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I have a big Problem :/ (fall in love with my ex teacher -,-)

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Hey ,
I'm coming from Germany and I´m 18 years old
This is me ->http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q130/Flaax/2296117s22013963a6ab0052396d.jpg
My Problem is , if fall in love with my ex Teacher (he is actually my Guitar Teacher)
I know him for 6 years, and when i was 15 he want to get out of my mind .. every time i see him .. my heart stops beating ....
Every night i dream of him (don´t get me wrong , i don't dream about a hot fuck with him, i dream to be in his near, i dream about sleep with him in one bed , arm in arm and all this stuff)
We both have a very good relationship together .. we always make jokes and fooling around or something ... On my last day at the school (were he teach me ) I told him that he is more than a teacher for him. I told him that he is some kind of father figure to me , a person who i look up ..
He took me in his arm and told me that he is very proud of me, what i have become.And i actually think that i saw a tear running down his face..
This war probably the best minute of my life..
I know he is straight and i know how much he love´s his daughter and his Wife ..
But i cant get over him ..
Every time he look in to my eyes and smile to me , I´m melting away..
I don't know what to do ..
But i swear to me , that I´m telling my feelings to him
Here is a Picture of him -> [Removed by Moderator]

PS: Sorry my English is not that good
 
he is not old for me.But still thanks for his picture.
 
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photobucket does not work on this website. can you show the photographs via another medium?

there is nothing wrong with maintaining a close friendship to someone who has meant a great deal to you. it need not be a sexual one.

who knows he might just like to maintain a nice friendship with you. why not keep in contact with him? as very good friends.​

eM.:(
 
Hey arthak,

Welcome to JUB mate! Its great to have you on board and to see you posting. Your english is fine!

I've moved your thread to the coming out and relationship forums - its a better place for you to get some useful advice on your feelings from others who understand what you are going through.
 
Stay friends with him. Don't try anything. You will only embarrass yourself and him. When you meet someone else you will find, one day, you are no longer obsessed with.

I've been infatuated with many teachers/mentors/bosses. They were good men that I admired. Some were hot, others just great people. Of course, I never think about them today as I found people who were gay and available to make real memories.

Does he know you are gay? If not, maybe you could come out to him (without telling him how you feel). It might make your friendship stronger. What's his attitude toward gays?
 
jimbill said:
Stay friends with him. Don't try anything. You will only embarrass yourself and him. When you meet someone else you will find, one day, you are no longer obsessed with.

I've been infatuated with many teachers/mentors/bosses. They were good men that I admired. Some were hot, others just great people. Of course, I never think about them today as I found people who were gay and available to make real memories.

Does he know you are gay? If not, maybe you could come out to him (without telling him how you feel). It might make your friendship stronger. What's his attitude toward gays?
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NO, no one knows that I´m gay
I think he has no problem with gays, He is a very warmhearted person ..
He always look to the good side of someone.
I cant imagine that he quite our friendship when I`m telling him that I´m gay ...
 
You shouldn't have a link to your teacher posted on this site. Especially without his permission.

Your attachment is unhealthy. Even if he's your ex-teacher, he is still a married man with a family. You're fantasizing over something impossible and wrong. Besides, seeing him as a "father figure" makes falling in love with him even worse.
 
Hey, arthak, your story is very sweet, no matter what anyone else says. This happens to many gay men in their lives. It's one of the reasons there are so many threads at JUB talking about crushing on a straight guy. The good thing is you know he's not available to you, so you're already a step ahead of many people here! Good luck!

By the way, I've removed the link to his photograph, simply because a) you don't have his permission to post it; b) if somehow it was found and linked back to JUB it could cause him many an inconvenience in his life.

If you have any questions, please feel free to PM me.
 
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