I coulda had a hookup & I blew it (help)

[Lewis1]

Ok I almost had a sexual hookup today (friday morning)
I was at the car auction and this guy(guy 1) came
up and we were talking just small talk then this other guy (guy 2)
came up and we all started talking so eventually guy2 said he was a
massage therapist and my mind went directly to what you do with your
massage therapists lmao.

So the conversation became about guys in gyms
being naked and guy 1 was talking all this homophobic stuff and me and
guy 2 were looking like wow and for a while guy 2 was subtlety
flirting with guy1 so i decided to do my lil test on both of them(grab my crotch & see if a guy looks). Guy1 did not notice but guy 2 noticed alot and kept looking lol.

Guy2 was
ready to leave but he was staying there so he can look at me longer.
Okay so it starts raining and guy 2 says im gonna go wait in my car
and i was like oh ok lmao and he then he said i can come sit in the
car to and at that point i knew what he wanted but i played coy for a
little but but the the rain got heavier and i said that i would go and
wait with him so. I get in the car and I knew what he wanted but i
instantly got really nervous. He was very slow paced in leading up to
what he wanted alot of small talk and tons of innuendo all while he is
rubbing himself. So i saw that he was hard and i said wow your hard
and he said im always hard and i laughed and then i asked to see it
and he asked to see mine but i could not get hard i got hard twice
while we were outside and once in the care but it went down haha i was
too nervous so i blew it

I wanted something to happen but then when the opportunity was there
i couldnt do it (get hard or calm my nerves)

help

 

[evanrick]

did you get his number?

 

[hotatlboi]

you should have pulled it out and let him touch it. I bet you would have gotten hard then

 

[Lewis1]

you should have pulled it out and let him touch it. I bet you would have gotten hard then

lol i did pull it out for a second but it unflattering when its not hard lmao

 

[Lewis1]

did you get his number?

no i dont think he wanted to give it to me

 

[rareboy]

Yup.

You blew it.

Well technically you didn't blow it and that was the problem.

But these kinds of things happen. Sometimes the mood and timing are perfect. Sometimes not.

Sex in cars is immediately a high pressure situation so we all understand that you couldn't go through with it.

I was only comfortable in my wilder younger days being with someone in a bed where I could be comfortable.

Next time, see if you can go somewhere where you can take more time.

 

[altlover85]

Hopefully you will have other times. I wouldn't let it get to you.

 

[Hot White Trash]

Cute. But don't worry about the going soft thing. I do that too when I am nervous.

I was once in a car with a guy and he was driving around looking for a place to park where we could fool around. I was getting so nervous that I farted and it totally killed the mood.

Going soft is so much better than ripping one.

 

[billybob109]

definatly a wasted opportunity.. dont let it happen again and you will be more happier the next day

 

[texan_slant]

It happens to the best of us!

I've blown it a few times, and prob the most embarrassing moments that I've had in my life.

 

[ziliphin01]

Same here, just public sex really pulls me out of my comfort and I can't get hard. Had a hot dad walk up to me with a hard on and I was so nervous he said he was going for a walk hinting me to follow and I watched for awhile then biked off. Another time I saw a guy wanking through a cubicle peep hole then he'd look back at my tool and I was stroking soft. Eventually I flushed and took off. Just don't know how to get the balls to have a bit of safe fun with strangers. But who cares really, just meet up at someones place always works out much easier.

Cute. But don't worry about the going soft thing. I do that too when I am nervous.

I was once in a car with a guy and he was driving around looking for a place to park where we could fool around. I was getting so nervous that I farted and it totally killed the mood.

Going soft is so much better than ripping one.

crackup lol!!