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I don't know where I fit...

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I'm now 38, married to a woman with a kid... And I'm experimenting with men a lot. I realise I like older men who work out. Very masculine men. I love seeing men in leather and PVC and fucking hell do I love cock.

But my preference comes in waves. Some weeks all I can think about is having a guy near me. But I very rarely check guys out in the street.

I honestly never realised until a couple of years ago I'd be into men, and now I want more of it. And I don't just mean the sex which is fucking incredible. I like the intimacy with being with a man. When I first started fooling around, I'd dump my load and fuck off. Now I'm staying and were kissing and cuddling and I'm realising how much I like it.

I don't know what I'm trying to achieve by posting this, I supposed I kind of just want to get it out there safely into the world
 
Hi (*W*) to JUB you'll fit it in right on here with all of us :wave: Does your wife have any clue your bi?
 
Justabitbored said:
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...Now I'm staying and we're kissing and cuddling and I'm realizing how much I like it.
I kind of just want to get it out there safely into the world
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Nice hear that cuz I LOVE kissing and cuddling and feeling bodies close. I'm very tactile.
 
No she has no clue... I don't think anyone has. I'm a former rugby player and kickboxer. Always gone out with girls. But if I see an older muscley guy in pvc or leather I just want to eat his ass and see where we find ourselves ��
 
Justabitbored said:
I'm now 38, married to a woman with a kid... And I'm experimenting with men a lot. I realise I like older men who work out. Very masculine men. I love seeing men in leather and PVC and fucking hell do I love cock.

But my preference comes in waves. Some weeks all I can think about is having a guy near me. But I very rarely check guys out in the street.

I honestly never realised until a couple of years ago I'd be into men, and now I want more of it. And I don't just mean the sex which is fucking incredible. I like the intimacy with being with a man. When I first started fooling around, I'd dump my load and fuck off. Now I'm staying and were kissing and cuddling and I'm realising how much I like it.

I don't know what I'm trying to achieve by posting this, I supposed I kind of just want to get it out there safely into the world
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i feel the same as you. before i got married i had this guy that would top me regularly. i was his booty call. we would fuck and i was always in a hurry to leave. i was younger and i was scared to get caught.

i also have times where all i can think of is being intimate with a man. i love my wife and i wont stray and she has no clue thati crave dick.

i never was intimate with him like making love. we always just fucked. at times he would suggest i spend the night but i was always scared.

Years later i totally regret not spending the night with him and trying it out. I think about him a lot but we lost contact. He probably could of been my door to trying out a gay relationship.

I dont check out guys either. Im not attracted to men on sight. But women turn me on no matter what.

I also dont know what to think about my sexual life or where I fit in. Sometimes this depressed me because at times I feel lost like my sexual feelings are all whacked out. And I just want to be free to express myself sexually but this world sucks.

If you ever wanna chat hit me up. Your story sounds like what I feel. I totally identify with you.
 
cuteguyincali said:
i feel the same as you. before i got married i had this guy that would top me regularly. i was his booty call. we would fuck and i was always in a hurry to leave. i was younger and i was scared to get caught.

i also have times where all i can think of is being intimate with a man. i love my wife and i wont stray and she has no clue thati crave dick.

i never was intimate with him like making love. we always just fucked. at times he would suggest i spend the night but i was always scared.

Years later i totally regret not spending the night with him and trying it out. I think about him a lot but we lost contact. He probably could of been my door to trying out a gay relationship.

I dont check out guys either. Im not attracted to men on sight. But women turn me on no matter what.

I also dont know what to think about my sexual life or where I fit in. Sometimes this depressed me because at times I feel lost like my sexual feelings are all whacked out. And I just want to be free to express myself sexually but this world sucks.

If you ever wanna chat hit me up. Your story sounds like what I feel. I totally identify with you.
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Yes this is exactly how I feel. I'm not "into" guys across the board. It's a very very narrow attraction. It also comes in waves, like sometimes I crave dick all the time and then a week later I can't believe I wanted to have a dick in my mouth. It's so confusing and such a head fuck.

