I did it

[sultrysam]

because is a reality according to you!!!!!!!!!! i know buddies of mine ( some who are late 30s who have no problems getting laid one in particular that came out 4 years ago when he was 41 and he is getting laid more than me and i have been out a long time so you saying that is a generalization..

Right, and they're probably getting laid by other old men like them in their situation. All I'm saying is that he missed out on his youth when he would have been most desirable.

You presume that fucking women for decades wasn't a satisfying experience.

That doesn't have anything to do with what I'm seeing. Try again.

 

[Mikael176]

Congrats Mikael-how big was your first cock? Where did he nut while fucking you?

6.5 thick. Whacked off on my ass and back. Nice.

 

[Mikael176]

Some wanted to know about the Super Bowl. We had a awesome time. Much better anal experience than the first. We showered when I arrived and then went right at it. He has a thick 7 inch cut dick which feels awesome in my ass once we get going. Figuring out that there cannot be enough lube. From there, we watched the game naked for a while and then fucked again. We've done this four times now so it seems to be getting better and better.

We'll probably meet again next week. We are both trying to keep this strictly casual. For now, I'm going to see where this man-on-man thing goes. I love being with a woman too, but for now I'm enjoying this a lot more. I just don't want to get mentally attached to the guy. (sex is sex, not romance)

 

[Georgiadude]

Too bad you waited so long and you're old now. You could have been getting dick all your life, but now you're old and have significantly less options.

What a rude, mean and quite frankly stupid thing to say to someone. 40's is not old. Oh. I'm sorry. I forgot this is the superficial shallow world some younger gay guys like to live in. You don't know the OP and don't know what his options are. You most certainly are an ageist and a sorry one at that.

Steven

 

[bijockdude]

Happy for you Mikal-keep up the fun-have you let him creampie you yet?

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Some wanted to know about the Super Bowl. We had a awesome time. Much better anal experience than the first. We showered when I arrived and then went right at it. He has a thick 7 inch cut dick which feels awesome in my ass once we get going. Figuring out that there cannot be enough lube. From there, we watched the game naked for a while and then fucked again. We've done this four times now so it seems to be getting better and better.

We'll probably meet again next week. We are both trying to keep this strictly casual. For now, I'm going to see where this man-on-man thing goes. I love being with a woman too, but for now I'm enjoying this a lot more. I just don't want to get mentally attached to the guy. (sex is sex, not romance)

A Little romance, and getting attached... someday... wouldn't be a bad thing.

 

[RRUGER]

I agree with you but
Unfortunately that is the gay world here in DC all based on looks and age, is a reality like "Sultrysam" says and yes is very shallow but it is what it is...I just laugh about it. I also seem to find men my age 43 or older who are into looking for 20 year olds, i find that pathetic but that is just me...

u are right it is pathetic

best to date your age or around it

 

[sultrysam]

He is getting laid by other " OLD MEN" how is that not ageist? explain it to me? " Most Desirable" WOW what makes you think he is not desirable now? apparently he is since he is getting laid. Oh boy i repeat you must be in your 20s only men in their 20s think like that.

I get what you are trying to say that if he had come out or had sex earlier in life he would have enjoyed it more my point is what makes you think he will not now? what is wrong having sex with other guys who are in their 40s? like he is? GET OVER THE AGE thing. Some people bloom late or come out late but does not mean they wont get to enjoy their sexuality. As long as a man can get a hard on, there is no AGE to having sex.

anyways somehow i don't think you will get it but is ok you will in time...STAY SAFE...

Me being in my 20s has nothing to do with what I'm saying. It's just expected for people to understand that your youth is when you're going to be MOST attractive and most desirable. And since you say you understand my point, what's the big deal then? I'm not saying he can't enjoy sex now with other old men. All I'm saying is that he missed out on some amazing stuff for most of his life. He's never gonna know what it's like to be at that age and how the sex would have been with similarly aged guys.

What a rude, mean and quite frankly stupid thing to say to someone. 40's is not old. Oh. I'm sorry. I forgot this is the superficial shallow world some younger gay guys like to live in. You don't know the OP and don't know what his options are. You most certainly are an ageist and a sorry one at that.

Steven

Whatever, I'm not ageist. You guys seem to get pissy when faced with the truth.

I agree with you but
Unfortunately that is the gay world here in DC all based on looks and age, is a reality like "Sultrysam" says and yes is very shallow but it is what it is...I just laugh about it. I also seem to find men my age 43 or older who are into looking for 20 year olds, i find that pathetic but that is just me...

It is pathetic. All these old men chasing young guys is embarrassing, just like it is with straight men and young women.

u are right it is pathetic

best to date your age or around it

I agree.

 

[mooki33]

Sultrysam you have your head firmly up your own ass. You are giving your opinion and presenting it as if it's a fact and it's not. Most people don't look their age, I am 40 years old and I'm always carded and when my co-workers found out they asked to see my ID b/c they all thought I was late 20s. Some people care about age and some don't. A hot guy will catch my eye whether he is in his 20s, 30s or 40s.

