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I dont know if he is gay...

You should of posted this on the coming out forums it would prevent crap messages.


Get to know him and see whats hes about, that's the best thing to do. don't ask him if hes gay upfront if hes shy hes not going to tell you or hes going to think your coming on too strong, once hes comfortable around you and gets to know you he might open up to you. All you know he could be a quiet shy straight guy ask your friends to invite him out again and talk to him you two alone and ask him out for lunch one day and see how yous click.


I went to the bar a few weeks ago with friends and i met this cute quiet shy guy there and after getting to know him and talking to his friends. He ended up being a shy depressed straight guy we became friends i thought he was cool in a weird way.
 
Sixty Nine said:
I am like that too except im a closeted gay that hasnt told anyone. So I want to find out if he is gay but I dont want to be rude and just ask him.
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hi Sixty Nine,

Others over here already have given you a good advise. Be friendly and kind to him, talk with him and make clear that he can trust you. It seems to me that both of you have alot of common interests, so talking with each other should be very easy and relaxed.

Please be aware that I have no idea if he is gay or not. There can be loads and loads of reasons why he does not seem to have (alot of) interest in girls. So maybe he is just a friendly and a nice straight guy. I was wondering why you are still closeted, and if you have plans to open yourself. What's your age? Any idea how your friend would react when it will become obvious that you are gay?

I tend to advise you that you should set the first step. Meaning that you should tell him that you are gay / like guys / are not interested in girls, etc. You can even start to discuss such a topic with him, eg by asking him why he has no girlfriend, and wait until he will ask you why you don't have a girlfriend (etc.). Well, then you can tell him that you are not interested in girls. So start with opening yourself (abit) and just see how he is reacting.

Good luck and feel free to react and/or to ask additional questions.
 
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