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I feel like an idiot!

Telstra said:
how about doing abit of naughty hint to him like putting some nude man's pics in your book and let him see by accident and wait for his comments.
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I suppose that would work! The reaction from him would be priceless I'm sure :=D:
 
Try this as an exercise. Next time you're talking with somebody - not necessarily this person - take a second to find places where you could, if you wanted to, come out. Just in casual conversation, without majorly derailing things (with a "I'm gay BTW"). You'll be surprised how easy it is.

"I'm going to see (movie) this weekend."
"I haven't seen that one. I know other gay guys are supposed to be all gaga for (actor in movie), but honestly, he doesn't do anything for me."

Lex
 
I can get to the point where coming out to good friends isn't really an issue.
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you answered your own question, pursue him as a friend and come out to him when you're ready.

one thing you're not doing is pursuing gay men either. your whole focus is on one man you only dream about and actually see once a day. what happens when the semester is
over, then what?

you gotta focus on other more available people and if u. wanna be with this guy, u better try to be his best friend out of class.
 
G-Lexington said:
Try this as an exercise. Next time you're talking with somebody - not necessarily this person - take a second to find places where you could, if you wanted to, come out. Just in casual conversation, without majorly derailing things (with a "I'm gay BTW"). You'll be surprised how easy it is.

"I'm going to see (movie) this weekend."
"I haven't seen that one. I know other gay guys are supposed to be all gaga for (actor in movie), but honestly, he doesn't do anything for me."

Lex
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So my two friends here are boy crazy. Let's say they were checking out a guy (as they always do), would be it right to say 'Him? He isn't really my type.' ?


spencer said:
you answered your own question, pursue him as a friend and come out to him when you're ready.

one thing you're not doing is pursuing gay men either. your whole focus is on one man you only dream about and actually see once a day. what happens when the semester is
over, then what?

you gotta focus on other more available people and if u. wanna be with this guy, u better try to be his best friend out of class.
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But I do pursue gay men, but like I said it has only been online where I find guys. There are tons of guys that live 2 hours away or back at home, but I'm not into long distance. For once I would like to date someone who is here with me or at least close. There's this one guy I would very much like to date, and he would like to date me as well, but because I went away to college we agreed we shouldn't start a relationship. I just want to know if this guy at school is into guys or no. I'm sure there are other gay guys on campus, I just don't know any (yet). Nonetheless,you're right - I'd love to just be friends with him at least. I'd like to hang with him outside of class as well, but one step at a time I suppose.
 
>>>So my two friends here are boy crazy. Let's say they were checking out a guy (as they always do), would be it right to say 'Him? He isn't really my type.' ?

Yes. It'd be better if you were more specific (otherwise they might think he's not your type because he's a guy). "Him? He's not really my type. I tend to like bigger guys/older guys/longer hair on guys."

Lex
 
Thanks Lex, I will try it for sure when the timing feels right.

Well, it is almost like he read my mind today. I pretty much put myself off him by mentally convincing myself he has a gf. Then he randomly tells me that his friend was looking for an anniversary gift for his girlfriend, and then he said that he recommended something he got his ex girlfriend. I know gay men with ex girlfriends, but still I kinda get the idea that he his straight. Then moments later he invited me out tonight (not a date of course). I don't really know what to expect, but I told him I would go. I know the night will not go the way I want it to go and I will most likely be let down, but curiousity killed the cat. And hey, I've made a new friend, or on my way to making a good friend...which is never bad.
 
It sounds like you're still refusing to let this guy go as a prospect. Get ready for heartache. I know it well.
 
The night was fun, but of course I just made a really good friend. He's a nice guy, just that. He has a girlfriend too I discovered. I'm not so much 'heartbroken" as I told myself last night that he most likely had a girlfriend, and I was right. Ooh well. I still had an amazing night and made 2 new buddies!
 
Well, there are 600,000,000 other gay men on the planet. Keep your chin up. (*8*)
 
Thanks Lube :) I most certainly will. I will still apply this advice given in this thread :) Thanks everyone
 
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