I Hate Bisexuals...

[RRRalph]

Except that he didn't use "men" or "Spanish".

That's why i said he could have said men or spanish.

 

[lyconthrope]

OK.
The OP has apologised for his rash words, and as offended as some of you seem to be you must see he never meant them to offend or hurt anyone? rather he used them to show how hurt he himself was at the time.

and as for comments not relating to the thread (you know the ones I am talking about) I suggest you take it elsewhere and let this thread die

 

[dr_beat]

Could you let it rest already

I certainly do not wish to you what has happened to me...

Relax, dude. It was a simple question (which you never did answer).

 

[dr_beat]

That's why i said he could have said men or spanish.

But he didn't.

 

[dr_beat]

Have any of you ever said anything you regret when you are in the midst of being hurt, or angry?

Yes, it was wrong to post that kind of title on this forum. But he was in pain, and the only thing he was thinking was how much he hated his husband. It wasn't the entire world of bisexuals he hated. He wanted to tell his story.

And all of you took it way too seriously. He was looking for help and instead of getting it, you all nitpicked at his choice of thread titles.

He clearly does not hate bisexuals. He made a mistake. Don Imus was forgiven. So was Isiah Washington. How about we give jsnsessions some slack and forgive him for saying something he didn't mean in the heat of the moment?

Just my 2 cents.

The problem is, he still hasn't said why he posted the title, especially when he claims he's bi. Why not "I Hate My Husband..."?

 

[dr_beat]

Ok. When? Where? Won't you be grossed out by having my sperm inside your mouth? What do I get for a re-fund if I'm not pleased by the service?

THA

Just make your way up to Toronto. Let me know when you're cumming. And why would I be grossed out about having sperm in my mouth?

As for a refund, well, I'm hardly a hustler...

 

[gameboy 11]

I just want to die

This motherfucker has destroyed my life, I´m a worthless piece of shit. I know I deserve it for having an open relationship and thinking everything was good. But I gave him practically all my teen years and early youth. I aleniated my family for him. He is all I have. Oh God. The pain is unbearable.

You'll be alright. I really think you're being a drama queen about this. You don't NEED him to survive. Maybe he was your life but you really need to rebuild your life. Maybe get back close with some of your relatives. Time will heal your wounds, trust me. Then you'll be able to go out and find another hot piece of ass!

 

[greaves]

I have 2 bank accounts. (Perhaps because I'm bisexual? )

One is where I keep 95% of my money. I never use it to pay for anything.

The other is for everyday living expenditure.

The latter is more vunerable to potential theft, as I am using it almost daily across a wide range of paying options: online/supermarkets/ATMs/direct debits etc etc...

Never invest everything you have in one place/person/belief.

"In Every Dream Home A Heartache"

 

[probeteam1]

While we're sharing sentiments based on personal experiences, I'm weighing in to say I love bisexuals. Some of my best relationship experiences have been with bisexuals, even with guys who eventually settled down with women. While obviously these relationships eventually ended (they were in fact often quite short, at least the romantic or sexual element) and for so many reasons they weren't typical relationships to begin with, I learned a great deal and got to know some fantastic people in ways I otherwise would not have.

On the other hand, I do in general hate men, women, gay people, straight people, and pretty much anything in-between (or beyond), on general principle.

In response to a reply:

Not exactly the same comparison. Substitute "gays" for "women" or "bisexuals" and you might understand my reasoning.

If a group is marginalized already and you claim you hate the people in that group, it doesn't make you look very good.

I hardly think it'd be any better to ay "I hate straight people." And you'll note I didn't say I'd be inclined to let it slide entirely; just until tensions have died a little and the conversation was likely to become more than the online equivalent of a yelling match.


On the original topic:
jsnsessions: I've never been where you are, so I can't give you much advice. But for what it's worth I feel for you, and I'm sorry it happened.

 

[dr_beat]

I understand your anger over his choice of titles for his thread. But please see the thread below for more of an insight into what he's going through and why he may have picked that certain title at that moment.

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=155262

It is never OK to claim you hate any group. Either on purpose or by some "accidental" angry rant. But my feeling is, it was only the title. In the post itself he explained his feelings about his HUSBAND and his situation. He did not bash bisexuals for being who they are.

Never said he was bashing bisexuals. His choice of title was unacceptable and I've yet to hear a good explanation as to why it was chosen.

 

[dr_beat]

On the other hand, I do in general hate men, women, gay people, straight people, and pretty much anything in-between (or beyond), on general principle.

