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I found someone I know on CL!

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I've recently started exploring myself sexually with other guys and I've found it easier to find like minded guys discreetly on craigslist. I posted an ad a few days ago looking for someone to meetup with and a guy replied with a body shot hiding his face. I replied with one of my own and we talked a little bit and exchanged "other pics" as well. I was ready to invite him over but I wanted to see a face pic first. He sent me one and when I opened it I realized it was a mutual friend from school:##:

I got nervous and told him I knew him but we both promised we'd keep it between us and I showed him my pic as well. He seemed to panic and said he didn't want to meetup now cause he "knows me knows me" and that he wanted us both to delete our messages. I promised him no one would find out, which I meant, and that we could still meet if he was up for it but he said he couldn't.

The thing is we aren't actually friends we just have the same friends from school, and while working on a few projects together we've only exchanged a few words between one another at best but I would have never had know he was into guys and vice versa. It's possible he just wasn't interested in me but I really think he got freaked out and probably embarassed that he knew me. I actually would like to have someone I know and I'm comfortable with so I won't be giving myself to some random person but I don't know what to do or say to convince him it's okay for us to meet. Should I give it up or try talking to him again?
 
give up. if you keep trying he'll more than likely flip out. deeply closeted guys are a different type to deal with. I'd deff keep the emails etc. not to use as blackmail our anything if the sort but if for some reason he decides to say you came on to him etc you'll have proof it was mutual. these guys can be unpredictable and some of them in an effort to keep their secret. can do some stupid things.

Steven
 
Give up and respect his request to delete. Being in the closet can be very weird and awkward.
 
I kinda now regret asking for a face pic, if we had just met up he might've been horny enough to let it go and just get off (like we both wanted)... it's too late now I guess, unless he changes his mind.
 
I would suggest leaving it be, however, since you know mutual friends and possibly work on projects together be friendly as if nothing had transpired. Do not bring it up and remain as calm and normal as before. Once he sees you are not seemingly interested his trust may allow him to slowly pursue it again. If the subject is to come up, let him make the move. Otherwise hope that the friendship remains and at some time in the future you both may laugh about the circumstances. Good luck and let us know.

Craiger
 
Had a close call like that last year. Craigslist is the only way to hook up around here so I posted an ad and got some good replies. One of them was a young well hung guy who was really nice and I was leaning toward having sex with him. I don't do face pics because where I live that can cause serious problems...but he sent one without asking.

Turned out he was one of my new employees! Ended up talking my way out of it, claimed I just got called into work. Made it up to him when he quit months later.
 
I had an ad on cl I'm a bottom looking for a top
This guy reply send me a dick pic. I knew the background was the bathroom at our work.
He told me his name. But I had to back out.
 
On Squirt.org, I've stumbled across the profiles of three people I went to school with. Two of them, I only realised who they were after we exchanged messages and unlocked face pics, etc. I don't think they recognised me (school was 15 years ago!), and I'm not out, so I chickened out of meeting up.

I felt slightly guilty that I knew who they were, but they (presumably) didn't know who I was.
 
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