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I found a HS friend on an online dating site...

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i could really use some advice...i found this guy on an online dating site that went to my high school. long story short, we got to talking and found out who each other was. we are both recently out of the same high school. he was looking for a relationship or a hookup but i didnt feel the same way about him, so he blocked me from facebook and wont return my emails or messages on the dating site. we are both bi and in the closet but i am very afraid that he is going to out me because he's pissed at me. what should i do?? i'm really not ready to be outed now...](*,) thanks.
 
To be honest, I wouldn't be too worried. How does someone who's in the closet, out somebody else, and claim to know? If you're both in the closet, you're fine. Even then, I think 99% of gay guys respect the fact that some people haven't come out of the closet yet, and we don't knowingly out those who haven't decided to come out yet.
 
hairbway207 said:
i could really use some advice...i found this guy on an online dating site that went to my high school. long story short, we got to talking and found out who each other was. we are both recently out of the same high school. he was looking for a relationship or a hookup but i didnt feel the same way about him, so he blocked me from facebook and wont return my emails or messages on the dating site. we are both bi and in the closet but i am very afraid that he is going to out me because he's pissed at me. what should i do?? i'm really not ready to be outed now...](*,) thanks.
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Why would he out you, when he's at an equal risk of you revealing his sexuality. Stop thinking the worst of everyone. What's he going to say? "I wanted him to blow me, but he wouldn't?" Whatever. :rolleyes:

Additionally, once you're out, this kind of high school drama holds nothing over you. You are your own man. Travel your own path, and come out as soon as you can, yet in a safe way.
 
how could he be pissed at you if you just reconnected, unless some did something.

But he is not going to risk you saying anything either, so dont make to much of this..
 
Wow, he's a bitter queen if he reacts that way, so I think you are right to be a little worried. But on the brightside, hey, its great to be out and sometimes you gotta be kicked out of the closet.
 
The classic situation,

"I saw John at a gay bar last weekend!"

"Really? Wait a second.. what were you doing at a gay bar?"
 
thanks for the advice. but he finally answered one of my emails and told me that he would keep my secret. i feel a lot better about it and maybe someday soon i will work up enough courage to come out...
thanks everyone for the help! :)
 
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