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I jacked off my best friend
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That would make you fuck-buddies. I guess if he's not interested in emotional love, there's little you can do about it. He's clearly horny, so, enjoy it whilst it lasts. When he moves on, don't feel too disappointed, but savour the time you've had together.
I'm not saying he might go 'straight', but he might move on, say find work elsewhere and no longer be nearby.
I'm not saying he might go 'straight', but he might move on, say find work elsewhere and no longer be nearby.
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Sometimes it just happens (and its cool) Just dont take it to heart or some one will get hurt(Live and let live) FRIENDS HELP FRIENDS 
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I've had straight buds (all of whom eventually got married, and had kids), who liked to "mess around" now, and then. With a few it became as casual as having a beer together, and never meant anything more than that.
The main thing was, it was clearly understood that it was Never anything to "Talk" about! Not only NEVER in Public, but also NEVER in Private!!
We didn't even talk about whether we Liked it, or not! (Though, apparently, we did 'cause we kept doing it!) Part of that was because "Talking" was considered a "Chick" thing to do!
Also, "Talking" about it would mean admitting "It"! And if there's one thing that guys who identify as Str8 don't want to be reminded of is that they might not be completely Str8! (Yeah! Guys can be "complicated", too!)
SO ... if you enjoy "playing" with your Str8 Bud, just keep doing it, but don't ever bring it up in conversation! Consider it "Sex as Sport"! Playing with each others' bodies can be as casual as swapping clothes, going out for a beer, or sharing a ride. The "trick" is not having it "Mean" Anything!
If you want your friendship to get back to the way it was before, just pretend/act like that's exactly how it is! Nothing "More". Nothing "Less".
Of course, no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
The main thing was, it was clearly understood that it was Never anything to "Talk" about! Not only NEVER in Public, but also NEVER in Private!!
We didn't even talk about whether we Liked it, or not! (Though, apparently, we did 'cause we kept doing it!) Part of that was because "Talking" was considered a "Chick" thing to do!
Also, "Talking" about it would mean admitting "It"! And if there's one thing that guys who identify as Str8 don't want to be reminded of is that they might not be completely Str8! (Yeah! Guys can be "complicated", too!)
SO ... if you enjoy "playing" with your Str8 Bud, just keep doing it, but don't ever bring it up in conversation! Consider it "Sex as Sport"! Playing with each others' bodies can be as casual as swapping clothes, going out for a beer, or sharing a ride. The "trick" is not having it "Mean" Anything!
If you want your friendship to get back to the way it was before, just pretend/act like that's exactly how it is! Nothing "More". Nothing "Less".
Of course, no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
I agree dont talk about if he does not want to. I had a str8 roommate after the first time I serviced him he said thanks but that wont happen again a few weeks later horny as hell he said you mind helping me out.
After that at least once a wek even if he had fucked a girl he would sort of nod then in his room tell me what he wanted. My only rule if you fuck me I am on my back. It got to the point it was like he was making love to me. This went on for 2 years now he is married.
After that at least once a wek even if he had fucked a girl he would sort of nod then in his room tell me what he wanted. My only rule if you fuck me I am on my back. It got to the point it was like he was making love to me. This went on for 2 years now he is married.
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I agree about the not talking about it thing. It's weird but some "straight" and bi guys don't want to talk about it or get into details about why it happened. Talking about it and trying to push it will usually gauranee it to never happen again.
I just wish I could get into something like this with one of my straight friends. Sounds like such a hot fantasy.
I just wish I could get into something like this with one of my straight friends. Sounds like such a hot fantasy.
texan_slant
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Agreed with everyone here; if you enjoy it, take it for what it is, and let it be, and he clearly doesn't want to talk about it.
Unfortunately, nobody here has addressed the situation in which "you" might want it to stop (as hot as this situation might be...), and if that is the case, it would be hard to unring that bell.
I was in a similar situation with a married straight guy, however, I felt taken for granted. Unfortunately, this was probably because I was also falling for the guy, so I stopped putting out while my friend was still expecting it, and then tension ensued.
I'm not saying that the same thing would happen to you; if the friendship was strong enough, then you'd be able to overcome that. I'm just saying that, you may or may not have to work through any kind of shift in the dynamics of your friendship.
Unfortunately, nobody here has addressed the situation in which "you" might want it to stop (as hot as this situation might be...), and if that is the case, it would be hard to unring that bell.
I was in a similar situation with a married straight guy, however, I felt taken for granted. Unfortunately, this was probably because I was also falling for the guy, so I stopped putting out while my friend was still expecting it, and then tension ensued.
I'm not saying that the same thing would happen to you; if the friendship was strong enough, then you'd be able to overcome that. I'm just saying that, you may or may not have to work through any kind of shift in the dynamics of your friendship.
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that's hot
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Well my young latino californiatista..
I would say it isn't worth having a stroke over a poke.
Actually, Theres more to that than the joke.
If he only wants to do friends with benefits and you like the benefits, collect them while you can...Fullerton is full of candidates for other kinds of more serious friendships.
I would say it isn't worth having a stroke over a poke.
Actually, Theres more to that than the joke.
If he only wants to do friends with benefits and you like the benefits, collect them while you can...Fullerton is full of candidates for other kinds of more serious friendships.
