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I Hate Bisexuals...

u shouldnt hate bisexuals just cuz your husband made a mistake.

thats not fair.....
 
westwood blues said:
I'm very sorry to hear this. Actually this could happen to anyone. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he claims to be "straight". Yeah, he claims that he'll go back to women exclusively if and when our relationship ends. I would be a little nervous if he didn't have it so badly for me. ;) However, we do have a 100% monogamous relationship. No open relationship here!

If he's cheating, I have no idea where he's finding the time. We both work, and when he gets off from work, he comes straight home or meets me at the gym. One way or the other, he normally clings to me like a puppy. Actually he's the one calling me constantly throughout the day and coming to my workplace to see me quite frequently. He's the one accusing me of cheating when I fail to check in with him throughout the day as well. LOL.

If someone is cheating, there must be some telltale signs. They normally become a bit more distant I'd assume. Also you may catch them secretly speaking to someone on the phone, etc. One way or the other, you'll probably see some type of peculiar behavior if you're willing to look. It has to be devastating. If I discovered my boyfriend was cheating on me, I'd probably kick his ass first. Then I'd pack him and his things up and throw 'em all out at once.

Only then will I allow myself to feel betrayed and hurt. It may take quite a while to get over it, but there are other hot guys or girls out there. Although it would be very difficult at the beginning, I know I'm strong enough to eventually recover and move on. Let's face it. I'd have no choice. There's no way in hell that I'm going to spend the rest of my life sobbing and pining over a backstabbing asshole who doesn't want me. Life's way too short. I feel for you, guy!
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That's the crux of it all right there. Gay, Bisexual, or Straight.

jsnsessions

Just when you were comfortable that he chose you, he chose someone else.

From someone who's been there, please realize and know that this has no reflection against you, your character, or who you are as a person. It's about HIS lack of character.

You may never know why he chose her over you, and you shouldn't punish or torture yourself asking yourself the "why" of it.

One of the ways that I got over losing my guy; my bestfriend, my lover, was by asking myself, "Would I really want to be friends with someone who would do this to someone that they claimed to love?"

My answer was not only NO, but HELL NO!

You deserve to be happy.

You put your heart out there so far, and trusted him so much, and believed in him when no one else would, and this is how he repays your love, your loyalty?

He's not worthy to be in your presence!

The sooner you come to terms with that, the sooner that you recognize the value of your life, as a person, as a man, and as a human being, the sooner that you can forgive him for not measuring up to the standards of decency. Of trust, of loyalty, and of dignity.

I've been burned twice by "bisexuals" boyfriends. There won't be a third time.

Only because, and this is my experience, they've never come out as "bisexual" or as "gay," and when push came to shove they always claimed that they were "straight," or "just experimenting" so as to not "be gay." Or even bisexual for that matter. :(

Live and learn. Twice burned.

The best advice that I got when I was thrust into the pits of hell, of love lost, and a broken heart, and the broken dreams was this:
  1. Focus on where you want to be instead of where you are.
  2. Don't focus on what's missing, put rather on what you have.
  3. Don't forget to breath, and to take deep breaths. This means that you're still alive.

(*8*)
 
"I've been burned twice by "bisexuals" boyfriends. There won't be a third time.

Only because, and this is my experience, they've never come out as "bisexual" or as "gay," and when push came to shove they always claimed that they were "straight," or "just experimenting" so as to not "be gay." Or even bisexual for that matter. :(

Live and learn. Twice burned."

I hate them, too. It's only when a guy comes right out and says he's gay--doesn't beat about the bush, that I will get involved. I've been burned myself, and I hate them, too.
 
OK, it is confirmed that SOME people hate bisexuals. Agree to disagree. Now can we move on with our lives.
 
Wow! HATE! HATE! HATE! Can I say I HATE all gay people? Can I say I am straight and all Gays want to do me! Can a straight woman come on here and say a GAY man stole her boyfriend? Sorry, when I hear people say they hate bi guys because they have been burned, it just goes to show how IGNORANT they are! Slansky, what happens if a gay guy cheats on you? Do gay guys go into your special category of HATE groups or do they get a free pass?

MAYBE, just maybe its cheaters you have a problem with. Gay people get gay bashed all the time by straight people. Do you HATE straight people? All this HATE HATE HATE just makes me sick!

Those who hate bisexuals are NO DIFFERENT than the christian right conservatives who say that being gay is a choice. According to some gays, being bi is a choice. If your with a guy then your gay. if your with a woman your straight and thats it. These simple minded backward folk see things as black and white ONLY. Us bisexuals have to worry about the homophobes and NOW the homosexuals as well. I LOVE my gay brothers and sisters. I stand up for them as often as I can. I participate in gay pride events and every year for three years now do an annual walk for HIV. I am a gay advocate who has zero tolerence for homophobia and then I come here and see how gays HATE us. Can't you see that EVERYONE is capable of cheating?

Gays who hate bisexuals are in the same league as those christians who think being gay is a choice and immoral. All they can do is HATE. They have no desire to understand or even consider that they are just wrong. All blacks are crimminals, all hispanics are here illegally, all bisexuals will fuck anything that moves, and all Italians are in the mob.

