I feel like crap

[ichorinmyveins2]

I'm beginning to think you two are made for each other.

You mean in the bad way? lol I felt as if I were watching a soap. Only that in soap, you can petition for a kiss.

 

[EvilForce]

Wll now he isnt talking to me. You see when im with him he is always sporting a raging hard on. I'm not tthat type of person i need to realy be into it to start getting hard. Its not that i dont feel any less of him or anything. He was driving and had a raging hard on. I was soft he felt me. He parked and we went on to finish eachother off. I went and so did he. He said he nevr saw me go so much and that it was hot. Fastforward to today he texts me a few messages saying he feels embarressed that i am not on the same level as him and thats the reason why he should cool off cause he is vulnerable and that he is letting his feelings run amuck. I am feeling like shit again guys. I texted him saying how i feel for him and how i am also vulnerable. What do i do??? I want to keep seeing him more.

What part of this is a surprise? He blew his nut, his guilt overwhelmed him, so he puts distance between himself, and the person that caused that guilt, you. Get used to it. He'll bust his nut in you, or on you, then run home to his comfortable life trying to forget about you, and his gay sex. Then a few days or weeks later when he's horny again, he'll call you up, hang out with you again, bust his nut, and repeat the behavior.

You chose this. You decided you wanted this. You are the one making yourself feeling like shit, not him.

 

[G-Lexington]

He'll contact you when he's ready.

Lex

 

[MindBlast]

Well guys it's not that he wasnt talking to me i blew things out of proportion. He said he couldnt talk or text cause i he had guests over. We talked more and talked baout how we both like eachother we cleared things up. I just have to be patient and know that if he doesnt respond or talk back right away that doesnt mean anything. I dont want to screw things up so i will just be patient.

IMO you're doing it wrong, sorta. You have to sit down with him in private and let him know CLEARLY how you feel, and ask if he's willing to actually go out with you for real, to be your real boyfriend.

What you're doing right is not pressuring him with calls and texts. There's no faster way to scare a guy off than to spam him.

 

[EvilForce]

This relationship is going exactly as many of us figured.

I'm sure there's plenty more ups and downs (drama) to come.

He's getting mad at you thinking you're a "whore" behind his back because he's cheating on his girlfriend. No surprises here.

 

[rareboy]

Anyways he said i had to leave his house by 6 cause his girlfriend was coming. 5:30 rolls by and im holding him. I go to grab my dick and play with it but put it back in cause i could tell that wasnt the right thing to do. Anyways he gets uyp to stretch change position on couch he walks tgo the window and notices that his girlfriend is coming in. So we rush to the porch and sit outside pretending we are just chillin I meet his girlfriend. He then gives me a ride home. The whole time we were both in shock. He said he was just glad he didnt get caught in a compromising situation. He told me that this was where we parted ways. That whole crazy situation scared the shit nout of him i could tell he just kept saying that we wouldnt be seeing eachother again. I ask him for a last kiss goodbye and he said that "i can't man im sorry" I said that i would never be seeing him again and that all i wanted was that he grant me that last request he said no again and that he was sorry im sad guys i should have seen this coming but we

Well, there you go. Go back and reread my first post.

Next time around, try to avoid fucked up, closet case, cheating assholes like him.

It is pretty hard to empathize or sympathize with your situation at this stage when you just keeping pursuing the worst possible type of relationship for a gay guy.

One more time.

Stop wasting your emotional effort on this loser. You can't fix him. I don't think it is worth the effort.

 

[G-Lexington]

Most of us pretty much called this back in May. We weren't being snippy. We've just seen this type of thing before. And I'd love to tell you that I've often seen the straight guy suddenly "wise up", ditch the bitch, and settle down with his best friend. But TV movies on Logo aside, it just doesn't happen all that often. And what you told us about your guy certainly didn't indicate that he'd be the exception rather than the rule.

Look, we actually do want you to be happy. And yes, this guy makes you happy. But for short periods of time, surrounded by drama and grief and heartache and confusion. That's not how relationships are supposed to work. You shouldn't have to resign yourself to being happy during those brief periods when his girlfriend's out of town or working late. No, relationships aren't all sunshine, lollipops and rainbows, but they're certainly supposed to be better than this.

Go ind yourself somebody who you can be happy with almost all the time. Because he IS out there.

Lex

 

[Telstra]

skipping thru the posts,

i think its ALL about wanting sex, if not, i don't think you 2 would text each other.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>This month i am taking a 2 summer classes till august13th. So is he and we are going to the school at the same time: in the evening. So i might see him.

Anyone for coffee?

Lex

 

[KaraBulut]

>>>This month i am taking a 2 summer classes till august13th. So is he and we are going to the school at the same time: in the evening. So i might see him.

Anyone for coffee?

Change the offer to Bailey's and I'm there.