I would also not "cheat" on my wife with another woman, but weirdly this doesn't feel like cheating although i obviously know it is. I'm very envious of the guys who know they're gay 100% or the majority of the time because it would make things so much more simple.

Thanks for replying, it's nice to know I'm not the only one out there whos this confused
 
cuteguyincali said:
I thought that by adding each other I could pm you. Still cant. Im wanna pm you sooo bad!! LoL Ill waited out a few weeks till youre not new anymore.
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Just trying to figure out how many posts I have to put up before PMs become active. I'd post my Kik here but you never know who's gonna add you!
 
Justabitbored said:
Just trying to figure out how many posts I have to put up before PMs become active. I'd post my Kik here but you never know who's gonna add you!
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Welcome to JUB!
The answer to your question, I believe is 10 posts (but it may be as high as 25!)
Please do not post your kik in public (you never know who is lurking)...in a PM is all right though
Most of our members are somewhere on the spectrum of liking men in various degrees.
You have a place, and a home here!
It is NOT weird to live a straight life and desire men. You are just somewhere on the spectrum like the rest of us!
Participate and enjoy this site. Don't be afraid to ask questions in your search for your self! :D
 
ronboy said:
Welcome to JUB!
The answer to your question, I believe is 10 posts (but it may be as high as 25!)
Please do not post your kik in public (you never know who is lurking)...in a PM is all right though
Most of our members are somewhere on the spectrum of liking men in various degrees.
You have a place, and a home here!
It is NOT weird to live a straight life and desire men. You are just somewhere on the spectrum like the rest of us!
Participate and enjoy this site. Don't be afraid to ask questions in your search for your self! :D
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Yeah I was not about to post my Kik because jeez, that could end up being a nightmare!

I never really understood the spectrum thing until very recently, the thouhhy of being with a man up until maybe 5 years ago was not something I'd ever even considered.

Thanks very much for welcoming me, I'd assumed that maybe it was.10 but I don't want to go spamming boards just to get the PMing perk. Hopefully it'll come soon!
 
Justabitbored said:
Yeah I was not about to post my Kik because jeez, that could end up being a nightmare!

I never really understood the spectrum thing until very recently, the thouhhy of being with a man up until maybe 5 years ago was not something I'd ever even considered.

Thanks very much for welcoming me, I'd assumed that maybe it was.10 but I don't want to go spamming boards just to get the PMing perk. Hopefully it'll come soon!
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We have lots of forums here, sexual and non-sexual. Check them out. We try to have something for everyone!
 
Hey there married guys. I am one who never got around to getting hitched, or too often involved long term. I was kinda like that, curious until I just could not take it any longer. I jumped in the pool. Been treading water, and doing laps too. I wish I had been brave back in high school, or college, when opportunities presented themselves.... daily it seems. Now, as an older unmarried bachelor, I am glad I did not make any easily broken promises, but kinda missed out on the children to pass along my name and legacy to. Good thing is that I only have to pay for one mortgage:)

The sexual side of things have been great though. Get chased by females, and chase masculine jocks, former frat boys, and military. Some of the studs that I have talked to, and or pounded sensual moans out have been noteworthy. There are 360-degrees of man out and about, from the (slightly) curious to the fort troff piggy fuckers! Not just 180-degree, the full spectrum...

There are masculine ones that want to submit... get feminized (temporarily)... don panties and cross dressed. To uniformed solders who want to kneel and suck, or just bend over and get pounded:)

If you think you have seen it all, JUST WAIT!

Just remember to take it at your own pace, and most of all... BE SAFE! Have FUN!!!
 
When I was 23 I got out of the army and got married. I was a major closet case. When I met my parter whoI am with ow. I came out to her, she was sad but understood me even thoug she dd not know before. I have two grown sons and they hawe no problem. If you want to go gay hae decency to tell her!
 
It's not all about finding a reason to "fit" into something, but it's all about self-discovery over time, and it's literally "who you are".

I do think that most guys (and gals) get married early on because subconsciously, they feel like it's the thing that you do cuz everyone else is doing it, but... most ppl don't realize what they feel in themselves unless it gets tapped somehow...
 
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