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I can't recognize my self

Thank you for the great advice.I'll make sure to do something about this for sure.Fell free to tell me anything specific I don't mind.Thanks again
 
I don't mean to harp on this point but it really does seem like it'd be a good idea to write out why you think this is so wrong. I can make lots of assumptions, but your values might not align with the other people's in this thread.

Like the married man thing. For some people, this guy being married isn't relevant because it's the guy's responsibility to uphold the boundaries of their marriage. It's not your job to maintain other people's relationships, it's theirs. They could be asked out by a million attractive guys and it's still their responsibility to say no. No one is forcing them to cheat.

Obviously, them being married is an issue to you, and that's fine, but the reason why it's an issue could lead to some insight. And that applies to all the other problems you seem to have about this whole thing.
 
Married thing is a problem that's for sure.I texted him how cute he is and his wife read the message.I'd kill myself.He came up with this wrong recipient story and I played along and called to apologise.Felt like a dirty mistress(which I am).I told him it's over I don't want to causing any problems but he said that that's his business and that he's responsible.
Another thing that I know for a fact is that he's seeing other guys and that's BIG NO for me but I couldn't stay angry enough to confont him and when I finally did he said:I'm near the end of my fucking carrier I'd fuck everything I can but the only thing I really care is you.
I don't know what to say or do any more....
 
It sounds as if you're in an addictive relationship with a possible sex addict. I suggest you ask yourself about your long term plans. I wonder to how many other sex partners he's told the same story. Try to discover what the payoff is for you in not having a full-time lover and one who lies constantly to someone or many someones. It is possible that you are both co-dependent and addicted to excitement.
 
THAT'S IT!!!! Finally the things get some sense.Addictive relationship with a sex addict describes things best.It's good place to start from.Thank you all again
 
Take good care of yourself. Best wishes to you.
 
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