I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Help I Don't Know What To Do

[kevinsexh8]

I met a man on msn, we started talking much, after he confessed he was looking for a serious relationship then we plan for a date to the movies but he did not come to the place. I felt very sad. But we sent us text messages and I forgive him everything, and the relationship became stronger, all night I called him and talking like 3 hours. we returned to get a date at a motel, the day of the date came. his name is Uriel, he is 24 year old, have a muscle body, he is hot and a good person. I have semiatletic body and I'm 20 yeards old. we had sex for 3 hours, during the sex he convinced me to do bareback, i was bottomin, i have never did it without condom but i accept, we kissed all night.

After sex we eat in a restaurant and talk a little bit more but i was really nervous and shy, that was my first date, i always have looking just sex in guy. That happened this Saturday. then the same night he send me a text message " I had amazing time with u today, you are a charm". I sent another one saying that he had done my day. and after that night could not stop thinking of him and later i send him another message I asked him What he was doing? but he never responded. The next day I was connected and he too but I began the conversation, but he was s little bit cold, I said I had liked him and he said the same to me and that I am tender. I said goodbye and he told me that he will be able to chat in the night, but he was not logged on, didn't call me or text me a message. I'm so desperate, i don't know what to do, I feel something very strong for him, i can't get him out of my head but a friend told me that if he is intered to me he have to call me.

I don't know what to do, shoul I ask him what he he feels for me, or
let it all happen what need to happen

I need some advice please, please, it's the first time I feel it for a guy

Note: sorry, my english, guy, I'm Latino

 

[Seasoned]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

People lie to get sex. You are a good guy who made a serious mistake. Don't bareback during casual sex. Try to remember that sweet talk is not the same as sweet actions. Please take better care of yourself, emotionally and physically.

 

[soccerboy029]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

I think what's more important than getting back in touch with him is getting yourself tested. Then we'll talk about your interest in him.

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

This is a story that happens often.

It happens with girls and guys. It happens with two girls. It happens with two guys.

When things happen too fast, people get scared of emotional involvement, so they run away from the situation.

I don't know what to do, shoul I ask him what he he feels for me, or
let it all happen what need to happen

I need some advice please, please, it's the first time I feel it for a guy

There is nothing that you can do except learn from the experience.

If you and a guy are meeting just for sex, know that before you take your pants off.

"Dates" with people that you don't know don't happen at a hotel. That's "fucking" not "dating".

If you're looking for a relationship, don't settle for sex with a stranger on a first date.

And never bareback. With anyone.

Go get tested. Go find someone else.

 

[CudDULL]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

Even if he did get tested it would be too soon to tell if he contracted HIV if that were the case but it would still be a good idea for both of you to go.

On that note, like your friend said if he really was interested he would have called. A guy that really likes you is gonna show you that he likes you. Lots of people lie just to have sex or people just don't say the truth because they don't want to feel guilty of hurting you.

Don't wait around for a guy that says he likes you, but doesn't show it.

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

One of two things. Either he charmed you to specifically get you to have (bareback) sex with him, or else he let his dick do some thinking for him, and he thought he actually WAS interested in you...until post-orgasm, at which point his brain took back over and decided he didn't.

Chalk it up to experience. Don't contact him anymore, and don't expect him to contact you. Get tested. And don't agree to bareback for anybody anymore.

Lex

 

[TX-Beau]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

For all you Americans from the South out there, Fair warning, immanent deployment of a "Sugar."

Sugar, you talked to a guy online, met him at a hotel, then he topped you bare for three hours. THEN you went out for dinner. This isn't a date. He pounded out what he felt for you then got hungry.

Further pursuit of "dating," this guy doesn't seem like it's going anywhere. Next time a guy asks you to meet him at a hotel room, think before you assume it's a "date."

And never, ever, ever, ever, ever let a strange man top you without a condom. You don't know where he's been, and considering his M.O, my GOD what a risk.

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

People lie to get sex. You are a good guy who made a serious mistake. Don't bareback during casual sex. Try to remember that sweet talk is not the same as sweet actions. Please take better care of yourself, emotionally and physically.

thanx bro, i have to tell u, I CANT GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD, it's my first time that i have that big, huge and grande crush on a guy

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

thanx y'all

well, first I have quite a fear of needles and more if it is for that test. Do u guys know if there is another easier method to get tested of HIV?

I must add that it is first time that I did bareback, and Before doing that he told me, it was her first time doing bareback to somebody too, but told me that he felt nothing with the condom on, that makes me doubt.

you guys scared me about bareback

 

[hotatlboi]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

you guys scared me about bareback

Fear is healthy in this case.

If the possibility of many thousands of dollars in medical expenses and possibly an early death is not something you want for yourself, then use protection.

People with HIV will sometimes lie to get you to bareback. It doesn't matter what he says. If he wants to bareback, assume he's positive.

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

Fear is healthy in this case.

If the possibility of many thousands of dollars in medical expenses and possibly an early death is not something you want for yourself, then use protection.