How the hell do you know that he has missed out on the best sex and best experiences...why because YOU say so? That's just idiotic. It sounds like he is enjoying himself with men for the first time so he doesn't have a way to even compare how it would have been in his 20s. Not everyone is hung up on age like you obviously are. The fact of the matter is your comment was rude, presumptuous, narrow-minded and unsubstantiated.

Young....dumb and full of cum just seems tailored to you!

 

[Georgiadude]

Who's truth? your version? there's a difference between what you THINK you know and reality. What does it matter to you if there is an age gap between two or more people of legal age that are in a relationship or just hooking up? It's none of your business. Just because you have a problem with age differences doesn't mean anything. You may find it "pathetic" but others are just fine with it. You make it sound like the "old" guys are the only ones guilty of going after younger guys. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten replies to my profiles from guys in their late teens and twenties asking if I am "generous" or saying they'll do "anything you (me) want if I can give them meth or molly or 420" Do you find that pathetic? or is it ok because it's a younger guy trying to get something from an older guy?

Steven

 

[palbert]

I - an Eldergay - congratulate you on your growth. It only gets better.

 

[sultrysam]

buddy yes you are but is ok! when you say because you are younger you are in your most attractive stage that is being AGEIST because that is not true..have you seen some 20 year olds? LOL like i said you will learn that when YOU turn 40. Keep having fun.

No, what I said was not ageist.

I am going to break it down!!!!!!!!! i don't understand your point about your ageism i understand your point about that you base sex on age and looks and unfortunately we live in a world of ageism.

You said he missed out for all his life because he was not having sex with 20 year old when he was 20 year old ( at least that is how i am interpreting what you are saying and i don't think i am alone in this) you say he is never going to know what is like to be that age and how sex is with similar age guys" what i am saying is you and i repeat you are expressing your feelings as a 20 year old who has sex with other 20 year olds so you think is amazing, my point to you is the guy here is 42 or 43 and he is having sex with 30 year olds and 40 year old and he thinks is amazing but you keep saying THAT because he is not younger he wont enjoy as much as if he were 20...and i am saying that is just not true..you are equating age with sex and i am saying YOU CAN'T DO THAT..anyways done with this topic...Take care..

Again, I'm not saying sex when you're younger is better. I'm simply pointing out the difference. Exploring sexuality during one's youth is something that he can NEVER do because he is old. The experience won't ever be the same as when he is older. I won't say it's better or worse, just different, and he can never have any claim to that.

Sultrysam you have your head firmly up your own ass. You are giving your opinion and presenting it as if it's a fact and it's not. Most people don't look their age, I am 40 years old and I'm always carded and when my co-workers found out they asked to see my ID b/c they all thought I was late 20s. Some people care about age and some don't. A hot guy will catch my eye whether he is in his 20s, 30s or 40s.

How the hell do you know that he has missed out on the best sex and best experiences...why because YOU say so? That's just idiotic. It sounds like he is enjoying himself with men for the first time so he doesn't have a way to even compare how it would have been in his 20s. Not everyone is hung up on age like you obviously are. The fact of the matter is your comment was rude, presumptuous, narrow-minded and unsubstantiated.

Young....dumb and full of cum just seems tailored to you!

Well said and furthermore this site has WAYYYYYYY too many threads about daddies for any one to think age "takes one out of the game" everyone is entitled to their own opinion but just like you said they shouldn't try to pass that opinion off as fact

I never presented my opinion as fact. Anyone with an ounce of common sense understands that everything we post here is our own opinions, this is a place of discussion after all. The only rude person here is you.

Who's truth? your version? there's a difference between what you THINK you know and reality. What does it matter to you if there is an age gap between two or more people of legal age that are in a relationship or just hooking up? It's none of your business. Just because you have a problem with age differences doesn't mean anything. You may find it "pathetic" but others are just fine with it. You make it sound like the "old" guys are the only ones guilty of going after younger guys. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten replies to my profiles from guys in their late teens and twenties asking if I am "generous" or saying they'll do "anything you (me) want if I can give them meth or molly or 420" Do you find that pathetic? or is it ok because it's a younger guy trying to get something from an older guy?

Steven

It's my opinion. You can have a seat sir. It's not that serious.

 

[Kyanimal]

Again, I'm not saying sex when you're younger is better. I'm simply pointing out the difference. Exploring sexuality during one's youth is something that he can NEVER do because he is old. The experience won't ever be the same as when he is older. I won't say it's better or worse, just different, and he can never have any claim to that.

Sam

I will grant you the concession that exploring Sex, while you're Young, is, indeed, "different" than experiencing that exploration when you're older. And, that's simply because you're body is "different". Even if you're past the "Exploring" stage, Sex, when you're older, is not quite the same.

HOWEVER ... the Exploration can still have the same "Zing"! It's about the Willingness, and the Surprises that might involve, when you're on a quest of Discovery, and Exceeding what you might have thought were your "Boundaries"!

