I just met a guy at the gym...

[Scandalous]

ok... it's over!!!
he's an asshole!
today i went back to the gym and he was there, of course...
i said hi in the locker room and nothing else cause my phone rang...
then i met him while he was doin' nothing and said "hey, how are ya?"
and he moves his head the other direction saying something that sounded like a "fine" and went away...
then i went to my friend's place and he told me that that friend who knows him said that he said something like " i met your friend... what does he want from me?"
i am so angry!!
i mean, what's wrong with you? are you afraid of making new friends?
however... tomorrow i'm gonna ask my friend what exactly he said...
then i think i'm never gonna talk to him again...

 

[jamessmith08]

Why are you relying on communications between friends of friends?

That's the most dramatic BS ever!

If you want to know him chat with him, if he isn't in the mood to chat then continue you're workout. If he's truly interested he'll continue to chat, if not then it wouldn't workout.

Although I have to say, from what I'm reading the whole thing might've been screwed up if a friend of your friend talked to him. You never know what was actually said and he just might not like the fact that some guy was gossiping about him.

Its always best NOT to include friends in romantic pursuits.

Moral of the story: Don't make your life revolve around someone else; especially someone you don't even know.

 

[Scandalous]

but i do know my friends and beside he's the first one who talked to her about me..... well, actually i only asked her whether she knew him or not...
however... it's in the past, now....

 

[rareboy]

Oh get over it.....

You made an attempt.

Obviously he isn't interested and you kinda freaked him out apparently.

It doesn't make him an asshole.

Just leave him alone.

And go out and make some nice friends.