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you never should do anything you don't like.
Id you don't like the idea of deepthorating than don't do it.
if you don't like the idea of somebody else cuming on your than don't do it.
if you don' want to rim... again don't do it.


If you want to deepthroat and you gag than ask your partner to just sit and not push his dick into your mouth, you gotta play with it your self to find the way not to gag.
 
"Gay" doesn't mean "gives rim jobs" anymore than it means "lisping" or "fashion whore". Yes, there are those that do it, but there are those that don't. "Gay" means "is turned on by guys, and enjoys doing sexual things with guys". Not "enjoys doing ALL sexual things with guys". :)

Lex
 
oj89ac said:
:confused:i have never - taken a load
- done deep throat
- been came on
- given a rim
- tried my own cum
am i the only openly gay guy who has been out for about 3 years and not done these things
please :help: i cant even try these things because i just gag is there a way to get around that cause i want to be able to for my new man:help:](*,)
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Hi oj and welcome to JUB.

You are 18 and partnered. I think you should stop worrying about the things you have not done and the things you cannot do and just enjoy each other's company. Kiss each other, hold each other, do a lot of touching. Take a bath or shower together. Get to know each other inside and out and that means know him and what he thinks and letting him know you. Get to know each other's bodies. Be playful and affectionate with each other and concentrate on what you are comfortable doing.
Most of all, COMMUNICATE. If he needs to be patient with you, he will have to be patient. There are some things you may never like or want to do. Some things you will probably learn to love. Learn from each other.

Relax and love each other. It is about love first, you know?
 
Well in that case, best advice I've heard is... takes time to get used to it.

Might be weird at first but only will become natural with time... so dive in! ha
 
Hey OJ,

Mate... the guys here as always are spot on. You should never do anything you dont want to do. The question for you is...do you actually want to do any of those things? And if so whats stopping you?

The best thing you can do is simply be honest and open with your guy. Tell him how you feel, explain it to him - that its not him, its just that at the moment thats how you feel about these things.

You might find with his support and understanding that you can try new things without fear of judgment or revulsion. Trusting a loved one to help you explore your boundaries can be a beautiful and amazing thing.

Alternatively by being honest you'll maybe allay some of his fears as to why you wont do these things - he may be wondering whats wrong with him...

Being gay doesn't mean you have to do anything you dont want to. Ever. Theres no rule book and everyone has there own "things". Dont feel bad or ashamed or less of a person because of who you are - thats why your guy is with you.

Just make sure you're honest and respectful of him... and yourself.
 
There's no pressure for you to try these things. So long as you and your bf understand each other, I'm sure new experiences will come along. Don't let him force you if your not ready yet as well and just take things easy :)
 
I have never
rimmed
deep throated
allowed someone to cum on me or in my mouth
nor have I tried my own cum
trust me I could go on with my never have I evers

I have been out for five years and there are some things that I won't do and I am cool with my boundaries--if other people aren't then that is their loss
 
I have never
been kissed by a guy
touched by a guy
had sex
had a boyfriend

i've been out for 3 years.

Chill. Calm down, know what you are willing to do because you want to. There is no point in doing something you don't want to because it would make you feel bad, I know I would feel bad. Just think first, and listen to everyone, but mostly yourself.

boundaries are a good thing to have, and an open mind, but mostly an understanding of what you know you want and need.
 
sixthson said:
Hi oj and welcome to JUB.

You are 18 and partnered. I think you should stop worrying about the things you have not done and the things you cannot do and just enjoy each other's company. Kiss each other, hold each other, do a lot of touching. Take a bath or shower together. Get to know each other inside and out and that means know him and what he thinks and letting him know you. Get to know each other's bodies. Be playful and affectionate with each other and concentrate on what you are comfortable doing.
Most of all, COMMUNICATE. If he needs to be patient with you, he will have to be patient. There are some things you may never like or want to do. Some things you will probably learn to love. Learn from each other.

Relax and love each other. It is about love first, you know?
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I don't believe I've heard sweeter words than these.
 
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