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I fucked up BIG time...

kingdomheartsfreak

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Ok last night i did some seriously stupid stuff, a friend of mine had a free house and a few of us went round, stupidly i started drinking vodka straight from about 6pm onwards (i don't usually drink) so by about half 9 i was pretty wasted, and we started messing around with dares (side note, if i'm wasted i'll pretty much do whatever i'm told), so we got a few stupid dares out of the way and an out gay guy give me a dare, he dared me to suck his dick (speaking to him when we sobered up, he told me he was sorry about that and he only did it cos he had his suspicions about me), so i'm sucking this guy off and then a straight guy walks over and gets his dick out (calling it a double dare), so to cut the story short i had these two guys literally cum on my face in front of a bunch of other guys. The worse part of it is one of my best friends was there and he knows pretty much all my friends, i havn't had a chance to talk to him yet, but if he doesn't take it well, i'm fucked, i've never regretted anything so much in my life, what do i do? :cry:
 
You're gay. You're young. It's 2010.

You live in London for god's sake. Relax.

Half your friends are probably closet cases just like you.

Do you really think anyone minds?
 
Well done there!

Laugh it off. Seriously. If anyone brings it up, just laugh it off and tell them to fuck off....with a smile on your face.

The guys that put their cocks in a drunk friend's mouth have more to regret.

Just tell everyone that from now on, they don't need to get you drunk if they're cute and have a nice dick.
 
Honestly, if that's the stupidest or the worst thing you ever do, you'll have had a pretty boring life.

You're young. You're going to do stupid things. They're only mistakes if you don't learn your lesson from them.

Hopefully this time around you learned to 1. not drink to the point of stupidity and 2. pick your friends better.
 
sounds all rather harmless to me... you even stayed safe, consciously or not.

and it looks like the friend youre worried about doesnt have a problem with fags if he already has an out fag in his social circle.

so yeah, relax.

and dont drink like an ididot.
 
Alcohol/drugs and sex are never a good mix. Unlike the others here, I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss risky behavior. Learn from what has happened. Don't let chemicals or other people be in control of your sex life.
 
If he's truly your best friend, then he won't have a problem with you being gay. Apparently, he already has some gay friends. Depending on how Conservative he is, he may not be comfortable with you giving blow jobs to guys with an audience. That would be more of a sex in public issue, than a gay issue. Then again, he knew you were very drunk and didn't do anything to stop it. For that reason, I don't think it will be a big issue. I think all the guys in the room were somewhat OK with it and things would have gone differently. By the way, the "straight" guy (BJ 2), isn't so straight.

You have now set the stage for coming out. Don't back down and try to blame everything on the alcohol. If you don't do it now, you will be in the closet for a very long time. You may regret what you did now, but you may look back at it as a blessing in disguise.

Hopefully you also learned that getting that drunk is not wise and that you can do things that will get you in trouble. I know a guy who preached against drunk driving, then was arrested for DUI. He couldn't believe he actually made such a stupid choice. This time it only caused you a little embarrassment. Just keep in mind, that if it's taken too far, it could give you a police record or you could end up with an STD.

Give yourself a little slack. I predict it will be one of those things that you and your friends look back at and laugh. In a remember when sort of way that people talk about the good old times.
 
Well that's one way to "cum" out, haha.

You didn't hurt anybody. You didn't hurt yourself. Don't be hard on yourself. The only mistake you made was coming out to your best friend (in a very unique way) before you felt ready.

Talk to your friend as soon as you can. Keep it light and humorous. Avoid being shameful about what you did or being gay. Show confidence.
 
Ok, update, i havn't spoken to my friend yet, but when i got in from the shops my mum said he'd called and asked her to let me know he's having another house party tomorrow night, that must mean he's ok with it right?
 
kingdomheartsfreak said:
Ok, update, i havn't spoken to my friend yet, but when i got in from the shops my mum said he'd called and asked her to let me know he's having another house party tomorrow night, that must mean he's ok with it right?
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Probably. It really sounds like you are making too big a deal out of this.
 
kingdomheartsfreak said:
Ok, update, i havn't spoken to my friend yet, but when i got in from the shops my mum said he'd called and asked her to let me know he's having another house party tomorrow night, that must mean he's ok with it right?
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Translation:

He's got 2 more hot "straight" friends that wanna get sucked off, and figure you're the one to do it. ;) He's your pimp now. :D



But seriously, yeah, I think you overreacted just a teensie eensie bit. Sounds like things are fine.
 
I understand why you're anxious but I don't think you should be this worried. Shit happens. No real harm was done...just a little bit of sucking and cum. Bah...whatever.
If all my problems were of that kind, my life would be pretty awesome.
 
Go to the party, talk to your friend, and relax. We all do stupid stuff.
 
I understand why you feel bad, you feel exposed in front of a bunch of straight men.

But take it the nice way, you got to suck 2 dicks, you had fun, and you'll probably have more fun now that everyone knows you can do that when you're drunk lol. If they're not ok with it, just say you were drunk and move on :).
 
What's wrong with being a slut?

Nothing. Who gives a fuck about what a bunch of sex negative, prune faced, uptight maiden aunts might think?

Did you have a good time? What is it that you actually regret? Blowing the guys? Or the fact that your friend saw you blowing the guys?

Stay safe - men all over the planet are jacking off to scenarios like this in just about every other porn flick they can buy.
 
I want to be invited to a party where straight guys are whipping their cocks out and shooting loads. I always thought Brits were proper. Well now I know their proper filthy.
 
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