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I have a problem

I have the exact same problem! What I would do is simple. Just try to avoid women as much as possible. That's what I try to do.
 
Your reaction is extreme and I think you are characterizing it correctly as a problem. Something that you should try to change.
 
Well, at least you have no question about your sexuality.
I know I should not joke, but I have never heard of this. I think women are great, I just don't want to shack up with one.
 
This is something that sometimes younger guys have ("Ewwww. Cooties!") not someone who's 33. If, at 33, women have that strong an adverse effect on you, you need to get that resolved. That is, if you want it resolved. A good psychologist can get to the root of your reaction and have you modify it.

Good luck. Having half the population making you nauseous cannot be comfortable, let alone fun.
 
do you have any ideas as to why you feel this way? did you have any traumatic events in your life involving a female family member shouting at you all the time, or just anything? that may be the root of the problem. maybe you loathe women because they represent what others pressured you to be with, and now the women and their voices are your reminder of issues you had in the past?

all i can say is you should resolve that somehow, and find out why. you are depriving yourself of alot of really nice people, girls can be great friends, intelligent, insightful, caring, and generous with their love, all under the roof of "friendship" where no physical or sexual contact is needed/desired. they can be there for you if you give them another chance....and hey, they might be able to help you get to know other guys??

let us know what is going on ok?
 
The lack of some women's common sense and rational thinking ability does the same to me at times, but there are pleanty of decent ones out there!
 
Perhaps joining the navy or a monastery might resolve the issue - alternatively prisons are usually segregated on gender lines.
 
Sure, Its true, women never shut up lol. But i can stand them, they r great for partying with especially when ur drunk, but thats probably cause im bi so....
 
I never had a problem with women till I moved to Phoenix. The woman out here are crazy!! It has to be the heat. I have never seen more rude and confused woman in my life! I use to love working with woman but now I am so turned off to woman that I don't want to be around them. It's funny cause this woman who is in her 40's that I work with feels the same way. She has lived here her whole life and always talks about how she will only have male friends and work with men and how fucked up the woman are out here. Even the lesbian population is huge out here and they are the worst!! It breaks my heart cause lesbians were my fav people in the world.But I never watched straight porn cause anything with woman turns me off.I am gay though so why would i wanna see tits and pussy?Sometimes I watch the Cathouse on HBO and can't believe men pay these pigs for sex. It's a whole world I don't get.
 
Leitopt....You absolutely should seek some assistance with your self recognized dislike of females. It is a very good sign that you recognize it as a problem and do not sound like a dangerous psychopath, but your life would be a lot more enjoyable if you could enjoy the company of all people you might be with.
 
rareboy said:
Leitopt....You absolutely should seek some assistance with your self recognized dislike of females. ... but your life would be a lot more enjoyable if you could enjoy the company of all people you might be with.
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Well said! Aside from my husband, the people I love most are women: my mother, my sister and my daughters. My closest friends have always been women. Although I have some close male friends, I always found it easier to be open and relaxed around women because there is rarely any sexual tension or undertones.
 
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