On Topic Discussion I hate this time of year!

[Kulindahr]

Okay, shave head hair and vote for Mittens. Or warren.

I might have taken a (large) bribe to vote for Mittens until he lied all over the place claiming credit for the success of Detroit. Not even a billion dollars would do it, now -- such a pathological liar could start World War III with a smile, not even realizing he was risking species extinction.

 

[Kulindahr]

Just to clarify something important, the most pointed trouble is that the confusing overload of impulses makes it difficult to think -- literally. Today I got in my truck, after sightings of GL males and females, and couldn't remember what I was supposed to do with the key, and then couldn't figure out why the key wasn't starting it -- took a minute of doing a checklist before I remembered I have to step on the clutch.

When I got home, words on the screen were just jumbles, till I took a nap and had a cold drink.

 

[mikey3000]

Just go get one of each. Problem solved.

 

[G-Lexington]

No one posted this yet? Oh well - I'll do it.

Lex

 

[Kulindahr]

Just go get one of each. Problem solved.

If I could afford to hire one of each as helpers at my project and to be "available", I would. Maybe doing both of them at once would clear my mind?

 

[bankside]

If I could afford to hire one of each as helpers at my project and to be "available", I would. Maybe doing both of them at once would clear my mind?

LOL. You seem to have incidentally provided answers to a number of the ideas I posed in post #9….

 

[Lube]

Guys, guys...stop dumping on Kuli...if you bothered to read his stats under his avatar, it reads "bisexual" but also more importantly, it is listed as "SINGLE!" So there is no potential harm or foul to any poor, unsuspecting "significant other." Even if there was, the OP was merely lamenting the fact that as a bisexual, "sometimes you feel like a nut...sometimes you don't." Kuli, I have full faith that when you do enter in a loving relationship with either gender, you'll have your thoughts solely on that lucky person, 365.24 days a year!!

Maybe you should re-read his post:

And it's scary. If I should ever manage to have a BF, when Spring rolls around will I suddenly be finding the gals on the street hotter than he is? For that matter, what if I meet a guy who would be my perfect BF in the Spring, and just am not interested? or what if I fall for a gal in the summer, and suddenly in the fall she looks ugly to me?

 

[Lube]

BAM!! And there it is, the ol' bisexuals are selfish BS. And only 10 threads in. Nice. Responsibility? Pleeeeeaaaassssseee. Who you kidding. it's just plain condescension.

Maybe you should re-read my post. I use two non-bisexual examples (an iPod listener and a gay man) to show how it has nothing to do with bisexuality.

You sound like those spoiled rich kids that need a 64 gb iPod because they need to have every song with them at all times in case they want to hear it.

"Let me ditch my boyfriend when it's inconvenient for me, or when I'm not 100% attracted to him". Good luck with that.

This has nothing to do with sexuality and everything to do with selfishness.

I mean, as a gay man, I could say, "oh I get so turned on by those pretty boys in their speedos in the summer, and don't feel very attracted to my boyfriend. It's not my fault, it's just natural." Sure, there's truth to that, but there's also the feelings of your loved one.

Usually I'm very permissive about sexuality and fetishes and whatever (and I think people should do whatever pleases them, even if other people say ewwwwww that's disgusting), but this has more to do with responsibility and maturity than sexuality.

 

[Lube]

Wow -- what a way to turn my post upside down!

I guess that's the thing--if you just talked about the first part of your original post, I'd view it as nothing more than a flight of fancy.

But then you had to talk about bringing a partner into the equation--and that's when it became selfish.

 

[freefall]

In my mindset, now I see it.

In winter, you're looking for a hot rod to ride to make you warm.

In summer, you're looking for something flappy on the outside and moist in the inside.

There you go. Treat yourself with pancakes and ice cream during summer, then switch to churros in winter. It will all be cured

 

[Taz]

i dont understand how someone can stop being attractive in a different season? but, everyone perceives things differently.

I say just enjoy it, life is more fun with people to perve on

 

[mikey3000]

Maybe you should re-read my post. I use two non-bisexual examples (an iPod listener and a gay man) to show how it has nothing to do with bisexuality.

Both examples you used are non sequiturs. The premise of the thread is a bisexual who's preferences shift with the seasons and you chose to highlight his dilemma with two examples of selfishness. I think your message is pretty clear.

 

[Kulindahr]

I guess that's the thing--if you just talked about the first part of your original post, I'd view it as nothing more than a flight of fancy.

But then you had to talk about bringing a partner into the equation--and that's when it became selfish.

I suggested you go re-read it. I guess you skipped that part.

You're still totally turning my post upside down. There's nothing selfish there at all. Selfish would be, "Fuck having a partner, I'll just go this alone", or "To hell with my partner, I'm going to follow my urges."

Get back to me when you can read at better than a second-grade level;.

 

[Kulindahr]

In my mindset, now I see it.

In winter, you're looking for a hot rod to ride to make you warm.

In summer, you're looking for something flappy on the outside and moist in the inside.

There you go. Treat yourself with pancakes and ice cream during summer, then switch to churros in winter. It will all be cured

I have no idea what you think you're talking about.

 

[Kulindahr]

i dont understand how someone can stop being attractive in a different season? but, everyone perceives things differently.

I say just enjoy it, life is more fun with people to perve on

Not being able to think is fun?

I don't find the seasonally variable attraction enjoyable. This is pure hell.

 

[freefall]

I have no idea what you think you're talking about.

Aw come on, use a bit of your creative colourful imagination

A graphic demonstration for this purpose:

 

[Kulindahr]

Both examples you used are non sequiturs. The premise of the thread is a bisexual who's preferences shift with the seasons and you chose to highlight his dilemma with two examples of selfishness. I think your message is pretty clear.

I hope he never has any friends who get borderline suicidal -- his "understanding" would make their suicides certain.

 

[G-Lexington]

Thank God when monosexual people meet potential partners, they instantly stop thinking about everybody else.

Lex

 

[sixthson]

Kuli, how old are you? Do I understand you have never been in a relationsip with a male or female?

It is possible to overthink it, you know?

Love can trump all. It might surprise you to know that the changing of seasons might just intensify these feeling toward the person you love and not away from him/her.

 

[Kulindahr]

Kuli, how old are you? Do I understand you have never been in a relationsip with a male or female?

I've never had a GF or BF, not in high school and not at OSU (graduated '93). Of course, during both those times I was very firmly pretending I wasn't sexual at all, because sex was evil, and all -- though I was doing some questioning at the end. I didn't "wake up" until 2004-ish, didn't realize and accept my real identity till 2006. So I've had less experience with sex probably than most of the 18-y.o.s on JUB.

It is possible to overthink it, you know?

When (at this time of year) I can think it all. The thinking I described in the first post is hardly anything organized, just bits and pieces of panicked, frantic, non-directed stuff that comes out coherent.

Love can trump all. It might surprise you to know that the changing of seasons might just intensify these feeling toward the person you love and not away from him/her.

Duh <kicking self smiley> -- hadn't thought of that. That helps.