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I can't get hard when i'm having sex with someone i'm attracted to

Telstra said:
I am still thinking about this post and yes my mind was all over the place and
not enjoying the occasion.

How do people train their mind to concentrate and not thinking of other stuff ?
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Mindfulness is one way. But it takes a lot of practice and discipline.
 
pat grimshaw said:
I went to a Tantric Orgasm Workshop which was fun. I reckon there should be more sex education schools
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That sounds interesting..


They don't even teach Sex Ed here. We had to take "hunter safety" instead. :rolleyes:
 
asu1117 said:
That sounds interesting..…
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The Tantric Orgasm Workshop was fab. Eight nights. ten guys. an hour of conscious-breathing and yoga-type limbering up during which we naturally shed some inhibitions and clothes. Then another hour of vocalising so we get used to it and then pairing up. Very horney!!!
 
Just relax! Focus on him, maybe try to think about what exactly he is doing (like where are his hands, how does he rim you). It's kind of hard to explain but it might help. I do know what you mean though how hard it is to be able to concentrate but if this doesn't work you might need to take charge and tell him what you want.
 
If you can't get hard having sex with an attractive guy...try having sex with a ugly guy. See what happens :lol:
 
NaughtyArousal said:
Uhm... so you're saying basically Telstra and his partner(s) should just accept that Telstra can never penetrate? Yea... that's nothing to worry about ..|
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I didn't say 'never' and I don't think telstra mentioned 'penetration' but I was guessing that worry (about those things in #10) might be inhibiting the flow.
 
asu1117 said:
They don't even teach Sex Ed here. We had to take "hunter safety" instead. :rolleyes:
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Telstra, you keep writing that you wonder about the porn! Have you thought that not using porn for a few weeks may break the woody drought with your lover? Choose real sex over pretend sex, for goodness sake.
 
elvin1 said:
Well, they have these little pills now called Cialis and Viagra. Maybe you should consider taking them.

No porn compares to the real thing. The expectation, the nervousness, the way he smells, when you're making out, when you feel his dick getting hard...

Oh sweet Jesus, I need some iced water. !oops!
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I don't think drug taking is any good.
What does Viagra do other than make your dick hard ?
I've have heard Viagra can cause health problems ...
 
elvin1 said:
Really? Then why are we living longer than ever? :confused:



You'll have to ask your doctor. I don't know.
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That is a different topic like anti-biotics.
Don't know much about Viagra, but it is only for people who can't get hard what ever they do is it not ?


I can get hard by watching porn.
 
They are technically alive but they are full of medication, unhappy and have no 'quality of life'.
 
When I have this problem, I just do what Cody Cummings does.

Just kinda fool around with the guy and get off on my own. ;)
 
Doctors now have the power to extend a person's life well after the doctors of a previous generation would have pronounced the patient dead
 
JRandell69 said:
When I have this problem, I just do what Cody Cummings does.

Just kinda fool around with the guy and get off on my own. ;)
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I click on his link but it doesn't say how he did it.
How he train his mind to get hard.
 
I'm hard at the moment by wanking at this forum LOL,

Any other good advice about fixing the problem is welcome :)
 
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