This thread is disgusting and I feel no compassion for someone who speaks hate just because they are hurting. Someone was hurting this week and they went to a University and shot and killed people! Hate and hurt do not mix and frankly I think this topic should have been deleted by the moderators. Maybe I'll get some of Fred Phelps gang and the KKK and the skinheads to come over here to post. They should be welcomed with open arms judging by some of the MEAN spirtied posts I have read. Honestly, some here should be ashamed of themsleves! I wonder how they would feel if a bisexual was beaten like Matthew Shepard for being bisexual. I wonder if they would justify it and say "Oh, they deserved it because they couldn't choose". Or "They were asking for it". Or "I was hurt by a bisexual so I feel nothing when this sort of thing happens" Think about it, this post is titled "I Hate Bisexuals" and yet gays are the victims daily of HATE CRIMES. If ANYONE should be more compassionate towards bisexuals, I would think it would gay men.

ANYONE who hates bisexuals or anyone for that matter is NO BETTER than those groups (hence the title hate groups, hate crimes,etc) Those who hate deserve what ever misfortunes come to them.

You hate us for all the wrong reasons. We are just easy targets for you.
 
I just showed this post to a gay friend of mine who repulsed by the topic and the posts. They suggested I start a post titled "I hate Faggots' and see how well that went over. Or, "I hate Jews" or "I hate blacks (or maybe I should just use the 'N'word) Its very convenient for you to hate us but I think the sick individual who started this post should appologize. I say sick because apparently they are not well. If a black man steals my boyfriend away from then I suppose this 'sick individual' will assume I Hate all African Americans. IGNORANCE is alive and well here on JUB! Perhaps the poster of this disgusting thread all the other bi haters would be more comfortable posting over at Freerepublic.com or perhaps team with Fred Phelps and start a site called Godhatesbisexuals.com.
 
Thanks! I am just now noticing this post and am sick over it! I love everyone here at JUB. Gays, bi's, transgender, and even the straight people who sneak over here. Homosexuality and hate do not belong in the same sentence and the poster of this thread should consider themselves lucky I am not as ignorant as they are and assume ALL GAY PEOPLE MUST FEEL THIS WAY TOWARDS US!
 
bi-boy-mikey said:
I don't think you hate anyone, not really. You have been hurt really badly.
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inlovewithanton said:
He doesnt hate bisexuals anymore than he hates his husband. He's just hurt right now.
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Like more posters i know jnsessions doesn't hate bisexuals. He could have said he hate all spanish (which his husband is) or he could have said he hate men, but he wrote he hate bisexuals. All the 3 doesn't make sense obviously! You don't have to be a genius to know that.

He just hates his husband for cheating on him. Keep in mind that he is a bisexual man as well. So it doesn't make sense to think he would mean it. People should chill a bit in here. Don't take the thread title literally. He is just hurt.

jsnsessions said:
We don´t have sex elsewhere, we only have sex with other people only if the other is involved. Seeing that him and me are both bi, we have the need to be with a woman from time to time.
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Breathe in....breathe out. I am disgusted, but calm. Its true, I do not this poster or their threads. All I know is this one. I actually do take the title of this thread literally just like I would take the title of a thread "Death to all Faggots" as being pretty literall. Sure, we all get heated at times and God knows I have said things I wish I had not. But I also think we should all be responsible for our actions and the things we say and advocating hate is something I do not take lightly. I am a bisexual man who has been labeled as gay by others and two gay bashing attempts have been made on me. If someone accuses me of being gay I take that as a badge of honor because I believe that gay people are more compassionate and non-judmental than any other group. It disappoints me when I hear shit like this. I think the poster would have recieved a hell of alot more compassion and smypathy if they didn't throw in some good old fashion hate into the mix. I also know they must be in alot of pain and will entertain the possibility that they just said something really mean and stupid.

I keep thinking about the Isiah Washington situation or even the Michael Richards,Don Imus, or Mel Gibson situation. If we say something that hurts a race or group those people GET REALLY PISSED! Doesn't matter if the person really believes it, they said something hurtful and cruel and to just dismiss it is wrong,in my opinion. I stand by my comments. Apparently so does everyone else here becasue thats "their opinion". If I had a hateful opinion I'd share it. This seems to be the place its accepted and welcome. Sadly, I don't hate people like some. I just feel sad for them.
 
Ok, the OP has gone, I think its largely accepted that he did not mean what he said in the heat of the moment, lets face it we have all been hurt and I have said "I hate them, they are all b******s" more times than I can count (female BTW) but have never meant it.

I think if anyone feels that strongly about the things that have been said here they should report the specific post, start their own thread (in a diplomatic mature way) or take a deep breathe, move on and let this thread disappear.
 
Lyconthrope, I think you may be right. However, I don't think this thread is going anywhere.I don't know this poster. Didn't know they were bi (which doesn't really make sense when you stop and think about it)
 
RRRalph said:
Like more posters i know jnsessions doesn't hate bisexuals. He could have said he hate all spanish (which his husband is) or he could have said he hate men, but he wrote he hate bisexuals. All the 3 doesn't make sense obviously! You don't have to be a genius to know that.

He just hates his husband for cheating on him. Keep in mind that he is a bisexual man as well. So it doesn't make sense to think he would mean it. People should chill a bit in here. Don't take the thread title literally. He is just hurt.
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Except that he didn't use "men" or "Spanish".
 
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