THAT Thrill is something to Cherish at ANY Age!

And, another "difference" might be, since I certainly did more than my "fair share" of Exploring, when I was your age, and often had NO Idea what I was really doing, with Guys AND/OR Girls, NOW I DO KNOW what I'm doing, and would Gladly teach YOU a few things, or two!

Granted, sometimes it's about physical age, and sometimes it's about Experience, that is Gained with age.

And, you're NEVER too Old to gain some Experience! (Read my sig)

All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[mooki33]

Too bad you waited so long and you're old now. You could have been getting dick all your life, but now you're old and have significantly less options.

How is this not rude and insulting? Let me give you another example. In my post I said you were young, dumb and full of cum. Now that could very well be accurate, but it was rude and certainly my opinion. You keep calling the poster OLD and you do so repeatedly. No common courtesy or anything. Not even a "my bad" if that comes off as harsh. You clearly mean it to be that way and don't give a f*ck because you keep doing it.

You then have the nerve to get all defensive when people call you on it vs. being a mature adult and owning up to it. Does any of this make sense? I mean I do see symptoms of intelligence. But then again, I could be wrong.

 

[sultrysam]

Sam

I will grant you the concession that exploring Sex, while you're Young, is, indeed, "different" than experiencing that exploration when you're older. And, that's simply because you're body is "different". Even if you're past the "Exploring" stage, Sex, when you're older, is not quite the same.

HOWEVER ... the Exploration can still have the same "Zing"! It's about the Willingness, and the Surprises that might involve, when you're on a quest of Discovery, and Exceeding what you might have thought were your "Boundaries"!

THAT Thrill is something to Cherish at ANY Age!

And, another "difference" might be, since I certainly did more than my "fair share" of Exploring, when I was your age, and often had NO Idea what I was really doing, with Guys AND/OR Girls, NOW I DO KNOW what I'm doing, and would Gladly teach YOU a few things, or two!

Granted, sometimes it's about physical age, and sometimes it's about Experience, that is Gained with age.

And, you're NEVER too Old to gain some Experience! (Read my sig)

All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz

OK, that's a nice way to put a positive spin on it, but it still doesn't change my point.

How is this not rude and insulting? Let me give you another example. In my post I said you were young, dumb and full of cum. Now that could very well be accurate, but it was rude and certainly my opinion. You keep calling the poster OLD and you do so repeatedly. No common courtesy or anything. Not even a "my bad" if that comes off as harsh. You clearly mean it to be that way and don't give a f*ck because you keep doing it.

You then have the nerve to get all defensive when people call you on it vs. being a mature adult and owning up to it. Does any of this make sense? I mean I do see symptoms of intelligence. But then again, I could be wrong.

And what exactly is wrong with calling him OLD? Jeez, it's the truth. that's what he is, old. Everyone gets old, I don't know why it's such a bad thing to point out. You guys act like I'm insulting him or something.

you are wasting your time he really does not get it. He really does not believe he is ageist but then he keeps saying "OLD" and measuring how good sex is by the age of the person. He will learn just give him time. I agree with you instead of owning it he gets defensive is because he is at that age where you never think you are wrong but time will teach him otherwise ...take care

OK, you know everything. You're so much smarter than me.

 

[Kyanimal]

Sam

I think the "thing" is You're talking from a vantage point that is still at the beginning of "The Road" that we All eventually end up following.

I, and many of the other posters here, have already BEEN where You are! However, YOU have yet to be where WE are, and have been.

SO ... There is an understandable (at least by "Us") difference in Perspective.

It is not (yet) evident to You, and "We" get that. However, there is no way (yet) that You possibly can fully "get" it (yet) either.

Our "frustration" with You comes from "Us" already Knowing what You are going to be facing, Trying to "educate" You, and yet understanding the inevitability that You're NOT going to KNOW until You have experienced it all, first hand, Yourself!

And, even though "We" KNOW that, we're still Trying, as best "We" can, to point out where Your CURRENT vision might not be quite "right".

Our disagreements are not Your "Fault", nor "Ours".

Butt ... In trying to point that out, "We" are still tying to show You what (Hopefully) will be in Your best interests!

All in All, "Old" is Inevitable, and not necessarily a "Bad" thing! As much as "We" ALL might regret it!

Just all the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[buddy1970]

Getting this thread back to the original post: I want to hear more. I want a whole lot more details. How did this start in your head? What is your favorite thing to do with a guy now? What things turn you on? Where do you guys do it? Stats? Wild story, man.

 

[Halifaxboy8]

Too bad you waited so long and you're old now. You could have been getting dick all your life, but now you're old and have significantly less options.

The best part of waiting until you've matured mentally, is avoiding people like you. Know what, Sparkle Princess? You're aging. That's right. Unless you get strangled doing some trick under a bridge, chances are you will get to grey, wrinkle, and sag like everyone else for the last 3.75 million years (oldest found humanoid footprints).

To the OP:

GRATS!!! Welcome to the rest of your life