until the 'threat' goes away.
This is what induces a cynical attitude towards someone when a straight male says he likes gay porn and but there is total acceptance towards a female if she says she watches lesbian porn as generation have been socialized to accept a patriarchal view.

People are socialized to many different extents so you for example wouldn't have been socialized to hate gay people but even you were you would have your own integral values of equality (I can presume) so you have no insecurities developed of watching gay porn absolutely equivalent to that of some women watching lesbian porn.
If people are socialized with insecurities (e.g. peer pressure, expectation etc) or reinforced preferences (e.g. religious/traditional beliefs) then they have sexual preferences in porn (if they watch porn), however if they aren't socialized with these then they can watch all kinds of porn as long it is just sexual. This is why straight women can watch lesbian porn and not get turned off (though some do) and not many straight men watch gay porn. These preferences and insecurities - whether they are under or over developed can enable a person to be sexually fluid while still having a predominant sexuality (Unless you are bisexual, which you would know as much as you know you like women).
Women have been asked about why they like to watch lesbian porn and their answer is same to yours - they get off on on watching and imagining how much pleasure the person is receiving - so are turned on by relating to them. Therefore still have boyfriends/husbands and can only imagine themselves physically and emotionally with men. These reinforced behaviors mostly lead a person wanting to objectify which many men do so prefer lesbian porn while many women don't (some do) so tend to be open-minded.

This is the process/flow of objectification in porn.
A straight guy is attracted to a women > Being a healthy/fit women, it would highlight her physical feminine features > man would find this appealing > arousing him.
Two women having sex > sexualizes femininity because its femininity+sex = Eroticizing femininity > man finds this very appealing > greatly arousing straight male.
A straight male can be aroused due to this but can also be aroused by the sexual element all on its own.

This patriarchal society is exactly why the bisexual male tends to be demonized yet the bisexual female is hypersexualized.
Some people (due to socialization) have preferences while others are open minded where you can become either temporarily, or for a long time become fixated on a type of porn. This would have no deep meaning (other than what I said) equivalently to you wanting to play PS2 for now and then XBOX 360 later, or even play PS2 for ever and not care for XBOX 360 at all.
The pressure of a patriarchal society usually makes a person feel pressured into internalizing according to what it says so do not feel pressured into labeling yourself. I know that (equivalent to many women) you are straight but open-minded. If you are to be called gay or bisexual then so should be the women.
On top of all this, a sexologist would say exactly what I have said but with more fancy lingo. I hope I helped and wasn't tedious.
If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask. I by the way am a straight male.

 

[bankside]

I rarely watch straight porn. When I do, I enjoy seeing what the guy is into. Not just because I'm gay and I want to look at the guy, but it's interesting to know what turns another guy on. It would be the same if the guy is gay or straight, I'm curious about what he is into.

When a straight guy watches hetero porn, he's looking at the woman, but also it's like he and the guy in the porn are sharing the experience of being into the same woman. A straight guy doesn't watch hetero porn because he wants to do the guy, but he's going to be able to relate to what the guy is enjoying. You can get off on the other guy's experience of fucking the woman. It's kind of a bond between the guy fucking on screen and the guy watching the video "hey, you dig that too..awesome..."

The same guy can watch gay porn and be just as curious about what turns on one of the guys but now it's more like "dude, no way! that turns you on?"

Understanding and enjoying my own sexuality comes from knowing what turns me on. But it also comes from knowing what turns other guys on too, even if that happens to be pussy. I don't see why it would be any different for a straight guy.

So I'm pretty sure that being interested in gay sex does not make a guy gay, it just means he's interested in knowing what it's like for other men to be men when they are like him but not like him at the same time. I'm sure you could go on for years that way and still be happily straight. It's different from being bi-curious where a guy would actually want to try it.

 

[easyroad]

I'm curious, do you have any favorite videos? Maybe you could share a few

 

[Curiosity6969]

there is probs lots of guys that lyk gay porn like how lots of straight girls like lesbian porn but since soceity doesnt portray guy on guy as ho' like it does for girl on girl then not lots of guys will admit it.
tis sad but girls can hav seuxal curiosity or just be turned on by lesbian porn and its seen as hot but not many will deny theyre straight. with a guy you are seen as 100% gay if u lyk any thing gay so no one will admit it

 

[Scottf]

I totally agree. Sometimes mates would jokingly link me to gay porn, but when i actually watched it, i wasnt offended, or horrified etc, at first i dident think much of it, but over time i started choosing it over straight porn and i really did start to prefer it. I link not having to follow the norm of 'straight guys watch straight porn' and its that little 'guilt' of watching what im not meant to watch that made me find it even hotter. Even now im not too keen on the hard core stuff, preferring like bj's etc but i would really struggle to find straight porn that would turn me on, especially as having a gf watching straight porn is no longer new and exciting, it just makes me think 'we could be doing that' instead

 

[firsttimeagain]

I am also straight as far as experience goes...but, the more I watched straight porn I found myself focusing on the cock and balls and not so much about the women. So, I started watching a little gay porn just to see what other guys have and how I compare. Most gay porn is too much for me. But, I found myself more turned on to the cock and balls than anything else. I love looking at pictures of cocks and I love masturbating while looking at them. I love watching two guys jack off together, jacking off each other, rubbing cocks together and sucking each other off in any form or fashion. Jacking off on each other and sucking each other off to completion, eating each others cum. I am curious and love the thought of trying all of this someday maybe? Did I mension I am straight? Or, why does all of this turn me on? What am I? Not sure what to make of it all? Love watching all of this and fantasize about it almost exclusivly. Any thoughts?

 

[SouthWestSweGay]

I am gay but I have seen some straight porn and my opinion is that gay porn often feels more "natural". The emotions, the sounds etc feels more natural and less faked. Personally, I prefer amateur porn though rather than commercial since I don't like "photo models" (I am turned on by ordinary people) and that feels even more natural and exciting.

I have the feeling that a guy that pleases another guy knows better what should be done and I guess that is why even the porn gives a better effect. I guess it is the actions like sucking that is the hot part and that is where I feel that a guy simply makes it better.

I also think guys sound better in porno, females has a tendency to sound a bit out of place with screaming etc (I have heard some neighbors playing and it sounds bad to hear that typical female slutty sound when she is riding). Males sounds more natural and in balance.

 

[bw92116]

Gay sex is not taboo and it's not forbidden. Therefore it's not a turn on to you. Now are you cured?

 

[lambdaboy]

I have a few hot str8 porn dvd's. I love em but really got them sio that when I am servicing a str8 guy I get him turned on. One guy very hot the first time I convinced him to let me said did not think you would like str8 porn I said with a smile I liek 50% of what I see on the screen. He loved being rimmed, his first time grin.