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I have always turned down Bisexuals

I was on a dating website for a while and was talking to this gay guy over MSN, and he actually told me that if I wanted to accrue much interest from other (gay) guys then I'd have to change my orientation in my profile from bisexual to gay. Personally I think that's a rather ludicrous form of discrimination, and frankly I've gotten pissed off once or twice in the past when guys have gone completely cold on me after finding out that I'm bi.

I enter relationships because I'm attracted to the other person, and yes it does so happen that I find myself attracted to both women and other men, but that doesn't make me any more likely to cheat on someone I'm going out with, or any more likely to be confused about my feelings/desires. I am what I am, and if people feel uncomfortable because of that fact then ultimately it's going to be their loss if they choose not to form a friendship or relationship with me based on their fears and misconceptions.
 
All you have to make clear right in the beginning of dating a bi-guy is, in case you want to find someone for a ltr, if that specific guy is able to be emotionally attracted to men as a gay guy (many of them aren't ). If you just look for sex, well then it doesn't matter anyways.
 
I've started to think it's really not a big deal to be bisexual. If they like me, and I like them, I can't stop it there...I don't think it's a definite sign of cheating at all. With some maybe, but then there are so many straight up gay people who cheat it's not a fair assumption to make. I would almost rather have a bi guy so I can know that I am someone really special if I am a guy and he likes me, because there are women for him too :) Bisexuals are slightly more attractive to me, also, because I really have a thing for manly guys who express their masculine side
 
MaxMouse said:
I've started to think it's really not a big deal to be bisexual. If they like me, and I like them, I can't stop it there...I don't think it's a definite sign of cheating at all. With some maybe, but then there are so many straight up gay people who cheat it's not a fair assumption to make. I would almost rather have a bi guy so I can know that I am someone really special if I am a guy and he likes me, because there are women for him too :) Bisexuals are slightly more attractive to me, also, because I really have a thing for manly guys who express their masculine side
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I must agree. I prefer bisexual guys also.
 
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