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I just want to be loved.

Lots of good advice above, but everybody seems to be leaving out one thing. Step 1--expand your social circle to include more gay people. You don't have to date them, but they'll know others, invite you to parties, etc. Otherwise, I'm afraid you're going to find yourself continue to fall for taken straight guys :/
 
I just want to be with someone, who will be there for me, someone who is there with me through the good and bad.
 
I just want to be with someone, who will be there for me, someone who is there with me through the good and bad.
 
As much as a boyfriend can be great, a best-friend is even better. He or she can be there for you through your ups and downs.

Are you interested in any of the organisations at your student activities office? The SAO is a great place to find things to do and meet people. Do they have a GLB club?
 
Leavemealone said:
I just want to be with someone, who will be there for me, someone who is there with me through the good and bad.
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the post above gave you good advice -

you want someone to be with you lifelong that will probably be a friend, not a lover - being naive about meeting someone and all the true love shit will just fuck your mind and emotions more -

i think talking to a school counselor could be good, because you have a lot of emotional issues going in, and I say that because I have been there, most of us have
 
Though I'm not familiar with it, the center on halstead boasts itself as a sort of center for all. I think they may have some youth programs (for people younger than us old folk ;) ). It might be something to look into.
 
Well, I can identify with you leavemealone in more ways than one. I'm pretty lonely myself and I'm too afraid to go to gay clubs myself. :(
 
Leavemealone said:
lol.
I picked Leave me alone as my screen name is because many people in my life have hurt me.
That is why i picked it.
but now those people in my life are gone.
and i want to be happy again.
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Aww. I hope we both find stellar boyfriends!!

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You are definitely sending mixed signals. Your name is leavemealone, yet you want to be loved?

I met my lover online.
 
merogerger said:
Sometimes I feel like that, but kinda different: sometimes I want to give love! lol I feel that there is too much love inside me, and that I need to take it out... and it hurts :( ...never mind, I think I'm just speaking gibberish right now :confused:

Anyway, the only thing I got to say: the easiest way to love is not taking the easy way, just taking the way. ;)
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That's not jibberish, in fact, it makes plenty of sense, hun! ;)
 
Well, LMA, there's this. You seem to want a "relationship". Nothing wrong with that, but think of relationships like hamburgers. (It's a stretch, I admit.) You see someone else with a burger, and you think "Wow, I'd love a burger, too." So you pine for one, and maybe finally get one...but what if it isn't any good? What if you get one of those dry burgers, with chewy meat, and a stale bun, and wilty lettuce, and everything else you hate about burgers?

I say this because I've seen people fall into this trap feeling that once they're in a relationship, everything will be wonderful. No. There's plenty of bad relationships, as people here can tell you. And even in a good relationship, that doesn't solve all your problems. It just swaps out your "alone problems" ("I have no one to talk to") for "couple problems" ("I need to keep thinking about this other person's wants and needs"). This isn't meant to make you want to give up on finding someone - I wouldn't trade my relationship for anything. But don't assume that everybody in a relationship is necessarily happier than everybody not in one, K? :)

How'd I meet mine? Online. Playing a word game. We kept running into each other while playing. We chatted in the "chat window", exchanged private messages, then e-mails, then phone calls. Then he came to visit me, and I him. Finally he moved out here. His friends took a poll guessing how long it'd be before he moved back - the longest guess was six months.

That was over nine years ago.

Lex
 
wow.
its just that im tired of being alone.
no one to talk.
yeah i have my friends, but there is so much i could tell them.
 
Then they're not friends. If I hide things fro my friends, then we're not friends. THey sound like acquaintances to me.

And I love that burger analogy.

And why is everyone so needy? I always find one person online or in real life who has this mentality that life just spontaneously becomes filled with rainbows and sunshine once you get into a relationship.
 
Then perhaps it's time to put these friendships to the test. Friends - REAL friends - are people you can talk to about anything. You might have "buds" - people you hang out with and talk baseball with and what have you, but unless you can say, "I really need to talk to you about something", I wouldn't classify them as friends.

Lex
 
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