I HATE HATE HATE HATE my life!! / extreme rant

[Snickers52]

I agree, seek legal aid (free or othewise) and choose your friends more carefully next time.

 

[G-Lexington]

Anyone one else wanna poke fun at Sunshine's predicament? Surely we haven't wrung all the potential humor out of it yet.

Just tell the cops what you told us. You saw her with it, you told her to put it down since she couldn't afford it - even mention the part about the food stamps, as it adds credence to the story - and that was the last you saw it until you got handcuffed.

Lex

 

[Puzuzzu]

you guys are fucking jackasses, he's in trouble and you make jokes?
dude, honestly, having no friends is better than hanging out with retards. Consider yourself lucky, it could've been much worse.

 

[Yves]

Get legal advice NOW!

Is this the same friend mentioned on your running away thread? If so, you need new friends. Too much drama going on.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showpost.php?p=3968929&postcount=39


Is there a follow-up regarding Orlandude advice?

 

[gdude30]

The don't drop the soap thing was a bit mean. Although what I said wasn't s great either. But at least I apologized.

Finding a good friend is hard. But you shouldn't settle. If you feel like a friend is using you, treating like crap, or getting you to go to places or do things you aren't as sure as don't hang around them. I have pretty much no friends. Maybe only 2. Because settling isn't worth it. If I hung out with some of those people who would have used me they would steal shit and blame the whole thing on me. That happened at a store once too. One of the guys grabbed something and I told him to stop messing around with it. He was planning on taking something. I kept yelling at him and told him to cut it out and the store manager threw us both out.

Maybe I should have just let him take whatever he felt like taking and then get away from him. But I felt that I should have done something. Even though we got kicked out of the store he did not get in serious trouble.

I just really don't like people my age that much. Your story tells a good example of what must of them are like. Liars, thiefs, druggies, drunks, cocky bastards, and they never seem to think that what they do can have consequences on themselves and others around them. It almost makes them seem like stupid and selfish bastards but in some ways some can't help it.

This is the majority of teens out there. But there are some really good people out there who would be your friend and wouldn't use you and would respect you. Also sometimes people kinda joke around. You gotta be able to tell when people joke around or not.

But i'd rather have no friend, no partner, no family, and be all alone then deal with people who treat me like shit and use me or don't give a damn about me. I will never settle.

And I suggest you do get some kind of legal help. Check the yellow pages or search the web for someone and tell them your story. If she protests against you then you are fucked. And it would really suck if you had to go to jail. But since there is a chance that you can prevent losing money, going to jail, and all that stuff I think you should go for it.

 

[Jeimuzu]

Just tell them what you told us.

And ditch the 'friend'.

 

[Sunshine]

Get legal advice NOW!

Is this the same friend mentioned on your running away thread? If so, you need new friends. Too much drama going on.

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showpost.php?p=3968929&postcount=39


Is there a follow-up regarding Orlandude advice?

Same friend: no.

I have the numbers he gave me, I've looked up the addresses, this weekend I'm going to go to the building and talk to someone in person. Lately, I haven't had patience or a clear mind to "chat" on the phone.

I've been talking to my bestfriends mother who was going to be a lawyer...but isn't she's still VERY familliar with everything legal though. She said I should be fine...no jail time.... maybe community service & restitution. She told me the charges might even be dropped because I was no part of it and it wasn't planned.

Let's hope she's right.

I think I might also peace out of JUB for awhile. I come looking for advice and help. I'm only 18 and I know absolutely nothing about anything and all everyone seems to want to do is laugh and make jokes. If you all could see my eyes maybe you would think different. I'm not looking for attention, don't you think I've been getting enough of it lately? Ijust need help.

There have been a handful of people here who have actually gave me useful advice and I want to thank them from the bottom of my heart. Thank you all so much.

 

[gdude30]

Well if your a thief you probably wouldn't care about your friends so much.

That's great news sunshine. I think it will work out.

