I hate this!

[vamp]

There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. Trust me, I used to hate being bi, but that stopped when I found a way to cope. I hope you can do that soon. It is hard to get used to, but it isn't that bad. All my friends accept and love me. Also, look on the bright side of things. We bisexuals get to have the best of both worlds. lol!

 

[123kid]

Two quotes without comment.

"I don't want to be a part of this anymore. What do you have to say to that you fucking bastards!"

"You just don't say that to people. Learn some tact my friend."

Lex

first thing that popped in my mind.................

 

[Soilwork]

I hate being bisexual.
I hate that I like other guys.
I hate that I like gay porn.
I hate it all.
I want to be straight.
I want to get married to a woman and have kids and have a happy non-controversial average life!
FUCK!

Everyone hates gay people. Even the other gay people.
I just posted a thread because I was confused and concerned and I just got yelled at.
I don't want to be a part of this anymore.

What do you have to say to that you fucking bastards!
Are you going to yell at me for hating myself now?

Wow.

It's like watching a volcano break open.

dude.. let it out.

First.. not everyone hates gay people. Depending on where you live.. most people don't. Being gay isn't an obstacle for you unless you let it be.

I'm afraid that life ain't fair.

I didn't wanna be short and bald, but here I am, 5'6" and I ain't got no hair.

And in the end, NOBODY has a "normal" life except the people who fake it.

and why would you wanna do that?

 

[Soilwork]

If I get married to a woman, what happens when I have feelings to mess around with other guys. And if I am with a guy, what happens when I want to suddenly be with a woman. I couldn’t hurt people like that. Telling them that I loved them and then leaving them because I "just didn't feel it anymore". I have thought about what if I fall in love with someone, and I do really want it to happen, but I am a bit terrified of the concept at this point. Just because... yeah.

So why not partner up with another bisexual guy and occasionally share a woman?

I mean.. if he's comfortable with the whole thing and you are..

 

[capper269]

Sure I am bisexual, and I like both men and women, but I feel like that means that essentially I can't have either. If I get married to a woman, what happens when I have feelings to mess around with other guys. And if I am with a guy, what happens when I want to suddenly be with a woman. I couldn’t hurt people like that.

What happens when a married straight guy "gets feelings" to mess around with other women? The problem is the same, regardless of the gender attraction. If you choose to be monogamous with a single partner, regardless of whether that partner is male or female, you are obligated to remain faithful to them, no matter what. Anything else is cheating, no matter the gender or sexual attractions. If you do not think you can remain faithful to a single partner, regardless of gender, then don't go down that road and hurt someone. And that has nothing to do with being gay, straight, bi, lesbian, or any other label one chooses to put on themself.

 

[Matthew-]

Dont hate yourself. Its not your fault. I will not yell at you, its ok to be bisexual.