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I blame jub for my life being so miserable now

treanir said:
I stand by what I said. I am absolutely tired of hearing guys in relationships talk about how good it is to be single and how they wish they were me so they could live the happy single lifestyle. Except they're forgetting that for some of us (and NaughtArousal, please learn how to read properly, I never said single people are always lonely) the single lifestyle is not happy. And yes, you mocked that, whether you see it or not (and I know you don't). So drama table for one, generalisations, whatever. *shrugs*

I know I'm talking to a bunch of brick walls here, and apparently you don't want a dose of reality injected into your little fantasy, so I'll just stop bothering.
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Oh of only you were able to perceive your own comments as the selfish ridiculous remarks they are (and I know you don't ;) ) but that's not your fault.

I most certainly am aware of the fact that to a select few people my post might be offensive.
I'm also aware that some of those people(use your context clues here!) feel that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence but if your in a relationship apparently your lawn doesnt matter.

Your reasoning skills ( See : Logic) is flawed and selfish.

I'll be over here ya know.. Doin what brick walls do if you ever want to stop by and chat!
 
Wow. How did such a cute thread turn so ugly? Jeez, if you are so unhappy in life, fix it! Find what will make you happy and go after it. Don't make excuses any more. But just accept that there are some people, gay and straight, who just don't get the whole relationship thing at all. They don't want to compromise until they hit sixty and realize that maybe they should have 30 years ago.

If you really want a relationship, do it now, learn to compromise before it really is too late.

Peace.
 
Nice to have you back, Entity. Glad you're miserably content. :)

Big hugs to treanir--it really is just a playful thread, darlin'. You're obviously filtering it through your current situation and not seeing it for the jest it is. That's okay though--if it hurts, it hurts. (*8*)
 
Even though this Thread was made laden with "sarcasm" , and brings back memories of the Stepford-Wifes .
TWO bit`s of advice , if you are going through the seven year itch (tough hang-on
or fall off ) .

2nd bit of advice , my Lover and Soulmate was killed by so-called American Fire , in
Afghanistan just over 2yrs ago .

So please excuse me if i dont come across as all compasionate .
I would even after 2 yrs , give my life for him , not a day goes by where i dont have this immennse feeling of loss and anger , for my best-friend and soulmate .

You have the choice i and many others ,did not have , be gratefull , if your relationship is that bad STOP IT , or maybe just maybe you peep over your little
white picket fence ,and bang goes your bottle ?

JUB helped me so much , i also made many friends who have been a godsend
during this nightmare.

To blame JUB for being in a relationship ,be it sarcastic or not. I shall say it you
sir are an assehole ,either that or someones lilltle pet boy .

THANKS for ruining my Morning .
 
Entity said:
I want to apologize really bad
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Don't. JUB wouldn't be worth visiting if it weren't fun and full of sarcastic people. Some of the debby-downers in this thread should untie their panties and spend some time away from the internet. Go do yoga or something.
 
StlKj said:
Big hugs to treanir--it really is just a playful thread, darlin'. You're obviously filtering it through your current situation and not seeing it for the jest it is. That's okay though--if it hurts, it hurts. (*8*)
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^ That, pretty much.

Recent events have made anything to do with relationships hurt. If I see a couple walking hand in hand, I can't help but wish them a slow and painful death, preferably at my hands. This thread was not the straw to break the camel's back, but an entire hay shed that made the camel go splat. I know this thread was meant in jest. I noted the sarcasm and decided to ignore it, because sarcasm or no, you struck a major nerve, one that has been plucked at a lot lately. So there's your rant, selfish (disagree) and ridiculous (agree) as it may be.

Now don't see this as an apology, because I stand by my words. There are a LOT of guys in relationships who need to remember that some of us single folk don't actually want to be single but cannot make it happen despite our best efforts, and when they cry and lament the fact that they have a boyfriend (that, my friend, is selfish), it hurts us almost physically.

Hell, there are even some in this thread who could stand to learn that lesson. *cough* mikey3000 *cough*
 
Entity said:
Helping me come out of the closet and shit....


Now its 2 years later and I'm in a committed relationship of forever long it seems...
I have to go home after work
I have to cook
I can't hang out into the wee hours of the mOrning
I have to be faithful
I I have to sit through things like Beverly hills housewives and tabathas salon takeover
I can't play video games all day
Don't even get me started on the joint bank account


This sucks and don't think for a second that I don't blame every single one of you.

But yeah. Hi long time no see.(!)
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Sounds familiar. I'll add:
I have to maintain & repair the cars
I have to maintain the lawn equipment and take care of the property
I am constantly remodeling/repairing things around the house
I am learning how to be a responsible (not always :badgrin: parent)
All of which is causing me to be run ragged, and I believe I am at least partially losing my mind...

However, isn't this all part of a relationship? :D

(P.S. - Most of the Bravo shows drive me nuts. Give me Discovery, History, or TLC anytime)
 
the grass is always greener on the other side ;)
 
>>>Now don't see this as an apology, because I stand by my words. There are a LOT of guys in relationships who need to remember that some of us single folk don't actually want to be single but cannot make it happen despite our best efforts, and when they cry and lament the fact that they have a boyfriend (that, my friend, is selfish), it hurts us almost physically.

Of course, there are people who are in horribly dysfunctional relationships that are literally painful - physically and/or emotionally - and for whatever reason, aren't able to break free. Are they permitted to get offended and angry at all the "forever alone" threads? Especially the angry "at least you have a boyfriend" ones?

Lex
 
NaughtyArousal said:
...Co-signed. The OP doesn't owe anyone an apology. Cute thread invaded by bitter people. :)
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My thoughts exactly. I've lost 3 partners - 1 to heart failure, 1 to cancer, and 1 to DADT (the US Airforce decided to discharge him and send him back to the States) - and as much as I long for a return to the days when I can say 'we' instead of 'I', I simply took the OP's remarks as a kind of 'I'm happy with my life, but this compromise malarky is hard work, LOL' statement, not as a whine. And considering that he's recently out of the closet and this is his first 'proper' relationship, I would expect this to be new ground for him... but what I know.
 
treanir said:
And on behalf of everyone who is single and lonely:

Being single is something that causes us genuine pain, and sarcasm or not, you just mocked that. This is why we think partnered guys are generally assholes. You deserve a high five. In the face. With a chair.
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:rotflmao:

That's too funny.

But seriously, I don't begrudge anyone happiness. If indeed the OP was being sarcastic. I'm not sure. :confused:
 
I believe the OP's comments were more about the compromises we all have to make in relationships than anything else.
Me,I'm lucky that I've never been forced to watch reality tv..not sure if I could stomach that.
 
Entity said:
Helping me come out of the closet and shit....


Now its 2 years later and I'm in a committed relationship of forever long it seems...
I have to go home after work
I have to cook
I can't hang out into the wee hours of the mOrning
I have to be faithful
I I have to sit through things like Beverly hills housewives and tabathas salon takeover
I can't play video games all day
Don't even get me started on the joint bank account


This sucks and don't think for a second that I don't blame every single one of you.

But yeah. Hi long time no see.(!)
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I see it as:

I get to come after work to the guy I love
I get to cook for him and him for me, no more eating alone
I don't have to hang out into the wee hours of the morning cruising for dick
I have found someone to hopefully spend the rest of my live with
I don't have to play video games all day I now have something else to play with
I now can share my money and all my other worldly goods with the man I love

Congrats
 
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