Hell I'm 18 too and I get made fun of sometimes. Well I guess I'm probably more used to it and I'm not. It's not so much that people here are mean and don't understand the situation. Sometimes laughter and jokes are a good way to cope with stressful times anyways.

I know that this probably is scary and personal for you and maybe I shouldn't have made the jokes and same as some others. But still. You should try not to take thing so personal on the internet. Just because it's the internet and some things you shouldn't take so serious. But there are times when you should be serious. This sort of felt like one. You said the rant rant thing so it sounded more like complaining and trying to let some steam out but you did sound sorta scared and unsure of what to do.

And yeah some people here are cool and will help no matter what and not make jokes or judge you. I'm not one of them though.

Anyways good luck with this and I am a bit interested in the result. Be sure to fill us in.

 

[Shepherd 2]

Anyone one else wanna poke fun at Sunshine's predicament? Surely we haven't wrung all the potential humor out of it yet.

Just tell the cops what you told us. You saw her with it, you told her to put it down since she couldn't afford it - even mention the part about the food stamps, as it adds credence to the story - and that was the last you saw it until you got handcuffed.

Lex

I need not say what has already been said, but usually Lex is exactly right, and he is this time too. Thanks, Lex.

Shep+

 

[JackFTwist]

Same friend: no.

I have the numbers he gave me, I've looked up the addresses, this weekend I'm going to go to the building and talk to someone in person. Lately, I haven't had patience or a clear mind to "chat" on the phone.

I've been talking to my bestfriends mother who was going to be a lawyer...but isn't she's still VERY familliar with everything legal though. She said I should be fine...no jail time.... maybe community service & restitution. She told me the charges might even be dropped because I was no part of it and it wasn't planned.

Let's hope she's right.

I think I might also peace out of JUB for awhile. I come looking for advice and help. I'm only 18 and I know absolutely nothing about anything and all everyone seems to want to do is laugh and make jokes. If you all could see my eyes maybe you would think different. I'm not looking for attention, don't you think I've been getting enough of it lately? Ijust need help.

There have been a handful of people here who have actually gave me useful advice and I want to thank them from the bottom of my heart. Thank you all so much.

You want people to feel sorry for you and take you seriously and your idea of getting legal advice is to talk to a friend's mother who was "going" to be a lawyer? Yeah, what is a little community service and restitution, just a criminal record for you.

You either take responsibility for your own life (and being 18 is being not a child) or you do not.

 

[gdude30]

Chill JackFTwist he is probably nervous about this whole thing and insulting him won't help. I don't think he is asking for pity I think he wanted more to know what to do.

It's hard to expect an 18 year old to know how to find a lawyer. I don't know how the fuck to do it. I'd be asking the same thing if I was in this situation. While it may go on his record it is still better then going to jail. it's the lesser of two evils. Anyone would choose community service over jail.

Damn I hate hearing shit like that. Yes he is 18 and he is not a child. But at 18 you are still fresh, new, and very vulnerable to this world. Give him a break. Just because someone is 18 doesn't mean they should be expected to suck things up or to take on everything. It would be good for him to take responsibility for his own life but he might not know how yet. Hell I barely know how.

Gonna criticize me for not knowing how to take care of my own life when I don't know everything about this world?

 

[Sunshine]

You want people to feel sorry for you and take you seriously and your idea of getting legal advice is to talk to a friend's mother who was "going" to be a lawyer? Yeah, what is a little community service and restitution, just a criminal record for you.

You either take responsibility for your own life (and being 18 is being not a child) or you do not.

First, why exactly do I need people to feel sorry for me? How the hell is that going to help me?

Secondly, are you being an asshole because you can get away with it in this thread or are you doing it because you actually "care"?

Thirdly, I went to my friends mother because I knew I wouldn't have to pay her. She knows what she's doing and she's the best person I have righ now. Don't insult her.

btw, if you're here to tell me I'm an adult and I need to be responsible for whatever. You can GTFO because you're not telling me something I don't already know. But with parent's like mine it's not easy finding the right guidance and or support. I came home last night and she started laughing at me.

