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I know I posted this before...
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G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
There are very few people who deserve to be alone.
Go out and make something happen tonight.
Lex
Go out and make something happen tonight.
Lex
I really do try, but that's my problem! I try and fail... again and again...
Where are you looking? How are you trying to hook up? Are you looking for a "steamy encounter" or a LTR?
You're right, though, you do not deserve to be alone. No one does.
You're right, though, you do not deserve to be alone. No one does.
G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
You don't fail. You simply haven't succeeded yet. And the two aren't synonymous.
Keep taking steps forward.
Look online for a possible "looking for friends/more" website.
Say "hi" to at least two strangers tomorrow.
Check into community college (or similar) classes you can take about subjects you've been interested in but never studied.
Strike up a conversation with a co-worker you've never really talked with before.
No, none of these things will instantly put a man by your side. Nothing will. But all of them will increase your chances, put you out there in front of more people, and expand your circle of friends. And those friends have friends...
Lex
Keep taking steps forward.
Look online for a possible "looking for friends/more" website.
Say "hi" to at least two strangers tomorrow.
Check into community college (or similar) classes you can take about subjects you've been interested in but never studied.
Strike up a conversation with a co-worker you've never really talked with before.
No, none of these things will instantly put a man by your side. Nothing will. But all of them will increase your chances, put you out there in front of more people, and expand your circle of friends. And those friends have friends...
Lex
boy0boy
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I thought about it the other night while gazing at the hot guys surrounding me.
I bet they'd be happy for me to go over and start a conversation. I mean these are hot dudes that just seem lonely. Although I didn't do this. It made me feel better about things overall. Normally you look at people and imagine they are well off and in a good position. Just consciously changing your thinking about that while IN the situation is illuminating.
Eventually hopefully you can do as Lex suggest and go out in a more forward manner. Till then if you don't already, try changing your thoughts first.
I bet they'd be happy for me to go over and start a conversation. I mean these are hot dudes that just seem lonely. Although I didn't do this. It made me feel better about things overall. Normally you look at people and imagine they are well off and in a good position. Just consciously changing your thinking about that while IN the situation is illuminating.
Eventually hopefully you can do as Lex suggest and go out in a more forward manner. Till then if you don't already, try changing your thoughts first.
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Keep taking chances. At 19, we're not ready to close the book on you yet.
Work on overcoming your diffidence.
Try to be friendly with everyone you meet and not like so many guys that seem to look like they're culling the herd and only have time to smile or take notice of the guys they're gunning for.
Work on overcoming your diffidence.
Try to be friendly with everyone you meet and not like so many guys that seem to look like they're culling the herd and only have time to smile or take notice of the guys they're gunning for.