I can't enjoy anal stimulation

[pinkballoons]

I've had anal sex for a while now, but the thing is, it doesn't feel like anything at all. It's the same deal when I finger myself or use a Dildo Cumming while I'm stimulating my prostate does feel really really good though but that's about it. How can I enjoy anal sex more and not just from the orgasm itself.

Is there anything I can do or should I accept the fact that I will never know the true joys of anal sex?

 

[Seasoned]

Keep something in mind. Can't means won't. I think it's a matter of not spending enough time playing with the outer hole where there are a lot of nerve endings. Next time you're horny have just a hole playing session. Get some hot porn, if you watch porn, and just play with the outside and barely go inside. Rub, tickle, pinch, etc. It's the stimulation of the hole and the massaging of the prostate that gives the pleasure. It sounds like you have bypassed hole play.

 

[pinkballoons]

But I still don't understand why there's no sensation when I massage my prostate

 

[KaraBulut]

Where exactly are you massaging?

 

[pinkballoons]

the smooth round thing I believe. From what I've read, guys experience pleasure upon massaging that, and the only effect I get is increased pleasure when I climax after jerking off.

 

[Harker]

Absolutely be open to trying things, but for some guys we just don't enjoy anal stimulation like that. There's nothing wrong with you either way!

 

[pinkballoons]

Absolutely be open to trying things, but for some guys we just don't enjoy anal stimulation like that. There's nothing wrong with you either way!

But it's something that I really want The thought of getting fucked turns me on and I definitely know that I wanna bottom

 

[KaraBulut]

Where exactly are you massaging?

the smooth round thing I believe. From what I've read, guys experience pleasure upon massaging that, and the only effect I get is increased pleasure when I climax after jerking off.

There's two sources of anal pleasure-

1. The anus and rectum have a lot of nerve endings. Both touch and friction stimulate these nerve endings. This causes a mixed sensation of pleasure and pain that many people find enjoyable.
2. Massaging the prostate can provide both pleasure and enhancement of orgasm. However, most guys have to expend a little effort to find their prostate and get to it. It's further in that you think and it's in the front toward your penis, so reaching it with a finger requires both a long finger and a bit of contortion.

Most guys think that getting fucked with a dick or a toy is stimulating to the prostate. Perhaps. Probably most of the sensation from getting fucked is from the stretching and sensation in the anus and rectum.

There are some toys designed to massage the prostate. Aneros is one that very popular.

 

[Seasoned]

^ Now that is the thorough explanation. I don't orgasm as pleasurably with something up my butt. I'm so tight that my butt can't contract with something inside it.