I have some good news and some bad news

[JFarm89]

Depending on who you are.

I'm looking to go out on a date with a girl. And perhaps be a soul mate with her.

Any thoughts? I still love boys too but I figure. I might as well make everyone happy in my family and settle with a girl instead of a guy. But the good news is that i'll be taking lovely naked photos of myself.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Eh, it might make your family happy, but if you're unhappy, then that's not good But I hope you will be able to find that girl And as for lovely naked pics, yeeeeeeee ;D

 

[nbluth]

Don't do it to make your family happy, do it to make you happy. If you meet a girl that you think is the "one," by all means go for it. But my advice would be not to settle just to please others.

 

[JFarm89]

No I'm happy. I'm Bi so I could settle for either gender. I prefer girls a tad bit more. But at the same time, I wanna suck a lovely young man's delicious cock. lol

 

[Seasoned]

I don't want to raise anyone's ire, but my belief is some people use the term bisexuality as a transitition period or as something to soften the blow to themselves or loved ones. I was married and from the beginning had a desire to be sexual with a man. I supressed it as long as I could practacally to the point of suicide.

I guess what I am saying is to try and keep an open mind. In many ways I believe true bisexuality is the most difficult sexual orientation as it either involves exceptionally understanding persons or a double life of deceit.

I certainly wish you the best a hope the right people are placed in your life.

 

[evanrick]

but why? and why share it with us?

 

[mbamike]

I wish you well my friend. I hope you realize what you are doing.

I was married and had a kid. Went through a hellacious divorce too. I hope that doesn't happen to you.

 

[JFarm89]

Thanks fellas. I really do hope that I'll be living happily with a girl. But the girl that I'm looking at is not so much into sex or a serious relationship. Which is too bad, cause I like a bit of fun. lol

But it's hard being a guy, you gotta resist the temptations of wanting sex. But with a lot of dudes we just go all out. lol

 

[Willie Boy]

I don't want to raise anyone's ire, but my belief is some people use the term bisexuality as a transitition period or as something to soften the blow to themselves or loved ones. I was married and from the beginning had a desire to be sexual with a man. I supressed it as long as I could practacally to the point of suicide.

I guess what I am saying is to try and keep an open mind. In many ways I believe true bisexuality is the most difficult sexual orientation as it either involves exceptionally understanding persons or a double life of deceit.

How so? Bisexuality means simply that you can enjoy sex with both male and female partners. It does not mean you have a relationship with each at the same time any more than being gay means you have more than one partner at a time.

I am bisexual, I nearly married a wonderful woman, but she died of cancer. I have a partner who is male and we are committed to each other. He is gay but doesn't cheat on me with other men, and I don't cheat on him with men or women.

Being bisexual means you feel comfortable choosing a partner from either side, that requires neither deceit nor exceptional understanding. Us bi's need exceptional patience to deal with the idiotic notions that gays insist on creating about us do to their lack of understanding. Sadly the little over two years of being inundated with the farce that I can NOT be faithful to my male partner solely because of my bisexuality has pretty much eroded the last of my exceptional patience on the subject.

But enough about me. Enjoy your fantasy world.



As to the OP. One thing in your post drew a red flag. You don't choose who your soul-mate is, that just happens. It is not completely uncommon for a straight male to have a male soul-mate. The relationship of the soul-mate is not a sexual one.

 

[Zabotugi]

Depending on who you are.

I'm looking to go out on a date with a girl. And perhaps be a soul mate with her.

Any thoughts? I still love boys too but I figure. I might as well make everyone happy in my family and settle with a girl instead of a guy. But the good news is that i'll be taking lovely naked photos of myself.

No bad news here....

 

[JFarm89]

And that's the bad news...for your girl.

Correct, that's the bad news if she finds out that I also suck cock that could raise some questions. But thing that I wouldn't be able to do, is marry a man, just because of my parents. And my other friends would freak out and say that I'm gay and blah blah blah. Then I would really have to make some new friends and build my own family. I know I'm spouting away, I'm probably worrying for nothing.

I've took a look on manhunt.com and saw what they had to offer. One of my gay friends said that I should take a look at it, to see if it perks my interest and it does. But then again, I might have to limit myself in what I want to do. I would have to keep the relationship discrete, and limit the sexual activities that I do. There would be no bad news if my parents and friends don't care about it.

 

[AcquiredTaste]

Thanks fellas. I really do hope that I'll be living happily with a girl. But the girl that I'm looking at is not so much into sex or a serious relationship. Which is too bad, cause I like a bit of fun. lol

But it's hard being a guy, you gotta resist the temptations of wanting sex. But with a lot of dudes we just go all out. lol

If the girl you like isn't too interested in a serious relationship, then now might be a good time to explore your other feelings/desires (sounds like you've already started to look and found it appealing) and see where it takes you.

Everything changes once you're in a committed relationship. You'll never have more freedom than you do now.