 

[sabot3ur]

fucking sucks, I hate court... but hopefully it'll all turn out well and be relatively uneventful like my court experience was.

and people need to stop being Dbags, freal.

 

[chillyboi]

for what it's worth
good luck sunshine

 

[USEDCAR]

Just like what the other guys said get a lawyer and carefully choose your friends. If i was you i would stop being friends with that girl. And Becareful about the Lawyer you choose because some are ripoffs


Oh i made a thread about a traffic ticket under my old name and there was assholes in my thread

 

[LatinoSTAR]

oh dont worry, that happens to me at least 3 times a week, but we dont get caught, because we're good like that.

Dont worry, all this bad, something really good will come from it all

 

[JustBoys05]

don't be friend with people don't have any money just kidding

 

[Alpha1851]

Sunshine, you stated in your "runaway" thread last week that you had previously stolen deodorant, a Batman pillowcase, and a few other various items. Were you ever actually charged w/ shoplifting? If so, just let your atty know upfront so they'll be prepared to make light of it. If not, then whatever you do, don't bring it up in crt or to your alleged friend. Have you been able to contact an atty yet?

 

[JackFTwist]

First, why exactly do I need people to feel sorry for me? How the hell is that going to help me?

Secondly, are you being an asshole because you can get away with it in this thread or are you doing it because you actually "care"?

Thirdly, I went to my friends mother because I knew I wouldn't have to pay her. She knows what she's doing and she's the best person I have righ now. Don't insult her.

btw, if you're here to tell me I'm an adult and I need to be responsible for whatever. You can GTFO because you're not telling me something I don't already know. But with parent's like mine it's not easy finding the right guidance and or support. I came home last night and she started laughing at me.

no one insulted your friend's mother - but in life you also get what you pay for and to get "legal advice'" from someone who was "going" to be a lawyer is worth exactly what you paid for it

and you can back off the asshole language because right now that person is you - all miffed and pouty and feeling sorry for yourself and seeking people to feel sorry for you and attention seeking

you want a criminal record, just keep going the way you are with this situation


and if your parents are that bad - and I don't doubt that - then you have to do something about that too - among your avenues of recourse there are your friends here who can support and stand by you and comfort you when your mother hurts you

but you will not prevent yourself from getting a criminal conviction by posting here or doing any of the ineffective things you have outlined - you want to be hugged or do you want the truth? you want us to feel sorry for you or do you want good advice such get yourself off the porn board and to legal aid if you have no money, to a lawyer if you have some money

law offices make a lot of money off of people like you who were just so helpless when they got their conviction and a few years later realized how fucked their lives were

I have given you the best advice you can receive and I don't expect a gratitude that will not happen but I guess I also expected to be called an asshole by you for caring enough to tell you the truth

 

[gdude30]

no one insulted your friend's mother - but in life you also get what you pay for and to get "legal advice'" from someone who was "going" to be a lawyer is worth exactly what you paid for it

and you can back off the asshole language because right now that person is you - all miffed and pouty and feeling sorry for yourself and seeking people to feel sorry for you and attention seeking

you want a criminal record, just keep going the way you are with this situation


and if your parents are that bad - and I don't doubt that - then you have to do something about that too - among your avenues of recourse there are your friends here who can support and stand by you and comfort you when your mother hurts you

but you will not prevent yourself from getting a criminal conviction by posting here or doing any of the ineffective things you have outlined - you want to be hugged or do you want the truth? you want us to feel sorry for you or do you want good advice such get yourself off the porn board and to legal aid if you have no money, to a lawyer if you have some money

law offices make a lot of money off of people like you who were just so helpless when they got their conviction and a few years later realized how fucked their lives were

I have given you the best advice you can receive and I don't expect a gratitude that will not happen but I guess I also expected to be called an asshole by you for caring enough to tell you the truth

So do you have crows that follow you everywhere?