People with HIV will sometimes lie to get you to bareback. It doesn't matter what he says. If he wants to bareback, assume he's positive.

i always make they wore condoms, this my 1st time i did it, maybe because he is soooooooooooo hot, i don't know what the hell was i thinkin, man and i have to add that he cum inside me

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

thanx y'all

well, first I have quite a fear of needles and more if it is for that test. Do u guys know if there is another easier method to get tested of HIV?

There is a saliva test available but it is less reliable.

I must add that it is first time that I did bareback, and Before doing that he told me, it was her first time doing bareback to somebody too, but told me that he felt nothing with the condom on, that makes me doubt.

How do you know a horny guy is lying? His mouth moves.

Guys will lie to get sex.

If you say, "No condom. No sex. Take it or leave it.", they will take it. You're responsible for your own health.

you guys scared me about bareback

You should be scared.

And if you are going to bottom, you should bring your own condom. Never trust a top who brings his own condoms.

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

How long should I wait to get HIV test?

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

For all you Americans from the South out there, Fair warning, immanent deployment of a "Sugar."

Sugar, you talked to a guy online, met him at a hotel, then he topped you bare for three hours. THEN you went out for dinner. This isn't a date. He pounded out what he felt for you then got hungry.

Further pursuit of "dating," this guy doesn't seem like it's going anywhere. Next time a guy asks you to meet him at a hotel room, think before you assume it's a "date."

And never, ever, ever, ever, ever let a strange man top you without a condom. You don't know where he's been, and considering his M.O, my GOD what a risk.

what mean M.O

 

[hotatlboi]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

what mean M.O

the way he behaves (asking you to bareback when he doesn't even know you).

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

MO is short for "modus operandi", which means "method of operating". It was originally mainly used for criminals. "His MO is to wait until the house is empty, and then break in through the back door." It now pretty much applies to anybody, though.

>>>i always make they wore condoms, this my 1st time i did it, maybe because he is soooooooooooo hot

Guys who are sooooooooooo hot presumably can get sooooooo many guys to have sex with them. You probably aren't the first, in other words. Which is why the test is such a good idea.

>>>but told me that he felt nothing with the condom on

Bear this in mind - If a guy says "I can't feel anything with a condom on", that means he doesn't know what the hell he's doing. If lubed correctly, the condom isn't a detriment.

As for getting over your crush on him, just try to remember one major thing: He's a user who manipulated you to get you to have unsafe sex with them, and then decided sometime the next day that he had gotten all he could out of you. If that don't do it, I'm not sure what will.

Lex

 

[PetCuddlePuppy]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

it's a crush when you don't have sex. once you have sex and he still isn't interested, your future is totally tainted.

 

[KaraBulut]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

How long should I wait to get HIV test?

Recommended wait for HIV is 6 weeks after exposure, repeat at 3 months after exposure.

But HIV is not the only worry these days.

 

[PetCuddlePuppy]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

Recommended wait for HIV is 6 weeks after exposure, repeat at 3 months after exposure.

But HIV is not the only worry these days.

Right on! Working in a pharmacy I see more patients getting medication for herpes and genital warts more than anything else!

 

[kevinsexh8]

Re: I Have A Crush On A Hot Guy, Please Hep I Don't Know What To Do

Why are you so desperate? You had good sex right...ah but you want a repeat and expectations are in place already?? You see that's where things start to get "desperate"...Relax about it and don't set the bar too high about this - in fact try not to set any bar at all because he may not even attempt to rise to it (your expectations). Sure it would be great to think it's going somewhere but the odds are it's a one-off deal and he's already mentally moved on. Now he's just covering his tracks and he will only make excuses. He's cooled to you and that's what a one-off is. You may be beating a dead horse here trying to keep something going that isn't going from his side.

Yeahh, I don't know why am i so desperate, maybe cuz i wasn't lookin for love and he sold me the idea that he wanted somethin serious with me and told me a lot sweet words. and he told me: I will not waste this opportunity with you you're
everything I want in my life

I recently connected to msn at noon and he was there,
I asked him if something has happened, he told me that everything
was fine, that I should stop thinking that he was bahaving strange and cold and he said to my: My Kevin.(jejeej That'S my name)

I was happy, it totally change my day, wow that was areason to be beyond happy, then at night he did not log in in msn, yesterday I send him a text message i wrote him: " I hoped u doing great and have a great day. at night
I wait all the time and i notice that he logged to Facebook and immediately went off within seconds.

then I called him and ask him what the hell was happening?, he said he had a hard headache, even in his job but i noticed that his voice was distorted and fake, he told me that he wanted to keep talking to me but yesterday he have had a bad
day, i don't know if believe him or not. now i think that he is just looking for excuses, I honestly asked him the truth, but he said that everything goes smoothly and that he still had interest for me.

Now I will wait until today to see how everything goes. i'm thinking to invent a fake account on facebook and msn, only to realize that he is a liar.

I'm having trouble focusin' throught, it has been too hard to forget, I'm hurtin' but life goes on. I can't concentrate in my house, college, gym...I spent my time just thinkin' about him. I really believe that he stole my that spark of cool and happy guy that i used to had before.


( I know my english sucks, i can understand it very well but write is so difficult to me, I need learn grammar) : cry: