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Hi, I am hoping that someone can help. I don't know why but I rarely get hit on by other guys. I'm told I am quite handsome, I have a good body and I think I am quite nice (chatty, polite, etc) but I rarely get hit on by other guys. Everyone has crazy stories about sex in the gym, flirting on the tube, shops, etc; and me... nothing! I really don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas? I am 32 y.o. 78Kg, gym body (not huge but well defined), I have a beard, I am white, nice teeth, 1.83cm.
 
arm88 said:
Hi, I am hoping that someone can help. I don't know why but I rarely get hit on by other guys. I'm told I am quite handsome, I have a good body and I think I am quite nice (chatty, polite, etc) but I rarely get hit on by other guys. Everyone has crazy stories about sex in the gym, flirting on the tube, shops, etc; and me... nothing! I really don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas? I am 32 y.o. 78Kg, gym body (not huge but well defined), I have a beard, I am white, nice teeth, 1.83cm.
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Not sure why,you sound hot to me.
 
You didn't mention big dick. ;)

Seriously, do you give off a gay vibe? If you go under most guys' gaydar, I guess it's less likely that you'd get chatted up. Do you have better luck in a gay environment such as a bar or club where gaydar isn't really needed? Alternatively, why don't you try doing the hitting? It sounds from what you say that you'd get mostly positive responses.
 
Hi arm88, I agree with Paul (unloadonme), if you see some guy you like, go for it, you hit on him. If he says no, so be it, keep trying. You sound like a good catch from your description. Good luck Buddy (*8*)
 
Hi there from what you said it sounds like your a nice guy if you see something you like on a guy see what happens. If your up to you can post pics in the show off thread so we can see what you look like if you wanna
 
Do you want to get a guy, or do you just want the validation of guys hitting on you?

If the former, hit on guys that you’re interested in, don’t wait for them to hit on you.
If the latter, I don’t have any suggestions.
 
arm88 said:
Hi, I am hoping that someone can help. I don't know why but I rarely get hit on by other guys. I'm told I am quite handsome, I have a good body and I think I am quite nice (chatty, polite, etc) but I rarely get hit on by other guys. Everyone has crazy stories about sex in the gym, flirting on the tube, shops, etc; and me... nothing! I really don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas? I am 32 y.o. 78Kg, gym body (not huge but well defined), I have a beard, I am white, nice teeth, 1.83cm.
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Well... maybe give some thought to why you want to be hit on.

When you say you are chatty, does that mean that when you're at the gym and you see people who are there on a regular basis, do you introduce yourself? Or are you waiting for them to approach you?

If you do have friends who hang out in the same spaces as you, ask them why... and tell them to be honest with you. When they tell you, accept their feedback without judgment or argument.
 
I'm shooting in the dark since I don't know you or see how you carry yourself. But, sometimes this happens when a guy is hyper-masculine. Guys might be interested and love to hit on you, but be afraid to because they feel they have no chance with you and don't want to feel your rejection. I like DarkHelios' advice above--flirt with guys who interest you. Harmless flirting will break down any inhibitions they might have in approaching you. And, if they flirt back, go ahead and hit on them and see what happens.

P.S. A lot of "war stories" about gyms, and other escapades are exaggerated to titillate and make a boring story interesting. It does happen, and I have my own war stories, but not as often as one might think. Good luck. Let us know how you fare.
 
hello, Arm88,
I have a question. Do you feel you are an introvert lost among extroverts?
 
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