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I Find My Mr.Perfect

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YingYang

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Hi guys i have been going to the club lately and i meet this guy, first time we meet we didnt talk much. then next week came we talk some more and every time he smile he light up my world. I finaly have the courage to ask for his Number and If he single or not. He told me he is single and gave me his phone NUmber. I try to call him serveral time this week but he always seem bussy. His mom call back one time and ask me who am i and does i want to talk to him. I was so stupid i said no, because i was in thie mid of my sleep. I went to the mall today and bought him a t Shirt and hoping he would like it and accept it when i see him this week. What should i said to him and what should i write in my Card that i bought??? PLease help
 
he isn't even answering your calls and you have only saw him twice and from what you are telling us it seems like he isn't interested and you don't know him well enough to start showering him with cards and gifts. if by chance you guys do click and develop a relationship then gifts are appropriate but giving them right now just makes you seem desperate and pathetic so hold off until he makes and effort to call you.
 
meeting good guys in clubs is rare so congrats. most r skeezys lol. and although being busy all the time can be a good thing (you know he has a life), i dont see My Mr.Perfect's mom ever calling me like that. akward... hehe. good luck tho hope he's a keeper for u
 
Every culture is different, even within a small town. I'm assuming that you're both Asian, hence the extended family situation. It doesn't matter if you're actually in Memphis, TN or or the darkest, hottest jungles of island or mainland Asia; family is going to be involved.

In my humble opinion, a greeting card of any sort is over the hill (too much), and even the cheapest of t-shirts this early in the game is ostentacious. At least you're taking the time to ask others' opinions, but ultimately, it's up to you on what you do exactly.
 
LOL You work fast. guess you got over that white boy from you campus?

I don't think you should have bought that t-shirt. buy it to wear but don't give it to him. that might freaks him out. and if he's busy and can't talk, then start texting him. I think texting is sometimes better than calling. Because you can text more without giving that person a sense that you're kinda stalking him in comparison to calling him. No needs to look desperate...you did your part, now it's his turn.
 
I agree.

Slow down.

You're going to scare him away.
 
it is his home phone...... guys and plus he seem realy sweet to me, from time to time. he buy me drink too. Im not desperate...... but when i look at him i feel desperate.
 
YingYang said:
it is his home phone...... guys and plus he seem realy sweet to me, from time to time. he buy me drink too. Im not desperate...... but when i look at him i feel desperate.
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Buying you a drink every once in awhile is meaningless in terms of how much this guy is or is not into you and if you admit yourself that you feel desperate then it is a safe bet that you probably are.](*,)
 
lol he doesnt just buy me drink once in a while he, i gave him the T Shirt last Thursday, and he love it, but he told me that he is moving in 2 weeks. Im Kinda sad right now, because i will miss him so much. He gave me his email address and his face book website. He said he like me very much but chances are that we might never see each other agian. He told me to keep contact with him and go visit him in Michigan some time if i have time. And No Payit4ward im not desperate i just dono what to do. Thanks guys for you help but i dont need it any more i think i can handle the situation on my own.
 
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