I feel like I'm converting a straight guy...

[kookookid512]

Okay so this past year my friend who is a girl got this boy friend.... straight and manly and un-gay as can be.... he hunts, wears confederate flags, and is a 3rd time convicted felon. Like if you don't think total straight, dirt bag... you're silly hahaha but lately me, him, and her have been hanging out a lot... And we've become honestly best friend, him and I. We've been doing everything together; video games, going out, going out to eat what ever.

We went on a whole other level two weeks ago. We were rollin at a friends house and one thing lead to another we ended up cuddling the whole night... and the girlfriend was fine with it because he seems like the guy that would NEVER even think of being gay/bi/curious.... 2 nights ago me, him, his girl, and our other girl friend were drinkin some loko's and the girls fell asleep around 2... we stayed up and we talked all night he was tellin me that he's had thoughts of being gay, and that he's jerked off to gay porn before all this shit.... we were wasted... and he was saying if me and kelly ever break up he definitely hook up with me.... and throughout the night we were hugging, he was touching my ass, he was air humping me while doing that and I had the biggest hard on EVER....

By the end of the night he was like mikey.... wanna be the first guy to touch my penis? so I did.... Mikey... can I touch your penis?..... and he did... lol and then we ended up cuddling again the whole night and while I was getting down to cuddle with him he was like "Mikey, if I say let's do it.... we gonna do it."



Am I converting him or is just the influence that is?.... I don't want to tell anybody that's why I'm going to this forum.

 

[CGHJ]

Whatever you're doing it's HOT AS FUCK. I don't think you're converting him, he's been to prison 3 times he already got converted, son, a long time ago.

Keep us posted, please.

 

[stevexxx]

what a damn shame

 

[kookookid512]

The thing is... I'm not even trying!! hahah I don't even understand it how I am... like if they ever do break up... fuck yeah I'll be right up on that if he's being for real... but I just don't know if the influence is talking or its the sober words coming out ya know??

 

[CGHJ]

The thing is... I'm not even trying!! hahah I don't even understand it how I am... like if they ever do break up... fuck yeah I'll be right up on that if he's being for real... but I just don't know if the influence is talking or its the sober words coming out ya know??

Like I said, he's been to prison, he's already been converted. But not for a relationship or anything like that. He had male companionship and probably some good BJs in prison and he misses that.

However, however tempting it may be, don't do anything to hurry that along or you'll end up losing your girl friend (friend who is a girl) and be a rotten no good person. But she's probably not giving him what he wants so just have patience

 

[palemale]

What makes you think the guy is a right-wing, conservative, or Republican? Maybe he is, but the OP didn't say he was. According to the OP's profile, he is from New Jersey, so he very well might be a Democrat. Of course, from the description, I rather suspect he has never seen the inside of a voting booth.

By the way, Koolkoolkid, he told you he jerks off to gay porn (in addition to having been in jail). I don't think you are converting him.

 

[MIJ-VI]

OP IMO you're coincidentally functioning as more of a conduit than as a means of conversion.

 

[Seasoned]

No one can be converted. The guy is a redneck with guns and you want to be around while he comes to terms with his sexuality? This sounds like cheesy gay fiction.

 

[CGHJ]

I am amazed by the number of people that sound like they're off their meds today.

 

[Rex]

I agree. There is no such thing as "converting".

From what you said, he's had thoughts of gay sex and jerked off to gay porn so he's not completely straight in the first place. He wants to act on these feelings but if he does and ends up having issues about it, which is bound to happen by the way because lots of guys do when first coming to terms with their sexuality, then you might end up losing a friendship so take that into consideration.

Make sure you know what you're getting into.

 

[youngnihilist]

wears confederate flags

A lot of southern redneck types are devoted liberal democrats too. Like in west virginia. very democrat state. yeah I know they voted for bush and mccain but they also vote for liberal white confedereate types too like robert byrd. anyway beside the point.

as others said doesn't sound like he's converted if he's done that much time in PRISON, likely he has a lot more experience than you do

 

[CGHJ]

wears confederate flags

SO? WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING?!

Seriously, this is just ignorant.

 

[Krakenbwool]

I know it's exciting to think that you may be converting him, but you aren't. A straight man can't be "converted" to gay any more than a gay man can be "converted" to straight. He's already had these thoughts before, and when you came along, you presented him an outlet to act on these thoughts.

 

[jacquard]

I think it could be more along the lines of there's no such thing as a straight, drunk guy lol.

 

[palemale]

wears confederate flags

I have working class, white relatives in New Jersey who are a bit racist, yet they always vote Democrat, and voted for Obama.

 

[ffolkesmaster]

I know it's exciting to think that you may be converting him, but you aren't. A straight man can't be "converted" to gay any more than a gay man can be "converted" to straight. He's already had these thoughts before, and when you came along, you presented him an outlet to act on these thoughts.

Gotta agree here....no one is converted. He probably actually falls in that vast "grey" area between straight and gay like many of us. Since he's been jacking to gay porn, he was obviously interested before. You are providing an outlet for those feelings he already has and the alcohol is just loosening up his inhibitions to act on them. Thats not to say he won't act on them without the alcohol, it just happens faster. Relax, if it happens, it happens. My bigger concern would be a relationship with three time convicted felon....hope it wasn't for anything violent.

 

[kookookid512]

Oh don't worry about the third time convicted thing. As I've gotten to know him he's honestly one of the nicest guys ever... although very intimidating. Haha

 

[kookookid512]

And just letting everyone know nothing is even awkward. Lol we just had a sober sleep over hahah like im writing this on my phone as he's on the other couch hahah but thank you guys.. you have given me a lot of insight that was much needed keep commenting if you want


P.S. we are partying again tonight so if anything happens ill letchu guys know

 

[Bi Married Male]

Okay so this past year my friend who is a girl got this boy friend.... straight and manly and un-gay as can be.... he hunts, wears confederate flags, and is a 3rd time convicted felon. Like if you don't think total straight, dirt bag... you're silly hahaha but lately me, him, and her have been hanging out a lot... And we've become honestly best friend, him and I. We've been doing everything together; video games, going out, going out to eat what ever.

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[Bi Married Male]

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