Huh??

In response to a reply: I hardly think it'd be any better to ay "I hate straight people." And you'll note I didn't say I'd be inclined to let it slide entirely; just until tensions have died a little and the conversation was likely to become more than the online equivalent of a yelling match.

No, I don't think it would be better to say "I Hate Straights.." or anyone for that matter which was entirely my point.

 

[Romantico]

Whats amusing is how I am called an alarmist. I am the one who needs to calm down. I am the one over reacting. I am the one who needs to just relax, yet I am not the one who started a thread titled 'I HATE BISEXUALS'. I am not the one who refuses to take responsibility for their actions. I am not a bisexual who starts a thread declaring how I hate bisexuals. Oh, but wait,...wait. I am the one who needs to just take a xanex and chill out.

I think you suffer from what alot of Republican politicans suffer from. Its called "Foot in Mouth' syndrome. Its easily diagnosed. All you do is refuse to appologize, get defensive, tell anyone who calls out your remarks that they are in the minority and say you didn't say what your accused of saying, dis-credit ANYONE who challenges you, and then just sweep it under the rug with a simple "I mis-spoke" and move on as if you did nothing wrong.

Hate does not belong in the gay community!

 

[lyconthrope]

He did apologise, read back

 

[Romantico]

Yes, you are right. He EVENTUALLY did.

Maybe some day in the near future I will appologize for being a tad upset over a bisexual starting a thread on a gay message board on how much he hates his own kind. We have a word for self loathing gay men, they are called right wing evangelicals who HATE on a daily basis in the name of the lord. Hopefully my constant nagging will drill in the posters head to THINK next time he advocates hate amongst his own kind!

Again, Hate does not belong in the gay community!

 

[lyconthrope]

^^the most sensible post I have read in the last day

("pain is your friends it lets you know your still alive, if you dont feel pain, you feel nothing")

(and dont start yelling at me for that! ^^ I didnt say it)

 

[probeteam1]

Huh??

In short, I hate everyone and everything, especially when I'm in a bad mood. I'm a cranky, bitter misanthrope.

No, I don't think it would be better to say "I Hate Straights.." or anyone for that matter which was entirely my point.

But I was responding to this comment:

Not exactly the same comparison. Substitute "gays" for "women" or "bisexuals" and you might understand my reasoning.

If a group is marginalized already and you claim you hate the people in that group, it doesn't make you look very good.

"Straights" are hardly marginalized in most contexts, and if you take away the elementof marginalization, then any group I substitute into the example (at least any group that hasn't earened a little contempt, all things considered) should suffice - a recently dumped gay/bi/straight man or woman proclaiming a hatred of men (or women) shouldn't necessarily ignite my outrage any more than a recently dumped man (or woman) proclaiming a hatred of bisexuals.
Or at least, I think you've failed to explain to me why it should.

 

[dr_beat]

But I was responding to this comment:"Straights" are hardly marginalized in most contexts, and if you take away the elementof marginalization, then any group I substitute into the example (at least any group that hasn't earened a little contempt, all things considered) should suffice - a recently dumped gay/bi/straight man or woman proclaiming a hatred of men (or women) shouldn't necessarily ignite my outrage any more than a recently dumped man (or woman) proclaiming a hatred of bisexuals.
Or at least, I think you've failed to explain to me why it should.

Again, "Huh?" You were the one who brought up the "I Hate Straights" thing, not me.

 

[dr_beat]

Which one of us hasn't made an irate statement or said something that we don't mean when in a state of utter devastation?

We don't usually say things where thousands of people are able to hear or read them. Big difference.

 

[lonestar]

Can we all forgive and move on like real men?

Wise words. It was just my opinion and I didn't want to hurt anyone.

 

[greaves]

^^the most sensible post I have read in the last day

("pain is your friends it lets you know your still alive, if you dont feel pain, you feel nothing")

(and dont start yelling at me for that! ^^ I didnt say it)

Quite the most hilarious, pompous, ridiculous and inaccurate comment in this thread. (And it's had plenty of competition ).

Pain is your body telling you there is something wrong. It's a symtom of a health problem that needs attention/medication/cure etc.

The opposite of happiness is unhappiness/sadness. Eg: I'm sad/unhappy that Spurs lost to Sevilla, over 2 legs, last Thursday in the Uefa Cup.

What this thread HAS illustrated brilliantly is that there are plenty of JUBbers who post their thoughts before engaging their brain. Let's hope they learn from it.